How to Build a Lasting Friendship

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My best friend and I have been friends for thirty-two years and counting. Others will jokingly ask us when we'll ever get tired of each other. But how did we really get this wonderful relationship that managed to withstand life's ups and downs? Here are some of the things I think made our friendship work. 1. We accept each other's faults. Let us accept the fact that none of us is perfect. All of us have their own flaws . She may have her quirks but that doesn't make me love her less. I"d rather focus on the good traits she has. 2.We never fight because we choose to ignore trivial issues and let minor disagreements pass. If both parties value their friendship more than their egos, these disputes would seem irrelevant. 3.We appreciate each other regardless of how big or small those favors we did for each other, they are considered significant. 4.Of course we were always there for each other. She was there when I lost my mother, my father,I was there when she had her first and second baby, when their house were ravaged by fire. Those moments were always remembered and treasured. 5. We support each other's dreams. Yes, we run a mutual admiration club. I believe in her and she believes in me. 6. We are always ready to forgive. We had a major row a few years ago that we did't see or call each other for months. But we accidentally met at the market and boy, we just hugged and said everything is okay just like it used to be. 7. We're try not to influence one another's decisions. There are some people I know who got so worked up whenever their friends made wrong decisions especially when it involves love life, finances, and other domestic issues. We offer advice, yes, but it's still up to the person to decide for herself and whatever the outcome, there's the assurance that a true friend is there to stand by her. 8. We enjoy each other's company. When we were younger, we spent time hanging out with friends doing ridiculous stuffs but now that we're more mature, we prefer to spend time talking quietly, sharing stories about our respective families and worrying about our health. 9.We trust each other.The essential factor everyone needs in building lasting friendship. Without trust it simply won't work. I trust her not only with my secrets but also with my life and I'm sure she feels the same for me. To my best friend, Janice, we've gone a long way,I hope we continue to walk this journey together...