Worst feeling of all
By fufurinha
@fufurinha (11930)
Portugal
August 25, 2015 2:12pm CST
I have thought about this many times and I have never reached to a conclusion. I start thinking about all the bad feelings that I have ever experience and I try to find out which one is the worst.
I would like to know which feeling do you consider worst. I will give a short list to help you out (or not).
Is it greed? Is it sadness? Is it loneliness? Is it fear? Is it envy?
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
25 Aug 15
@fufurinha Yes. Regrets are more hurting and painful. The pain, sorrow, grief etc can all be managed and vented out, but for such "regrets" you can neither share them nor can get the pain go away. They act as bigger factors and develop many kinds of complexes like for one, inferiority complex
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@fufurinha (11930)
• Portugal
25 Aug 15
@thesids Regrets usually follow us for the rest of our lives, like a shadow.
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@fufurinha (11930)
• Portugal
25 Aug 15
Oh, that was a "nice" one. It is like regret.
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@purplealabaster (22091)
• United States
25 Aug 15
I could not pick one that is the worst. All sadness or anxiety or loneliness or depression or fear is not equal, and all of them can be bearable at times or they can be overwhelmingly difficult to deal with other times. I do not think that one is necessarily worse than another but rather it is a situational type of thing.
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@fufurinha (11930)
• Portugal
25 Aug 15
Yeah, that is sort of the conclusion I got :)
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@sunnypub (2128)
• United States
25 Aug 15
I am learning to view all feelings and emotions as energy so therefore none of them are bad. They are just simply different vibrations of energy. Since I started viewing them this way I have noticed that anger is the most fun. The energy for anger is more deep than others. Looking back on how I used to view feelings I would have to say heartbreak was the worst for me.
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@rosekiss (30414)
• Eugene, Oregon
26 Aug 15
@fufurinha Yes, that is true. I don't have to account to anyone but myself, and that is a good thing.I have the freedom to do what I want, and I like that.
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@fufurinha (11930)
• Portugal
26 Aug 15
@rosekiss Yeah, that is probably the major advantage :)
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@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
25 Aug 15
I think the worst feeling is ... hopeless doom---the feeling that you're in a bad situation (chronic pain, solitude, etc), that you're gonna be in it 'forever' unless someone does something, that nobody wants to do anything to help you out, and that it's all your fault.
I might be in the middle of such a situation now, and ... it IS all my fault, because I "know" I'm right and I won't change my mind about 'whether the truth is truly true.'
I'm single---not 'seeing anyone' either. And I'll probably be single 'forever' because ... lots of things I could blame:
+ society wants husbands-who-are-gainfully-employed, and I cannot be ... mostly because my brain-trauma makes my behavior too unpredictable, but also (even-MORE-mostly ) because I won't 'train' the bad behavior out.
+ ... and I know there are plenty of ways around any problems, but my laziness always takes-over
So I have to remain single. That sometimes seems like a "doom," but not according to comedian Lewis Black. When the single Lewis Black was standing alone in his apartment one New Year's Eve night (all his friends 'out with their spouses & children etc.), he realized, "I Won!"
So I guess "doom" is you're perspective. Sure, I'll be 'burning forever' to lots of people lazing-out on clouds with their harps in the afterlife; but to me I'll be flying-around in the bright ether while they're paralyzed whales on the froths of cheese!... perspective
@fufurinha (11930)
• Portugal
25 Aug 15
What a huge comment. But yes, I agree with you, hopeless doom is not good either.
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@LeaPea2417 (37381)
• Toccoa, Georgia
25 Aug 15
I think mine is a combination of fear and sadness.
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
26 Aug 15
It is difficult to pick one because when you are going through the experience it seems pretty bad...However I feel that regret is one thing that really makes you feel terrible because you feel you lost a chance that was probably within your reach, has happened to me many times when I did not listen to my own Intuition but ended up listening to others ..
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@fufurinha (11930)
• Portugal
26 Aug 15
Yeah, regret is not a great feeling at all. It can make us feel lonely, sad, afraid and many other bad feelings.
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@dashboardc33 (314)
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26 Aug 15
The worst thing for me is disappointing someone I love. I always want to make others happy so when I disappoint them I get upset with myself.
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@fufurinha (11930)
• Portugal
26 Aug 15
I hate making that as well. It is a terrible feeling afterwards.
@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
26 Aug 15
I think the regret and the guilt is the biggest factors that make me feel bad.
It results in a very deep depression that I must fight on a daily basis.
It is all we can do is go on like good soldiers.
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@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
26 Aug 15
@fufurinha Yes they do. If we feel bad all the time, this can make our health suffer physically too, so we must fight and fight them away fufurinha. I am sorry if you have some bad feeling.
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@fufurinha (11930)
• Portugal
26 Aug 15
@TiarasOceanView at the moment I don't :)
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@fufurinha (11930)
• Portugal
26 Aug 15
I have to agree with those feelings. Usually they lead to other bad feelings.
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@taramarie39 (667)
• Williamsburg, Virginia
26 Aug 15
Hi, I am not sure which is the worst. They all have their own worst. I do hope that you have some good things. Having bad all the time is not good. I will pray for you. God bless.
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@fufurinha (11930)
• Portugal
26 Aug 15
@simone10 try to think of the good things in life :)
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@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
26 Aug 15
@fufurinha No, it really isn't but it comes and goes and I try to avoid it if at all possible.
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@Lunadioasa (34)
• Indianapolis, Indiana
26 Aug 15
I think mine is a mixture between fear and loneliness. Sometimes I wonder if I deal with people I don't really enjoy being around because of my fear of being alone and sometimes I'm lonely because I can't be around people I care about because of the fear of loosing the person I am with. I feel like I am struggling every day. Just to wake up in the morning has become a chore.
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