Ever been CHEATED on (yes or no) ?
By alon28miami
@alon28miami (540)
United States
86 responses
@btollivert (17)
• United States
30 Sep 06
Yes I have been cheated on and it is not an easy thing to get past. And yes I am still with the him It has been a year now and in some was our marriage has grown stronger and in others was it weakened our marriage because trust is a big part of a relationship and I have a hard time trusting him now even though I love him more then any thing and he swears that it was the biggest mistake he has ever made and he will never forgive himself for it. I still find myself wondering if he is sneaking off to see her or if he is late coming home I am wondering if he is with her.
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@wendysue44 (350)
• United States
18 Sep 06
Yes, and that is why I am going throught a divorce after 11 years of marriage.
@Cheesehead06 (219)
• United States
6 Sep 06
Yes. I think you know my story. I stayed because I still had feelings that I thought were love at the time but it was really stupid because I was never really able to trust her again and that kind of permiated the whole relationship. Also, she never really got over her lover so the whole thing was a disaster waiting to happen.
Some people say you can get through this with counseling or therapy. I don't know. I don't speculate anymore on how it could have been better, saved, etc. I am married now to a wonderful woman and I am happier than I could ever imagine.
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@bhchy1 (6047)
• United States
6 Sep 06
Cheated on yes...that's the main reason my ex is my ex..then had BF who cheated on me too..and now he is history, though in his case..it was because of the lying about cheating. had he been upfront and honest about it, I would have let it go...but to deny it...nope so that was it for him!
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@Mahala4me (208)
• South Africa
14 Sep 06
No. I think if it did happen I would probably get divorced.
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@charlieb1979 (392)
• United States
5 Jan 07
I was cheated on by two different guys, and no I didn't stay with them
I was the first guy's "other woman" as it were for two months and did not know it until many months later when I got a phone call from the other man. the guy begged me to stay with him that he was leaving the other guy and all this BS and I was like "well, I guess that would make you single"
The second guy, this one was a doozy. We'd been together maybe two months and he gets online this one night at about 10PM, and he's really quiet, which I thought was because he was tired from working. Well the next day he saw me at school and he was like "I'm sorry I was so quiet last night, I was just tired because I got laid" I was like "Wait A minute! you got laid by someone besides me? DON'T even talk to me!" he also begged for forgiveness "it was just one time" and all that BS and I was like "that's ONE TIME too many. Bye!"
@sweets9900 (726)
• United States
9 Jan 07
Yes I have been. My ex-husband use to cheat on me all the time. After years of it I became tired and left. I guess it's just in his nature to cheat. He is also cheating on his currently girlfriend with an old friend of mines. Guess he was cheating on me with them also.
@bluejay1122 (140)
• United States
1 Oct 06
yes my husband has cheated on me..we had been married for 10 years when he did this..we just celebrated 19 years of marriage in July..i forgave him for what he did and he told me he would never do it again..he knows how bad it hurt me..we are more in love then ever..hes the love of my life..
@ScarletAlston (2693)
• United States
1 Oct 06
hell no i didn't stay with that dog...he moved four chicks in and out of his mother's house throughout our relationship..why in the world would i want to stay with that fool? I don't care why a person cheated on you, you should never stay with that person no matter what
@shaylahsmom (12)
• United States
26 Sep 06
yeah i was cheated on but i didnt find out until after i dumped him. my aunt saw him at her ex friends house,he was walkin out her house the next morning. then i found out i was pregnant but i didnt reunite wit him cause he was abusive too.
