How to talk to and seduce older women?

Australia
April 19, 2013 8:51pm CST
I'm 18 and I am fairly keen to get with an older woman, I've had a few flirt with me but I am yet to convert it to anything. I just feel a bit out of my depth, it is completely different to talking to chicks my age, do you let the older woman make the first move? I feel like all the things I like to talk about are irrelevant to her and vice-versa. Also I feel like they expect me to buy them a drink in bars when I'm not gonna waste my money on some chick I just met. Thoughts from any cougars out there or just anyone really would be appreciated.
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• United States
20 Apr 13
tell them "Ill teach you how do use a computer." sold.
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• Australia
21 Apr 13
your making a lot of sense my friend, i will have to try it
• United Kingdom
21 Apr 13
but not much cents! lol
@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
21 Apr 13
Try meeting these women somewhere that doesn't involve a bar. IF you're dealing with cougars you really shouldn't have to put on that much of an effort seeing as how they prefer younger men to begin with. They ought to know there will be a lot of difference between you and their same age counterparts.
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• United Kingdom
21 Apr 13
Hmmmmmmmm!
@succeednow (1633)
• Singapore
20 Apr 13
Hi crusoe1, If you want to seduce older women you could start of by watching the hit show called "The Graduate" starring Dustin Hoffmann in which he managed to seduce the mother of his girlfriend or was it the other way round. Anyway, go watch it, you may learn a thing or two. Have a seductive day.
• United States
21 Apr 13
Lol I wanted to watch that show because it seems funny . I also know a good one , where the boy go to college seduce his college professor . I dont remember the name .
@kukueye (1759)
• Malaysia
21 Apr 13
They are interested in your youth power. - Be yourself and be a young gentlemen.
Well i depends which culture your are in? . however , picking up cougars in bars has it advantage since they are all they to have fun one way or another. If the cougar keep u in attention means she is giving your chance , at your young age i guess they are interested in your handsomeness , stamina and youth attractivenss. Hence be yourself and have fun too.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
23 Apr 13
You should just act naturally..be yourself and just be as spontaneous as you can possibly be.
@Orson_Kart (6768)
• United Kingdom
21 Apr 13
Just remember that, an older woman rapidly becomes a really old woman, given time....
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
21 Apr 13
My brother is younger than you and he is dating a older girl , I dont know how lol . I think you should just be yourself , age is not important but if there is a 2 decade age gap you have to go with the flow dont change because if she already find you attractive , it means you just need to be you .
@Cutie18f (9551)
• Philippines
21 Apr 13
You can gain practice with girls your own age. Then you can level up.
@sanjay91422 (2725)
• India
21 Apr 13
Interesting question.
@koopharper (7601)
• Canada
21 Apr 13
If an older woman is interested in a young buck like yourself you won't have to do any seducing. You just have to be available.
21 Apr 13
I'm just curious, what brought you an interest to an older woman? for money sucker or expenses? or maturity in perspective?
@Kathy1981 (157)
• United States
20 Apr 13
I would think that you would have more fun with chicks your own age.
• Serbia
20 Apr 13
Older women. Depends on the woman. I find younger chicks just need you to be stupid, behave stupidly, talk stupid stuff, and laugh a lot. Sensless flirting and sensless behaviour works on young chicks. That's why i always hook up with older chicks, i consider myself to have common sense. For older chicks that like to get high, you can take that approach, but that works best if you are already in the getting high industry..lol... Either way. I think it just depends on what type of person you are, your personality. But you need to be cool, the way you speak, move, what comes out of your mouth. And remember, it's better to be quiet-er and mysterious rather than an open book. Women like the challenge of trying to open a book. But you gotta chase, no matter how evolved we think we are, we still remain animals so, you hunt them, that's what they expect of you, even if they might say they don't.
@tinayu (214)
• China
21 Apr 13
i have heard a word that all girls' psychological ages are older than their phisical ages,all boys are the opposite.you can behave more maturely than before.maybe those older women will be attracted by you.
@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
20 Apr 13
just be yourself and remember that you are having fun. don't concentrate on the age difference. you already know she is older. just be yourself and have fun. i am not old, but i am an older woman to you. trust me, i know. the more you concentrate on the differences is the more you are going to seem young to her.