Have you ever thought about deciding on your own Birthday age?
By Rosekitty
@Rosekitty (19368)
San Marcos, Texas
August 24, 2015 7:36pm CST
I was talking to a friend here and told her I decided instead of being 64 tomorrow i will be 21..
I could eliminate the bad from my life since i already had been there and what i had learned from my mistakes.
I guess i could have picked a more mature age but i was pretty mature at 21 even though i had two children by then.
So if you had a choice to decide your age this year, Which one would you pick and why?
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@TLChimes (4822)
• United States
25 Aug 15
I was 21 until I hit mid thirties. Now I'm 29. I will be for about 9 more years.
If I had to pick an age..... um..... either this one... so I didn't have it all to do over again or 16 when I was just starting out. I think I would miss a few things if I changed what I've done though.
* listens to the kids "reading" in the back room *
Hmmm... rereading your question.... not sure I answered correctly.... here's my second answer... if everything is as it is but I can change MY age I would be.....the right age to play with each of my children on their level.
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
25 Aug 15
@TLChimes..I love your 1st sentence the best..too funny..
Concerning the children..that is the hardest part to make sure we still have them I guess we need to do it the same as we have!!
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@TLChimes (4822)
• United States
25 Aug 15
@Rosekitty Yeah, I'm kind of attached to them... somedays I start to wonder and then they do something to remind me why. The little monsters.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
25 Aug 15
@Rosekitty I'm not going backwards, I'm staying the same.
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
25 Aug 15
@dawnald..hahaah..love how all of us are going backwards..too funny
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
25 Aug 15
Honestly, I am happy with what age I am. Getting into a time machine and transferring me back to an early age will only imply that I have to relive all that I have gone through. I do not think I will have the courage or the stamina to face it all over again.
For the sake of the discussion, if I had to choose,I would choose to go back to 1994 when I was 20. I had just completed my graduation and landed up with my first job. By the end of Dec 1994 - I had dreams, I had vision, a kind of commitment and definitely a road to tread on... Definitely, this should be the right time to go back to. Prior to this life was more fun, no shocks, no sadness - friends, movies, eateries, do anything anytime and no one cares attitude, no doubt, but still I would stick with moving in to 1994. Maybe sometime in July (after the Grad Exams were done with).
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
25 Aug 15
@thesids..I love your answer..good times in 1994 for me too!
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
25 Aug 15
@topffer..My grey hair isn't much so i look funny with multiple colors in mine..hahah
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@TexanTornado (5573)
• United States
25 Aug 15
Hmmm I could say to go back to 18, before I married my ex, but then I wouldn't have my 3 boys with him, so no go there. I think I am content with my age. It's been a long curvy road, but I am here, so have no desire to go back and do it all over again.
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
25 Aug 15
@TexanTornado..one reason i picked 21..just after my 2nd and before my 3rd, 4th and 5th..one thing i know i'd never marry this time..lost too much on community rights to the ex..
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@TexanTornado (5573)
• United States
25 Aug 15
@Rosekitty Ah ok, gotcha. Well, I stopped at 3, and got blessed with 4 more, from my present hubby. I said the same thing when I divorced my ex, but I found the love of my love and we married, and happily.
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
25 Aug 15
@sofssu Yes i agree bringing them up again..
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@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
25 Aug 15
I will be 30 because well, I guess that's the age you could say that I "saw the light". Don't want to go back to young and dumb no way no how.
19 was the happiest year of my life so it would make sense to choose that, but I really want to strangle my 19 year old self if I ever see her.
Somewhere in my 20s would make some sense too because of the birth of my daughters, but I was also still married to my ex and I also want to kill my 20 something year old self.
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
25 Aug 15
@cupkitties I can relate to what you posted..me too..I was a weirdo for marrying my first..
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@allknowing (136481)
• India
25 Aug 15
I would want to be born again, as I am told although I was yet another girl child I was quite loved and a favourite of many particularly that of my father.
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@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
25 Aug 15
I would leave my age at 50. It was fine then and I was at my hilt. But without the person I was with then.
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
25 Aug 15
@TiarasOceanView...I did like 50 also..hadn't gained weight yet..hahaah
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
25 Aug 15
@TiarasOceanView now mine is a pancake..hahaha
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@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
25 Aug 15
@Rosekitty Yes that was a factor in my decsion. My belly was still flat as a pancake.
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@LeaPea2417 (37355)
• Toccoa, Georgia
25 Aug 15
I would like to be age 26 again because that is when my first child was born and I would like to see if I had done things differently with him, if he would have made the same unwise choices that he is making today.
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
25 Aug 15
@LeaPea2417 aww i am so sorry but i do understand
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@fufurinha (11930)
• Portugal
25 Aug 15
I have never thought about that. But I guess I wouldn't change it.
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
25 Aug 15
@DWDavis..Very happy to hear that response!!..Congrats!!
@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
25 Aug 15
@LadyDuck yes any 20's is fine with me
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@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
25 Aug 15
I wouldn't want to change my age, I lived life and don't want to re-do it...everything that has happened (good or bad) made me who I am today.
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
25 Aug 15
@AbbyGreenhill..Glad you are happy..not even a little curious though?..hahah
@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
25 Aug 15
@Rosekitty Nope - I don't waste time on things I can't change! That's why I don't get all hyped about things other people fuss and argue over. But to go back in time...I'm fine where I am.
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@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
25 Aug 15
OMG! That's like asking me to pick a lottery number!
I could add the two numbers of my age together and be a pre-teen (sometimes my sense of humour is at about that level) or I could multiply them and be what was probably my 'golden age' (maybe that means I've reached platinum now). Yes, I think that mid-thirties is about right, now I think about it.
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
25 Aug 15
@owlwings....I love your response..too funny
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@katsmeow1213 (28716)
• United States
25 Aug 15
I think everyone does that. I've been 21 for 14 years. Yesterday a friend of mine turned 39 for the 19th time.
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
25 Aug 15
@SIMPLYD ..aww that is so sweet!!
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@Gwensmom (504)
• United States
25 Aug 15
When I hit 40, I just knew, I was not looking forward to it. My mil says after 40 it's all downhill healthwise. My daughter said 40 was old.
I didn't feel old so I didn't want to be 40.
I had my health issues long before 40, I just didn't know what they were.
Stuff that mattered before seems insignificant.
I think I will stay 43. I am smarter and wiser. And it's number.
My husband is 45 and feels old. I am a couple years younger and I don't feel old.
Even when my shoulders hurt or my hips ache, I still don't feel old.
So, I'm good.
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
25 Aug 15
@Gwensmom sorry you have health issues..I enjoyed my 40's..it was after 50 i went downhill..ugh..now 64 today
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
26 Aug 15
@Gwensmom i don't have any gas and no money so stayed home and watched movies..that is fine with me..too hot out..but had many messages on FB and here so i was keeping busy!!
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@Gwensmom (504)
• United States
27 Aug 15
@Rosekitty Sounds like a nice, relaxing time.
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