How did you figure out what you wanted your career to be?
By Kate34
@Kate34 (656)
France
August 25, 2015 2:26pm CST
At the moment I'm just going to start my last year of highschool. With that there comes the decisions of universities and courses and where I want to live. I really have no clue what I want to do and I wish I didn't have to decide now. I'm thinking about a pyschology and philosophy joint degree. I'm really interested in food as well and eating healthily. So I was wondering how you decided what you wanted to do with your life? Did you always know? Were you undecided like me? How do you know if a passion should stay just a passion or if it should be come your career? Basically I want to know it all. Tell me your story in hopes it'll inspire me.
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@sunnypub (2128)
• United States
25 Aug 15
Unfortunately I am not sure I can be much help to you. I had no clue what I wanted to do at that age. For college they made me declare a major so I declared general studies. I never finsihed college. I worked in retial until I quit to stay home and be a full time mother. After my divorce a few years back I really opened myself up and got to know who I truly am and started painting which is nothing I had ever thought of before. I got into crystals and energy work. Before I knew it these became passions and now I know this is what I want to do to earn a living. I want to help others by sharing energy art and doing energy healings and Reiki. So it took me over 40 years to figure out what I wanted.
My daughter, however, is only 17 and she alread knows her passion and what she wants to do. It is not anything that anyone would have ever thought she would be doing including herself. She just fell into it and then fell in love with it. I am grateful that she has a clear view of what she enjoys and what she wants to do to.
I guess my advice would be think outside the box. Be open to whatever crosses your path. Don't ignore something because it is something you have never thought about before. Both my daugher and I would have never even considered what it is we want to do now. Be open to anything.
@Kate34 (656)
• France
25 Aug 15
Thanks for the advice. Cooking is something I'm really into but I'm not sure if I'd want to make a career out of that. I'm always looking up recipes and I want to have my own food blog one day once I get more creative and start to make my own recipes. I looked into dietetics but I'm not sure if I'd really want to do that and I don't really like the job opportunities after.
If you don't mind me asking what is it that your daughter wants to do?
I'll try to be more open. Thanks once again. Anything is helpful and it's also nice to hear other people's stories.
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@sunnypub (2128)
• United States
25 Aug 15
@Kate34 My daughter is a techie. She does theater tech, you know create and build sets for plays, deals with lighting and sound, basically all the backstage stuff pertaining to theater or productions. It was never something that was even on her radar.
She had a firend join drama in 7th grade and my daughter would go watch the practices and one day the teacher asked her if she would help out and before long she was in love. She has been in the tech program every year since. Eventually she wants to open her own theater, obviously hiring someone else to run the place and do the shows, but she wants to do the tech stuff. Her favorite part is buidling the sets. I never would have pictured her with power tools but there it is. We have learned that techies are even in demand at churches, and with politics, anywhere that any kind of production is put on. Anything that requires a stage, or lighting, or microphones, or set design etc. WHo knew? Not us, until she fell in love with the trade.
I think you just know when you find the right thing. I think when a passion is meant to be your work, you just know it. In today's world with the internet there are so many opportunities, like the blog you mentioned. Some people absolutely make a living blogging. SO keep an open mind, cooking per say may not be the career choice but something in that field or that relates to it. You could create a cooking app or cooking related video game, a cooking community website, create online cooking classes, self publish cooking ebooks etc. You could make a good living without actually cooking. The opportunites are unlimited.
@Kate34 (656)
• France
25 Aug 15
@sunnypub That's a great story. It's brilliant that she found her passion so early on I'm life. I guess the most unexpected things can happen.
Thanks for all the ideas. I just have to think about it more. I might do something completely different. You never know.
Thanks for all your help and stories.
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@sprinklesare4winners (531)
• Avenel, New Jersey
11 Sep 15
i honestly still dont fully know what im gonna end up doing lol and i graduated high school 10 years ago (omgggggggggggggg) THAT BEING SAID i like your ideas! psychology seems like it would be a good degree to have, if you want to be a therapist/pyschologist but it will take years of schooling to get your PHD. philosophy probably is a throwaway unless you want to be a professor. i have a passion for health too but that is a more difficult field to be in right now, i dont think there are that many opportunities for nutritionists/etc but ifyou want something bad enough and are hardworking, you can make it!!
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
31 Aug 15
it depends on not only what you enjoy but what you have a talent for. i didn't find mine till i was old enough to only get to do it 12 years.
@BelleStarr (61101)
• United States
27 Aug 15
My career found me, it ended up being something I had never considered. I was a bookkeeper.
@Boonie1 (425)
• Ashdod, Israel
26 Aug 15
I'm sadly still looking for my passion, and its been a while since I finished high school. best thing you can do is try a lot of diffrent things, as many as you can. work, habits, try it all...when you find something you love, try to learn as much as you can about it and be the best you can at it