She loved me even after her marriage

Broken heart - My heart is broken
@Ashokraj (107)
India
April 18, 2013 2:05pm CST
In my school days a girl loved me. But we didn't speak even a single word. But i realized she was loving me. That's the power of love. After school study we didn't have contact. I forgot her and i think she also forgot me. But one day suddenly she contacted me. She told me that she got married. She refused but their parents compelled and make her married. She told that she love me til now and she wants to talk to me always. She called me everyday. What Should i do?
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@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
18 Apr 13
My thoughts are a bit different when it comes to forced/arranged marriages. I'd never expect loyalty in such a relationship and I find it ridiculous for anyone else to either. I mean.. its two people who don't even love each other stuck together for the rest of their lives. It is the one case extra marital affairs should be allowed. Ya'll scold me if you want. I don't care Anyhow, all I'm reading here is that she loved/loves you. Do you love her? If you're not serious then don't bother. It's not use in leading her on.
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@blackrusty (3519)
• Mexico
18 Apr 13
well that is both a happy story and a sad story well as you know she is married so i would not get involved with here in this way it is ok to be a friend only time will tell what may happen for you and I only can wish you the best of luck
@Ashokraj (107)
• India
18 Apr 13
Thank you for your comment friend. I want her to live her live with her life partner happily without my disturbance(My memories and love). I am trying to avoid her. But she keep on disturbing me. As you said i also think that i shouldn't involve in her life
• Mexico
18 Apr 13
well i hope that you will find peace and love in your life and that one day you you will find a love that will make you as happy as you can be I do wish you all the best in the world
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
18 Apr 13
First of all do you love her? I'm gathering she does not love her husband. If this is the case for both of you then she needs to divorce her husband so she can be with you. For her to be calling you while still married is bascially cheating. She needs to do the right thing in order to be with you. That's if that is what you want. Now if you are married or not interested. Then tell her that she needs to stop calling because as much as I see you love me I don't love you in the same way.
@Ashokraj (107)
• India
19 Apr 13
I don't love her. I loved another girl. She is everything for me. But she rejected my love because of money. She said that money is important to her and not my love. I truly love her but she rejected me because of money. But that girl, my schoolmate love me even after her marriage. This creates something in my mind. I don't know what to do...
• Pamplona, Spain
19 Apr 13
Hello ashok, Even so I would keep a long distance from her avoid her all you can. Its a really difficult situation. It must be confusing for you to have had that other girl tell you that and you loving her so much as well. Love is never an easy thing sometimes. You will find someone else in time and the Girl who loves you should settle down in the finish.
@cttolledo (5454)
• Legaspi, Philippines
19 Apr 13
She's married right..? she's in love with you... so she is not in her reality senses! So If I were you, I'll tell her to stop calling... help her to realize that she is married and she has responsibility to her husband and that includes to be loyalty.. So, if she really don't love her husband.. she should fix it first before planning to pursue her love to you...Do what is right! make it sure that every decision that you will made no people will hurt with your decision.
@Ashokraj (107)
• India
19 Apr 13
I tried to explain her my situation. But her situation is even worse. Her husband doesn't know what is love, how to keep his wife happy, how live married life. He doesn't consider her as wife at all. She can't be happy with his husband. She told me that she wanted to speak with me everyday and this was enough for her happiness. I advised her to be happy with her husband forgetting me.
• Canada
19 Apr 13
I am sure she is upset, and you are too, but you know, when time passes in such situation it often becomes too late. And since she is married, there is not really a future for either of you. For her happiness, it is only smart for you to let her go and liver her life, and just cut off all contact, because you never know, later in life, this contact might come and hurt you, if her husband finds out. So just stay away. And if she still doesnt leave you alone, then just make up a story of your parents making your get married or you have some love interest in someone else. because it is for you both's benefit!
@Ashokraj (107)
• India
19 Apr 13
No need to make up a story. I loved another girl. I told this to her. But she said that She didn't care about it, She love me and want me to speak with her even if i love another girl and get married
@cgalavia (1436)
• Philippines
18 Apr 13
Hello Ashokraj, For me, forcing someone to get married is a violation of human right and i think this right is being abused by many.She must have a freedom or everyone should exercise this right - to choose for the man/woman wants to be with.About your question,Well,I think you should talk to her to stop calling or maybe ignored her at all.It is better not to get involved to her marriage,what she is doing is against the rule of a married couple.