Discussions? How Many?
By TexanTornado
@TexanTornado (5573)
United States
August 23, 2015 5:31pm CST
Ok, I have always stated that I am not a writer, nor will I ever claim to be.
There is a saying, 'Quality over Quantity'. Which I am a firm believer in, but when I lack some of the 'writing' skills, it makes the quality a little less.
Anyhow, back to my questions.
How many discussions do you start per day? Or perhaps a week?
I prefer commenting, and having a few laughs on other people's discussion. However, I try to start at least 1 discussion per day, so I can feel like I am contributing to the community.
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@topffer (42156)
• France
23 Aug 15
I tried to start one every day since the beginning of the month, but it is a bit too much for me and I have not started any today. On the old myLot I was starting maybe 2 per month, and I was mainly responding and commenting to others. And for the quality, I would not say that my discussions are quality discussions. My writing skills in English are limited, but as Coubertin said : "The most important is to participate."
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@topffer (42156)
• France
24 Aug 15
@Unforgettable_Raja It is because these words are not in any English dictionary. You should better not use them in Scrabble
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@purplealabaster (22091)
• United States
24 Aug 15
I am surprised that you actually have started as many discussions as you have, especially since it takes you so long to comment back. Then again, keeping you in one discussion area is less wear and tear on your wheelchair, so I guess that makes sense.
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@TexanTornado (5573)
• United States
24 Aug 15
I know what you mean @topffer, I too have trouble getting at least one posted. But when I don't post at least one, I feel like I am not doing my part for the community. So I bash my head against a wall (not literally) until I can get something that might sound half decent.
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@purplealabaster (22091)
• United States
24 Aug 15
I do not start a discussion per day or week ... maybe if we start talking months or years then I might be able to come up with a number greater than zero.
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@purplealabaster (22091)
• United States
24 Aug 15
@TexanTornado If you are talking this particular month, then the number would be greater than zero. If you are talking in an average month, though, then we should probably expand that to six months to a year before it gets to be greater than zero.
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@TexanTornado (5573)
• United States
24 Aug 15
Ok, so in a months time? Would the number be higher than 0? Or is it more like 6 months -1 year?3 people like this
@Rollo1 (16679)
• Boston, Massachusetts
24 Aug 15
Seems like it is one or two per day for me, but I try to comment more than I write. Also, we have a smaller membership right now and I don't want to blow up the notifications with a slew of posts and make people start to hate the sight of me.
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@TexanTornado (5573)
• United States
24 Aug 15
I definitely comment more than I write. I prefer that part a whole lot more. To me it's easier, it's a topic of interest already there.
Awww I don't think that would be the case at all, but I do understand what you are saying.
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@rosekiss (30414)
• Eugene, Oregon
23 Aug 15
I don't like to have to many going at once, as it would be harder to keep up with them than if I do just one, or maybe just respond and comment for the rest of the time, until I think of an interesting topic. That is the hardest part, as when I comment ore respond, it comes natura., but starting a discussion takes more thought. I am having fun though, either way.
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@rosekiss (30414)
• Eugene, Oregon
24 Aug 15
@Marcyaz I have the same problem, and that is why I don't start as many as others do. I enjoy posting comments and ressponses to others discussions, more than I start my own discussions. Right now, I am having brain freeze, as I am drawing a total blank.
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@TexanTornado (5573)
• United States
24 Aug 15
@rosekiss I have to agree. To comment on something of interest is so much easier than trying to start one and a good amount of times, you can interact within that discussion. It's one a discussion that interests you runs it course, people are looking for more interaction. That is when I feel I am not pulling my load. So I will decided to write something, and that is when my mind will go completely blank.
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@allknowing (137597)
• India
24 Aug 15
There is no hard and fast rule for me. There are several factors that induce me to come here but must say I am happy being active here.
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@TexanTornado (5573)
• United States
24 Aug 15
Yes, I am truly enjoying my time here. The interaction is the best. I'm glad that you are happy and content.
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@DanieGirl80587 (2713)
• United States
24 Aug 15
I try to start 1 each session if I get inspired enough. But I like getting in on certain convos.
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@kaka135 (14931)
• Malaysia
24 Aug 15
I don't know yet, as I just returned to mylot yesterday, but I kind of go with the flow. Since there is no limit of discussions here, I will just start a discussion whenever I have any idea about it. As a mother to two young children, though I am staying at home almost the whole day, I find a lot of interesting things around me, or something I'd like to discuss with others. I will not force myself to start any discussions or limit myself.
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@TexanTornado (5573)
• United States
24 Aug 15
Well welcome back to mylot. Yes, I can understand the going with the flow. I am doing that for the most part. And I probably shouldn't worry so much to try and get at least 1 posted a day.
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@kaka135 (14931)
• Malaysia
24 Aug 15
@TexanTornado I think if you'd like to challenge yourself, you can give yourself a target to start at least one discussion. But if you are not comfortable doing it, I think it's good to just do whenever you feel like it. I don't like to be forced to do something, unless I want to do it. 
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@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
24 Aug 15
Hello and welcome to mylot community.
There is no hard and fast rule for me to start a new discussion. If I feel there is an interesting topic to discuss, I start a new post. I also generally start one or two posts in a day but not on daily basis. I love to respond and post comments on the discussions started by others. I think responding also make us feel that we are contributing to the community.
There is no hard and fast rule for me to start a new discussion. If I feel there is an interesting topic to discuss, I start a new post. I also generally start one or two posts in a day but not on daily basis. I love to respond and post comments on the discussions started by others. I think responding also make us feel that we are contributing to the community.1 person likes this
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
2 Sep 15
@TexanTornado - Whatever meaningful e.g. starting an interesting post, responding or commenting we contribute here, makes us feel good, in my view. We believe that when others read our comments they will come to know what are our thoughts and some of them may even agree with us or may acknowledge our contribution.
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@TexanTornado (5573)
• United States
24 Aug 15
Why thank you very much.
Sounds like you have a good strategy going on for yourself. Yes, I too enjoy commenting and interacting on other's posts. hmmm you might have a point there.
Sounds like you have a good strategy going on for yourself. Yes, I too enjoy commenting and interacting on other's posts. hmmm you might have a point there.1 person likes this
@TexanTornado (5573)
• United States
2 Sep 15
@dpk262006 Yes I do have to agree with you. The longer I have been in the program (mylot), the more, I am finding out.
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
24 Aug 15
It varies for me. When if comes to a site like myLot, I prefer to respond or comment, over starting discussions. Just take a look at many discussions I've started. You'll see that it is hardly any compared to how many responses or comments I've made!
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@TexanTornado (5573)
• United States
24 Aug 15
Ah yes, I see. One does out weigh the other. For me, it's all about having fun, and getting a headache from thinking, isn't much fun.
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@TexanTornado (5573)
• United States
25 Aug 15
@sacmom So as long as you don't make me think, we are good.
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
24 Aug 15
I try to post at least 1 a day, sometimes 2 if i feel it..One never knows what might pop into my head and when it does..Watch out!!
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
24 Aug 15
@TexanTornado hahah..yep..it might scream out at you..or it might be extra pg rated..But 1 is the loneliest number no more
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@TexanTornado (5573)
• United States
24 Aug 15
@Rosekitty I have to agree with you.
I have to agree with you.1 person likes this
@TexanTornado (5573)
• United States
24 Aug 15
I think 1 is a good number, I mean after all it is #1. I think it is very kind of you to forewarn people too.
I think it is very kind of you to forewarn people too. 1 person likes this
@TLChimes (4822)
• United States
24 Aug 15
I try to do at least one (more if something hits me) and comment on several. I don't want to start so many discussions that I can't give quality answers. Off course some of my topics don't appeal to everyone. It is what it is so I just keep going.
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@TexanTornado (5573)
• United States
24 Aug 15
That is a great mentality to have, to just keep going. Recently I have tried doing at least 1 per day, I think I might have done 2 on some days. And some days, I can't manage the one. I prefer commenting, interacting, laughing and joking on other people's. Sometimes doing that will give me an idea to be able to muster up one.
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
24 Aug 15
I wont start any discussion unless -
1.there is something I have to discuss about, or,
2. I have time to make myself available for a discussion - this wins over many a times as I feel impolite to throw off my discussion and go absconding for days and then return to start re-discussing it
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
24 Aug 15
@TexanTornado I normally am online until 3:00 am. Let me also tell you, I love to participate more than creating new discussions. It is easier to handle participation many times, you can have your own time and there is almost no worry
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@TexanTornado (5573)
• United States
24 Aug 15
@thesids Gulp! 3:00am. I have to get my beauty rest at that time.(I need all the help I can get). Yes, commenting is 10 times easier on so many levels.
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@TexanTornado (5573)
• United States
24 Aug 15
Ah, Yes. That makes perfect sense to me. I have tried doing the same things, but sometimes I will start one, and the interaction starts, then it's time to call it a night. However, I do pick it backup in the morning to reply to all those who has responded.
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It is not necessary for you to start at least one a day to contribute to the community. You have already contributed by discussing on other person's discussion. @Jlyn10 (11965)
• Malaysia
24 Aug 15
@TexanTornado I guess I have been using my brain too much in the office, so can't think what to write here.
Don't worry, I think there are many many many contributors here. So you can feel a bit at ease now. Don't have to put so much pressure on yourself. 
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@TexanTornado (5573)
• United States
24 Aug 15
@Jlyn10 Oh yes, I can see where having a 'mental' job real time. Meaning you have to do a lot of thinking. Could prevent you from thinking up more stuff.
Oh why thank you. I appreciate that.
Oh why thank you. I appreciate that.1 person likes this
@TexanTornado (5573)
• United States
24 Aug 15
You are like me huh? Not much of a thinker?
Yeah, you are right, but even so discussions run their course, and people are always looking for new ones to post to. That is what I mean when I say contribute.
@TexanTornado (5573)
• United States
24 Aug 15
Oh if you really wanted to write, I am sure mylot can provide a fire extinguisher for you.1 person likes this
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
24 Aug 15
@TexanTornado yes that's true, some members have a knack for starting interesting discussions on a daily basis and keep them going ...
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@TexanTornado (5573)
• United States
24 Aug 15
Sounds like a good ratio to me. I guess it just depends on the person themselves, as to what works for them, and what they prefer.
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@TexanTornado (5573)
• United States
24 Aug 15
@kiran8 Yes, that they do, and I am happy for them. I am just not one of those.
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@sofssu (23662)
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24 Aug 15
@TexanTornado I do two or three per day on an average. Sometimes more sometimes less depending on my mood. I have stored to focus on the writing on my sites as well now.
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@TexanTornado (5573)
• United States
24 Aug 15
Yeah, you were always good at pulling things outta your hat to write about. (no bunnies yet). Oh that is cool. I know how much you enjoy writing.
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@TexanTornado (5573)
• United States
24 Aug 15
@sofssu It's strange cause our days are opposite.. And I feel the same way about the day time.
@sofssu (23662)
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24 Aug 15
@TexanTornado Getting bored here though.. there is hardly any activity during the day.
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@TexanTornado (5573)
• United States
24 Aug 15
@Gina145 Yes, you have a very valid point there about the skipping and it being easier once you do. I will try to keep that in mind.
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@TexanTornado (5573)
• United States
24 Aug 15
Sounds excellent to me, for that is about what I have done so far. I think I skipped a day here and there, but I try to shoot for at least one a day.
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@Gina145 (3949)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
24 Aug 15
@TexanTornado I haven't skipped a day yet, but I haven't been here very long. I just hope I can manage not to skip any days because once I skip one it will be easier to skip more.
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@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
24 Aug 15
Lets see, maybe I start 5 or 6 - I don't really count, I just write when I feel the need to put fingers to keyboard.
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@TexanTornado (5573)
• United States
24 Aug 15
Oh that is great. So you are a thinker. I wish I was.
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@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
24 Aug 15
@TexanTornado Gee, no one has ever called me that before!!!!
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@TexanTornado (5573)
• United States
24 Aug 15
Oh I love the way you put that. Hopefully your syndrome wouldn't affect you too badly.1 person likes this
@TexanTornado (5573)
• United States
25 Aug 15
@Weng0909 I don't think you are alone. I am right there with you.
I am right there with you.
@TexanTornado (5573)
• United States
25 Aug 15
@simone10 Oh believe me, I understand completely. It takes me all day to think of something and then by time I do, an hour later I am shutting down the computer.
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@TexanTornado (5573)
• United States
24 Aug 15
I think that is great. Seems from the replies here, that it's about the average. So I don't feel like such a slacker now.
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@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
25 Aug 15
@TexanTornado It's hard in the beginning to keep up with everything else let alone several discussions. Plus my brain just can't come up with more most mornings
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