attractive..GOOD or BAD?
By gilawitch
@gilawitch (90)
Malaysia
22 responses
@polemical (199)
• Canada
23 Nov 06
I think for a girl, being attractive is a curse and a blessing in one. for example, as with those who are wealthy, and never know WHY people are their friends, the same could be said for an extremely attractive girl. how would she know that this groupie attitude of her friends is real or for their own benefit? at the same time, she wouldn't have such a good social life (or at least the option of it) were she unattractive. good topic for discussion~ respect. get's a + from me ;).
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@urzicutza (1971)
• Romania
30 Nov 06
yes you are so right!
i just had my bigg disapointment in life
my best friend that i tought that hi si
he tryed to broke up with mu man saynig things to him ...and with me he was so nice!!!
and all that jus because he said that he couldent takek it any more ....i olways talk about hoe much i love my boyfriend and i never seem to be atractied to him
he was olnly my friend because he liked the way i look and he tought that i will be his!
but i realy trusted him
and that just an example
because i realised that all mane whants the same thing!!!
theu are sweet and kinde because they want to get me in there beds!!!
and i never tought abou thaat !!!
and my boyfrined opened my eyes for me!
@azriel (2107)
• Philippines
6 Jan 07
girl next door arent always lucky. its just that they put much harder effort into their relationships. and besides pretty girls are lucky too. they are the ones who always get noticed first.
@cyb3rjunk13 (470)
• United States
16 Jan 07
I dont agree with you.You know why?.I have a lot of girls in my neighboorhood but you know where is the girl i love the most.She is across seven oceans.It is not about distance it is just about your mental frequency and what do you really expect from this relation.
@purplehaze (661)
• Philippines
16 Jan 07
Maybe because prettier girls have more suitors so they have more choices and when they find something they dont like in a current relationship, they dont even try to fix it and just move on to another guy? No offense to pretty girls out there.
@myjewel (268)
• Philippines
20 Jan 07
i think this is true. i've heard a lot of stories wherein beautiful girls are having a hard time finding guys that will take them seriously. i don't know why it is like that but i just know that it happens most of the time. maybe you just can't have it all.
@Lovely_Lady (1523)
• United States
11 Dec 06
Being attractive can be a good and a bad thing. It's all how you look at it. Really, it's the personality that really counts. A girl can look so fine and have a mean attitude and the uglest girl can have a polite and sweet heart. It's really how the person is and how they a person seriously or not. Most attractive people find themself too good to be around others and you know what I mean. Well, just remember that what's in the inside that counts and not what you see the outside of them. Getting to know person will explain and define the person itself.
@protectiva (687)
• United States
6 Dec 06
no dude, hot girls get guys more than average girls. End of story.
@layanblues (254)
• Malaysia
9 Dec 06
pretty girl like you may end up with a steady business man which already married?
@siddhinfo (1500)
• India
11 Dec 06
yES i DO AGREE. Pretty girl has some sort of ego in them and proud of their beauty. They does not care the Guy with ususal look and always think they will marry rich, moneyed person
But average girl think if they get some good looking with job get marry and their life is happt.
@utsadetti (4589)
• United States
3 Jan 07
Being attractive is good? i think it depends. For short time it is good. in the long run it depends. Cos many attractive girls at the end are not happy.
@achilles7 (1276)
• India
23 Nov 06
I feel that attarctive girl have large number of options and she is waiting for the best.The average girl is satisfied with what is at hand. She knows a bird in hand is better than two in a bush.
@nirajbjha (290)
• India
23 Nov 06
agree! its probably because pretty girls like to be the first love for guys, while the next door girl wants to be the last love...
@Metallion (2227)
• United States
23 Nov 06
being attractive will get a first look from a guy, but if the female has a bad personality we won't be interested in the. We aren't as shallow as you females give us credit for lol!