I love my bf but...

Laziness and a lack of ambition is one of the least attractive traits in a person, but it IS something that can be changed. Give him 3 Months to get a job, during which you'll support him as usual, and if he doesn't have one then move out and tell him you can't afford to support his lifestyle and when things improve you can move back in together. Discuss it in a positive manner, don't throw it out in an argument, he is probably feel insecure about his financial situation...support and help is human nature and all part of being in love, but there comes a point where it is taking advantage. If you don't address it yourselves then it will destroy what you have. Good luck

One cannot live on love and fresh air. You have to be practical and find out if he is really serious about getting a job. Else you should move on.

Your boy friend only has you now - you need to encourage him to stand up again. I know how he feels because I experienced it before. He may lose his self-confidence because of the failure of his business. He may be ashamed of facing the world because of his debts. But with your support, he must be able to be strong again. Keep fighting for the person that you love.

Oh no this is so very sad friend. I hope that something will turn around. If you are to stay with him, your boyfriend, then you can try to be very cheerful to bolster his spirit. But in the end, he must find a way, and not be depending on you, as it will erode your relationship, I can see. I am so sorry this has happened to you both. Good Luck.

You will have to encourage him to find something to make money with. Another business or get a job working for someone.

If he is depressed, the best thing you can do is to support him. Do not push him to do anything if he does not feel the moment is right. He will be better soon.