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Eden Goldie @WillowHolmes (46) 19 Nov 15

If any of you have paid any detail to my page, which is doubtful as I don't post very often, you'll know I WAS getting married. 27 August 2016 has been our wedding date since we booked all of our suppliers and sent out our 'Save...

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Eden Goldie @WillowHolmes (46) 24 Oct 15

As the clocks go back, and the evenings grow ever darker there are a lot of reasons to stay warm inside under a nice throw with something on the television. After all nothing beats a large hot chocolate, some slipper socks and an...

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Eden Goldie I disagree, I'm 24 and I plan to enjoy dressing up for at least a few more years. Each to their own

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Eden Goldie @WillowHolmes (46) 24 Oct 15

As the clocks go back, and the evenings grow ever darker there are a lot of reasons to stay warm inside under a nice throw with something on the television. After all nothing beats a large hot chocolate, some slipper socks and an...

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Kevin @kevin1877uk (36988) 24 Oct 15

Feeling lonely this evening It’s not easy being on your own after a relationship, back to being single and being on your own. When I’ve been single before it’s taken me time, but I’ve been ok. I guess, given time I will be okay...

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Eden Goldie People can feel lonely both in and out of relationships, but it's better than being unhappy with someone. Hope your week brightens up :)

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Eden Goldie @WillowHolmes (46) 14 Oct 15

There are many answers to the question "What is the meaning of life?"...and they are mostly down to opinion. Some think it is to reproduce, others to spread the word of their god, but I don't believe it is a thing that can be...

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Eden Goldie @WillowHolmes (46) 13 Oct 15

My fiance and I rarely argue, and completely balance each other out on a day-to-day basis. He is very laid back whereas I am always on-the-go, he is relatively tidy, and I can leave it for the day...but in the bedroom we don't...

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Eden Goldie Thanks for the advice, I will force him to do something about it and hope it is just a simple deviation and not something worse.

13 Oct 15

Eden Goldie @WillowHolmes (46) 13 Oct 15

My fiance and I rarely argue, and completely balance each other out on a day-to-day basis. He is very laid back whereas I am always on-the-go, he is relatively tidy, and I can leave it for the day...but in the bedroom we don't...

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Eden Goldie I have told him multiple times to do something about it, but will definitely be more firm with my suggestions. Thanks :)

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Eden Goldie @WillowHolmes (46) 13 Oct 15

My fiance and I rarely argue, and completely balance each other out on a day-to-day basis. He is very laid back whereas I am always on-the-go, he is relatively tidy, and I can leave it for the day...but in the bedroom we don't...

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fufurinha @fufurinha (11930) • Portugal 13 Oct 15

As some of you may know, I have already reached the 10 dollars (on the 2nd of October) and I have set my goal to reach 20 dollars by the end of this month. Unfortunately, today is the 13th and I still need to earn more 7...

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Eden Goldie I have been here for about a month but not in it to earn anything, just like reading and writing a little haha. Hope you reach your target, remember not to stress about it or you'll forget to enjoy the experience of interacting. Best of luck :)

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WendySpickerman @WendySpickerman (983) • United States 13 Oct 15

Did you know tinnitus is so common doctors call it the norm? That constant ringing, hissing, buzzing sound can be very difficult for people to not only manage, but survive with. Tinnitus can often lead to depression and thoughts...

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Eden Goldie I get it every couple of days due to my bruxism (clenching of the jaw) and find it extremely annoying when I notice it. Hope it doesn't get any worse, and that you find some kind of relief :)

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Kevin @kevin1877uk (36988) 13 Oct 15

Should I start dating If you have read back through me posts you know that it’s not too long ago since I had relationship break up from my partner. We both lived in different counties, long story so I won’t go on. I’m often...

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Eden Goldie If you feel ready to then yes, of course start dating and meeting new people. There's no need to feel embarrassed or insecure about groups, dating sites etc because they're full of like-minded individuals. Aim to go at a pace you're comfortable with but be...

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wiLLmaH @wiLLmaH (8802) • Singapore, Singapore 8 Oct 15

Our office always have a mellow music to cut off the unnerving silence or the sounds when we tap our keyboards or the clicking mouse. You? Do you prefer to work in total silence or with some music to somewhat lighten up the...

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Eden Goldie It depends what profession, but personally I find the simplest of noises distracting and somewhat annoying. Be it the typing of another, background conversations or music: it all drives me insane! haha

9 Oct 15

alina @swissheart (6482) • Romania 9 Oct 15

what do you think about this matter? would martial arts be useful?

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Eden Goldie I went to Karate classes when I started to get bullied in case it became physical and I needed to know self defence...but luckily it wasn't necessary as I am not sure how well a "high kick" would have gone down in a "she started it" debate haha. I think it is...

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alina @swissheart (6482) • Romania 9 Oct 15

what do you think is the order? marriage first and pregnancy after or it doesn't really matter?

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Eden Goldie There doesn't seem to be an order any more, the majority of young couples with children aren't yet married, and a lot of them don't even seem to be together any more. I don't personally have a preference, but I am marrying my partner next year and we don't...

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alina @swissheart (6482) • Romania 7 Oct 15

I'm curious if you remember your first love. feel free to share if you would like

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Eden Goldie Well, I am 24 and have been with my first and only love since we were 20, and are due to get married next year. Growing up there were infatuations that I mistook for love, and I used to say "is this it?"...but it is SO true that when you find it you know. :)

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Kevin @excellence7 (3655) • Mauritius 27 Aug 15

I lately turned out to be a regular coffee drinker. I wonder how and why but I'm just loving it. I drink around 3 to 4 cups of coffee daily. I put myself into question and wondered whether it's right to do so and moreover I was...

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Eden Goldie @excellence7 Fruit tea, perhaps...but I am a hot chocolate girl myself haha

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Kevin @excellence7 (3655) • Mauritius 27 Aug 15

I lately turned out to be a regular coffee drinker. I wonder how and why but I'm just loving it. I drink around 3 to 4 cups of coffee daily. I put myself into question and wondered whether it's right to do so and moreover I was...

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Eden Goldie I don't drink coffee unless it is from Costa (or similar) and even then it has to be a latte with sugar-free syrup. I've never really been a coffee lover but it is great for metabolism, and such a comforting social activity.

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jessyu @jessyu (131) • Chengdu, China 26 Aug 15

I have a bf and he loves me very much. Before I met him, he used to run his own business but he got broke and is now having a large amount of debt. What's worse, he now is jobless and has to pay for the house loan every month. He...

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Eden Goldie Laziness and a lack of ambition is one of the least attractive traits in a person, but it IS something that can be changed. Give him 3 Months to get a job, during which you'll support him as usual, and if he doesn't have one then move out and tell him you...

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Bleeding Heart @barood4money (376) • India 26 Aug 15

For me a ideal life partner should be caring, should understand me, love me. Should stay quiet for atleast one hour. Don't ask for costly shopping. Should not blackmail emotionally...

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Eden Goldie Loyalty is definitely one of the key character traits, not just when it comes to monogamy but also support and kindness. Someone that doesn't sweat the small stuff, and who I can spend time with doing separate things and still have the best time just because...

27 Aug 15

Eden Goldie @WillowHolmes (46) 24 Aug 15

Around 6 months ago, my fiance and I looked at our first wedding venue and fell in love almost instantly. Having worked in a couple of hotels when younger, I had seen what a few places had to offer but this rustic chic yet...

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Eden Goldie That's so nice to hear, sounds like a wonderful day...thank you :)

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