what would you do when you feel alone?
By efeng186
@efeng186 (20)
China
April 18, 2013 7:14am CST
what would you do when you feel alone,some grils maybe together with their friends go outside to go shopping,some boys would maybe play football,basketball to spend their free time,when i feel alone,i would choose to listen to the old songs,those old songs alwanys make me recall that days on my past,and how about you?what would you do when you feel alone.
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@amelly (1554)
• Malaysia
19 Apr 13
..hey there
as for me, i would like to search online for anything interesting..as im really into small bussiness and all that, just for d sake of extra pocket money, i would go wild searching for things that i can made and sell...there;s actually a lot of things that could be done..during my last semester break, i tried to dance to k-pop songs and it was so much fun..especially when there;s nobody to disturb you..
you should try that...there;s a lot of boy group such as beast, super junior, 2pm, tvxq..
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@Belle_of_the_Ball (896)
• Philippines
19 Apr 13
hey amelly :) Sounds cool. Guess what? When I was a teenager, I used to dance with much gusto in front of the mirror when there was nobody home but me. It was quite a lot of fun! And a good exercise,too!
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@taiwanlife (745)
• Philippines
18 Apr 13
I go to the park and just watch the world go by. The sun is up now and different people from all walks of life. People of different character are in groups doing there own amusement or some just alone like me, seated on the grass or on the bench watching others or staring afar.
I also like going to a coffee shop with a good book and just stay there for hours. If I am tired with my book then I could just stay there, again just slumped lazily on my chair just enjoying the buzzing sound of people chatting. I go to the mall too window shopping and would just try all the clothes I fancy even if I end up not buying anything. When I was younger I could just sit around in the house, never got bored and never felt alone. I am alone alright but it is just that I always valued my own solitude. I am one of those kind of people.:)
@efeng186 (20)
• China
18 Apr 13
yes,maybe,everyone has their happy childhood,when we grow up,we would become to feel alone,but we would try my best to change the case,we should share our loneliness with our best friends,maybe,they could told us how to solve the case.do not feel alone,because there are a lot of people watching you.
@Belle_of_the_Ball (896)
• Philippines
19 Apr 13
@Taiwan
Hi there! I guess we both value solitude.Sometimes, I go out with friends especially during weekends but not quite often. I work from home and that goes to say that I am practically glued on my swivel chair doing stuff on the internet and talking to people on skype almost day and night. So I actually feel not so "alone". The only time that I feel really "alone" is when my laptop is off.
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@Belle_of_the_Ball (896)
• Philippines
19 Apr 13
I like doing stuff when I am alone. I write, read, pray, listen to the radio and most of all doing handicrafts! I can actually do more stuff when I alone because nobody bothers me. When I am super duper bored I chat to my friends on facebook or sleep. Sometimes, I go malling or buy groceries to fill my fridge.
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@cgalavia (1436)
• Philippines
18 Apr 13
When i feel alone and so bored,I just watched the scenery in front of our house which is a park,looking for people who passes by,people who used to play lawn tennis,some youngsters who are also playing basketball then there are also kiddies who play around in the park, by seeing those people having enjoyed, I am also enjoyed and feel relieved.It makes me happy already.I do read books also when i get tired watching at the park..So that's how I spend my lonely time.
@gigi10466 (9)
• United States
19 Apr 13
When I feel alone, I do what makes me feel happy. Most of the time I read. I absolutely love reading. Other times I listen to music, go for a walk, cook/bake, or clean (cleaning gives me a chance to think and put things in perspective). Being alone is not always a bad thing. It can be a chance to do new things or meet new people. When you feel alone or lonely you have to stop and think. Why do I feel this way? What happened to make me feel this way? What can I do to stop feeling this way?
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
19 Apr 13
I think it is always good to keep oneself busy than to spend time alone. I think most probably it is good idea to spend time with friends and families and to visit the friends. I think when we keep ourselves busy, we will not feel lonely.
@kukueye (1759)
• Malaysia
19 Apr 13
Well, i got many things to do when i am alone. actually being alone is a blessing for me , which mean i have me time , time to rest and do my own stuffs. I can play xbox , browse internet , read news and latest articles and do gardening and housework and many more . Alone time is a leisure time for me too , I can go eat byself and enjoy the free wi fi , do some mylot and other stuffs.
@BannedHelsing (693)
• Philippines
19 Apr 13
If i needed solitude, I will go to church to pray. But if I feel alone and lonely, I go out and meet friends. Nothing beats loneliness but companions.
@jeannie53 (28)
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19 Apr 13
you are so right and god say if u want a friend u must show your self frendley u are so right
@babyeve (1048)
• Seychelles
19 Apr 13
Use your imagination. Think about everything that brings you joy. Imagine your dream career or dream life. It'll give you hope for tomorrow. Imagine that dream person you would love to lie next to you at night is right there.
Read a good book. Your personal relationship with yourself will be enhanced as you enter a different world through the words in a good book. Go to the library or start your own collection of a favorite author, join a book club where you can discuss in more detail what you've read. At the same time, you will feel a sense of belonging and accomplishment
@inopiratum_a_medio12 (877)
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19 Apr 13
When I'm alone I usually write, read, sound tripping and watch dvd's comedy and love story to feel better
@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
19 Apr 13
I have a lot of things to do when I am alone especially in the house. I can do with the laptop all day or just do some chores in the house. I seldom listen to music anymore because I got tons to do. I only do that when I want to lull myself to sleep
@Ashokraj (107)
• India
19 Apr 13
When i am alone and feel alone, i just enjoy the loneliness. There is a different type of happy in the loneliness. Did anyone feel it. I felt it many times. In fact i want to be alone. That is like doing meditation.