Do You Find This Facebook Status is Too Shallow?
@redvakaurvaki (4216)
Indonesia
August 21, 2015 4:47am CST
I came across Facebook this morning and as usual we will find some people sharing good post and stupid post as well. It's may be not too stupid because she didn't understand housewife life- I bet she is single. But her status is very harassing for me. Let me translate her status on English:
"I watch very gorgeous man playing with his kids and feeding his kids while his wife busy to choose clothes ( shopping in the mall ). I want to come to that guy and whisper, 'hey man, in Islam, polygamy is allowed"
No, we don't discuss Islam or polygamy. Come on, it's not about religion
Which become my attention is how shallow she is. She thought that playing with kids is only women's responsibility. And it's like a sin that woman has time for her own and give the kids to father.
I have three conclusion about this status :
1. She is not yet mom, so she doesn't know that mother has all busy days at home so that she deserves to pamper her for some time. Good husband know this for sure.
2. She wants to become that guy second's wife -because she notices how gorgeous that man!
3. She sticks on old stereotype that parenting belong to mom. I totally disagree with this. Parenting is beautiful thing and for me, father should be involved. Father has different character with mother, and kids need Father to become his role model too.
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4 responses
@redvakaurvaki (4216)
• Indonesia
22 Aug 15
Yes, she might be honest. And does she look like a young teenage girl? She doesn''t know housewife and that's why I said she is shallow. I guess those who married can see that in better perspective. What do you think?
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@ifa225 (14461)
• Indonesia
22 Aug 15
@redvakaurvaki she doesn't know how it feels to have husband with two wives. Admiring other husband means she could ruin other household in the future
She should learn how to be empathy with a housewive
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@ifa225 (14461)
• Indonesia
24 Aug 15
@redvakaurvaki i ever felt that
no time for me time
sometimes I just want to run away from home
but if I am not thinking about the rules in Islam that leaving house without permission, perhaps I am already gone abroad
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@redvakaurvaki (4216)
• Indonesia
23 Aug 15
Yes, she does as she showed how she admired that man
She mentions Islam because we life in society that Islam becomes majority. Religion is our daily conversation. Some people in their ridiculous mind always connected everything to religion. It's very normal in our country
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@sunnypub (2128)
• United States
21 Aug 15
What I got from her post is that she admired the man for playing with his kids and wants a man like that for herself. I am assuming she said islam because thats where she is at.
@ifa225 (14461)
• Indonesia
22 Aug 15
@redvakaurvaki georgeous and love kids
That is a man that can melt every girl's heart
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@redvakaurvaki (4216)
• Indonesia
23 Aug 15
@ifa225 Of course, that kind of man is limited edition
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@redvakaurvaki (4216)
• Indonesia
22 Aug 15
Yes, she said Islam because it's the majority of our country.
I believe she admired that guy as she mention that the guy is very gorgeous. If she doesn't think the guy is gorgeous, she will not pay attention
@arthurchappell (44998)
• Preston, England
19 Oct 15
I expect she is just being outrageous to provoke reaction and get attention
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@redvakaurvaki (4216)
• Indonesia
22 Oct 15
I feel the same way. These days people posted on social media to get attention and looking for confession
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