Feeling lonely this evening
By Kevin
@kevin1877uk (36988)
October 24, 2015 5:24pm CST
Feeling lonely this evening
It’s not easy being on your own after a relationship, back to being single and being on your own.
When I’ve been single before it’s taken me time, but I’ve been ok. I guess, given time I will be okay about being on my own.
It’s strange to me after spending the last two years with someone every day, being there for each other. Oh how I wish things were so different.
I guess it’s life and you have to pick up the pieces, dust yourself down and try and carry on the best you can.
Hoping your having a wonderful evening.
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12 responses
@kevin1877uk (36988)
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26 Oct 15
Thank you, I do hope so, do need someone in my life :)
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@gudheart (12659)
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26 Oct 15
@kevin1877uk me too. But I know when the tine is right it will happen :)
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@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
25 Oct 15
time will help you move on and leave these sensations in the past. I'm sure that sooner or later you will find someone that is worth your appreciation
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@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
25 Oct 15
Yes, you certainly feel lonely when you do not have someone close in your heart, that understands you and accompany you to spend time. Remain patient undergoing difficult times is the best way to get something better in the future ... be patient ...
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@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
28 Oct 15
@kevin1877uk You are welcome. Hope you will find the best people beside you to accompany you spend your nice time.. Have a nice day!
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@crewgirl (191)
• United States
25 Oct 15
I can't say that I can relate since I'm 25 and (embarrassingly) have never been in a romantic relationship before, so I don't really know how it feels to lose someone like that. I do, however, know how it feels to lose a friend or grow apart from someone and it does hurt for quite some time, but you eventually move on once you meet new people. I encourage you to meet new people. I know it can be quite scary, and some people might seem uninterested in a relationship, but eventually you'll find the right person who finds you to be unbelievably interesting. You have a great attitude and I wish you a wonderful evening. If you're ever feeling like you just want to talk to someone, you can always talk with me because I'm here all night.
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
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25 Oct 15
Awww thank you, Sorry to hear you haven't been in a romantic relationship. It's amazing when it happens. I've not been in many relationships and only been a few few that taken my breathe away. I'm a romantic person and I believe in romance, until a few years ago I didn't know what love was, I know it really does sound strange but I didn't, not even when I was married, sorry to say. I was divorced and for a number of years and stayed single until an old friend and I got to together and it was magic, totally. That relationship lasted almost two years, but what I got from that was love and knowing love. Then my last relationship, well that's on a scale that doesn't exist, total love but it a long story to why it ended, not because we didn't love each other because we were in different counties and all the hoops you need to jump through.
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@crewgirl (191)
• United States
25 Oct 15
@kevin1877uk I'm sorry :( That must be really painful. I had a friendship with this one guy and I began to grow in love with him. He was married unfortunately, so I knew I couldn't go there, but I couldn't get away from him. Eventually, he caught on that I was growing too close to him and he ended our relationship (probably because of his wife). I was heartbroken and I still think about him almost every day. I really need to move on because it's been awhile since then.
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
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25 Oct 15
@crewgirl Oh dear so sorry to hear about that. Yeah I guess because he was married and everything that goes with that and his wife. Did his wife know about you? I know it easy said than done to move on and I understand where yo are coming from, hugs.
@Blondie2222 (28611)
• United States
25 Oct 15
I feel lonely this evening too. I haven't spent much time with my boyfriend in the last 2 weeks or so as we both been busy with work etc. The only day i see him is on Sunday but it's better than nothing. I cherish every moment I get with him. I know how it is about single life though I was single for a very long time til I met the right person.
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
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25 Oct 15
Totally I agree it's better than nothing, not seeing him. It must be really hard not seeing each other than much.
@katsmeow1213 (28716)
• United States
25 Oct 15
Well.. could be worse. My husband is sitting a few feet away and I still feel lonely because he's too busy with his phone to talk to me because he started a fight in the car. Ugh! Some days I wish I were single.
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
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25 Oct 15
Thank you Anna, glad you've been with you husband for so long, it must be so wonderful.
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@WillowHolmes (46)
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25 Oct 15
People can feel lonely both in and out of relationships, but it's better than being unhappy with someone. Hope your week brightens up :)
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
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25 Oct 15
I totally agree with you there, it's better to be on your own if the relationship not working.
@Jessicalynnt (50523)
• Centralia, Missouri
25 Oct 15
some days are worse than others, that's for sure.
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@EllaSpringtime (198)
• Israel
25 Oct 15
It is better having hoops than loops. Have a nice day or evening.
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