My mother's friend possibly showing signs she's interested, not sure though
By crusoe1
@crusoe1 (9)
Australia
April 19, 2013 8:01pm CST
My mother's friend often comes round to our house for dinner or drinks. She is the type to wear short dresses, lots of make-up etc. even though shes in her 40s, so she is definitely a bit of a cougar. She is also a really touchy person and is always touching me and flirting with me. Basically I'm pretty sure shes keen. However I don't want to make the first move and then she rejects me and it all becomes really awkward. On the other hand, it could be worth the risk. So should I just wait it out for her to make the first move or just go for it?
6 responses
@robspeakman (1700)
•
20 Apr 13
Interested in what?
SciFi?
Football?
"Even though she is in her 40's" - Cheeky Git. It doesn't stop working in your 40's you know
She could be teasing you?
Ask her
@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
20 Apr 13
lol. i am surprised at you guys. i thought you were going to talk him out of it. good for you! that's what i am talking about.
@jacada77 (19)
• Philippines
23 Apr 13
If she's married, it's a no go. If she's not, fine. But, I agree with 41CombedaleRoad 100%. Bear in mind that these things don't usually remain a secret for long. If you do hook up with this woman and it doesn't work out, it's going to be awkward for everyone involved. Including your entire family. Think about these consequences before you act. But heck, you're not a minor. I'm not stopping you. Let us know how it goes.
@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
20 Apr 13
ooh la la. this is goooood! nice and juicy. thank you for sharing, for of us all. i think that neither of you will have to make the first move. i think it's just going to happen naturally. don't keep it to yourself when it does. lol.
. what i mean is, keep us posted. r
. what i mean is, keep us posted. r
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
23 Apr 13
I hope you don't mind me asking this, but you seem to want to hook up at any chick available. Besides, this woman is your friend's mom, atleast give a little respect to your friend. The woman might be into it, but, I don't think that you should get yourself hooked with her....just a friendly advice.
@41CombedaleRoad (5954)
• Greece
20 Apr 13
Are you hoping to become someone's toy boy? Bear in mind that if she gets you she is bound to boast about it, so it will not be a secret for long. you will have to live with that however.
If she is married I would strongly advise against making any move except distancing yourself.
@docdofeshmirtz (58)
• United States
20 Apr 13
I think the best thing to do is let her do the first move. You should prob start losing up to. Maybe try to get her alone.
