He wants to do it all the time!

@sacmom (14192)
United States
August 28, 2015 6:37am CST
Yes, you read it right, he wants to do it all the time! And I mean ALL THE TIME! When we do it, it can go for hours! It's rather exhausting and hard on me! Not just physically, but also emotionally! I've tried telling him no, but that never seems to work! What can I say? The poor guy's addicted! He refuses to take no for an answer! This old gal can't take much more! Help! Can someone please take over for me and do it with him...even if it's only once in a while? Be warned though, he'll definitely keep you on your toes! Oh, and boy, does he moan and groan! So, what in the world am I talking about? My autistic son, of course! He could wear anyone out...the way he likes to be chauffeured around going from store to store all over town! What the heck did you think I was talking about? Hmm? (The above discussion, although serious, is just for fun and is aimed at those members that tend to read nothing more than the title. lol)
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
28 Aug 15
However hard and tiring it might seem at the time, because he's yours and there is LOVE involved you will never ever say 'enough' I'm sure!
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
29 Aug 15
@yukimori This is like old ti,es again as I had to poke about and see who was sending hugs - then I gotchya Aku Why the change? [
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
29 Aug 15
@sacmom Oh! 11 pm! Then that was absolutely called for. What a day that must have been indeed!
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@yukimori (10148)
• United States
29 Aug 15
Aha! There you are, @mysdianait!
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@Rollo1 (16679)
• Boston, Massachusetts
28 Aug 15
I think you could definitely use some help in taking him out on those long shopping excursions. Does he have a therapist who takes him out? I know they do have those therapists who work with kids outside the offices - play ball with them, take them on walks, etc. And as for the title? I love misleading titles, haha
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
28 Aug 15
Nope, it's just my husband and I, and our son stopped going with him years ago! lol By the way, if you liked that one, I have some others on here that are just like that!
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@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
28 Aug 15
You are competing with @MysDianaIT here with your double entendre! I like it! I was just about to drop some pearls of wisdom involving cold showers, wrinkled Lisle stockings and the benefits of chewing raw garlic when I read to the bottom (I have been known to do that, too, with wriggly toddlers at bedtime). I don't have any first-hand experience of autism, though I have met people who, I'm told, have been diagnosed as such. It's really not a condition which many people know a lot about or understand. In my seasonal work as 'Santa', I meet one or two and I have always found them what I would call 'bright'. My impression is usually that they have an insatiable curiosity and an unconventional way of exercising it and I find that delightful. As 'Santa', I usually only get five or ten minutes to try to have some interaction with a child and I have to say that only a few are total flops. I may get what seems to be a complete 'ignore' or I may find my beard pulled or someone sitting in my chair while my back is turned but they all amuse and entertain me much more than the 'conventional' child.
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@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
28 Aug 15
@yukimori I like that it doesn't matter about capitals and lowercase. It sometimes makes the name more readable.
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
29 Aug 15
@owlwings Me? Compete with MysD? Bright is a good word to describe autism, although if you met my son, you'd probably change it to wild! lol Anyway, I'm glad you liked it...and that you read it to the end.
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@yukimori (10148)
• United States
28 Aug 15
Oh my gosh, @owlwings... I saw the capitalization in MysD's username and just about had a heart attack because I thought she came back under a new one and nobody told me...
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@yukimori (10148)
• United States
28 Aug 15
So this is what I have to look forward to in a few years, huh? The toddler is already getting pretty vocal with her demands. The other day she grabbed my keys off the table, shoved them into my hand, brought me her shoes and made me help her get them on, brought me my shoes and helped me put them on, then grabbed my hand and dragged me to the door. "Let's go zoo?" Now how am I supposed to refuse that?!
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
29 Aug 15
Aw, now that is just adorable! There is no way that I'd be able to refuse that!
@sacmom (14192)
• United States
29 Aug 15
@yukimori They certainly can be! I got a membership to the zoo once, years ago. I was only able to use it twice though. lol
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@yukimori (10148)
• United States
29 Aug 15
@sacmom Memberships are a wonderful thing!
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@LadyDuck (472087)
• Switzerland
28 Aug 15
It's just you to take care of your son? I can understand he can be exhausting. Your misleading title is great.
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
28 Aug 15
Thanks, I'm glad you think so! No, there's also my husband. He takes care of our son as well. However, our son refuses to go anywhere with him, with the exception of emergencies, which is rare.
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@LadyDuck (472087)
• Switzerland
28 Aug 15
@sacmom I suppose that some days it's hard to bring him around all the time.
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
28 Aug 15
@LadyDuck Some days?!? Try all the time! lol
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@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
28 Aug 15
Lol...you had me going for a minute there. I wonder why your son likes to go to stores a lot?
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
29 Aug 15
@simone10 Thanks. If only it didn't cost an arm and a leg each time. lol
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
28 Aug 15
I'm guessing that it has something to do with his autism. He probably likes going so much because I used to take him all the time when he was younger.
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@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
28 Aug 15
@sacmom That's a good thing because a lot of people with autism don't like being around people they don't know or in unfamiliar places. I think you did the right thing exposing him to things like that when he was younger.
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@flpoolbum (2978)
• United States
29 Aug 15
Autism is a very serious afflication. Your homorous post is a great way to deal with all of the stress and anxiety. I know because I have Cerebral Atrophy-which is kind of like Alzheimer's, rapid cycling Bi-polar disorder and constant and sometimes debilitating headaches. In my experience, writing about it and humor are good coping mechanisms. Just like a saying that I once heard, "if you don't laugh about it, you'll cry".
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
29 Aug 15
Exactly. I get tired of crying. I need to be able to laugh every once in a while.
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@flpoolbum (2978)
• United States
29 Aug 15
@sacmom. I try to share humorous and uplifting pieces on MyLot and other social media sites on a regular basis. I posted one example with this comment. I have a Facebook page called "It'sCooltobeKind Campaign", where I try to spread the the idea of kindness with the hope that it will enter the readers minds and that they will commit random acts of kindness.
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@flpoolbum (2978)
• United States
29 Aug 15
@flpoolbum. This is a posting that was shared on my "It'sCooltobeKind Campaign" Facebook page.
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@katsmeow1213 (28716)
• United States
28 Aug 15
Is it just riding in the car that he likes, or he actually likes shopping? And what kind of shopping?
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
28 Aug 15
No, it's not just the car rides. He likes to buy showerheads, sprinklers...pretty much anything water related....
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
31 Aug 15
@hereandthere No, no, kind of, and sort of! lol
• Philippines
31 Aug 15
@sacmom can he swim? does he like soaking in the tub, having showers, playing in the rain?
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@allknowing (137907)
• India
30 Aug 15
Atleast I had a different picture until I read your full post. (lol). If your boy likes it go for it. Full on.
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
30 Aug 15
Oh, I'd love to...if it didn't cost so much money! lol
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
30 Aug 15
@allknowing Thanks.
@allknowing (137907)
• India
30 Aug 15
@sacmom But I suppose it is not easy to tell him that. Hope you will sort this out the best way you can.
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28 Aug 15
I hear you! My daughter isn't autistic, but she is rather hyper and it's emotionally exhausting! It would be nice to get a little help every once in a while.
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
28 Aug 15
I agree, it sure would be! By the way, how old is your daughter?
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@GajaGamini (1068)
• India
30 Aug 15
You naughty girl. I like the way you have written this article. I am sure lots of Mylotters including me got attracted to this discussion just because of the title.
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
31 Aug 15
Hahaha! Well, that was the idea! Gotta attract 'em any way I can! lol
@sacmom (14192)
• United States
31 Aug 15
@GajaGamini Thank you. I'll certainly try!
• India
31 Aug 15
@sacmom writing an attractive title is very important because that's what brings you lots of traffic and make people read an article. keep up the good work.
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• United States
2 Sep 15
Now you know I am going to now spend time scrolling through for that "certain" person who didn't read through and made an unrelated comment. Seriously, how old is you son now? I think your a great mom to chauffeur him around. What are his favorite stores to visit?
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
2 Sep 15
It looks like everyone read it...this time! Thanks! Some of his favorite stores are Home Depot, OSH, Ace Hardware, and K-Mart.
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
2 Sep 15
@Carmelanirel2 Don't you know? I never sleep!
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• United States
2 Sep 15
@sacmom Hey, some of my favorite stores as well... Of course I can't stay out that late, not when I have to get up at 5:30 am, which reminds me, you are in Ca and it is what? 4:30 am there? Are you up early or still up?
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@sofssu (23662)
31 Aug 15
I agree it could be exhausting taking care of such kids. My friend runs out of patience and energy and some of us take turns to help her.
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
31 Aug 15
That is very nice of you to help her out like that.
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@sofssu (23662)
1 Sep 15
@sacmom She is my friend.. and what are friends for. There are a couple of others too and we take turns.. especially after she had her second baby.
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@Ishani08 (563)
• India
29 Aug 15
Hahaha.... very witty...!!!! Playing with words seems like your hobby..!!!! Anyways, on a serious note , how old is your son?
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
29 Aug 15
Thanks! I certainly enjoy playing with words every once in a while! Anyway, to answer your question, my son is 18 years old.
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
29 Aug 15
@Ishani08 My husband and I have noticed it since he was about 2 years old, although we didn't get him formally diagnosed until he was almost 7.
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@Ishani08 (563)
• India
29 Aug 15
@sacmom Since when has he been suffering from autism..??
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@TLChimes (4822)
• United States
29 Aug 15
Helps to read the tags as well. You did well. And I know just how persistent those boys can be.
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
29 Aug 15
Yep, it sure does! Thanks! They can be very persistent, can't they? lol
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@much2say (56142)
• Los Angeles, California
29 Aug 15
Dang, someone's got a lot of energy - hee hee! Actually I can imagine how you feel. We recently went to our friend's house for the first time - a birthday party for their middle child who has severe autism (19) and the younger one who has aspergers (13). Most of their guests were friends from the autistic son's social group - with their parents. I saw that many were indeed a handful and had to be supervised much of the time, oh but all were from very loving families. Now you know I read more than just the title!
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
29 Aug 15
Yep, but then again I already knew that!
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@MusesM (584)
29 Aug 15
haha,you got a very active boy:)
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
29 Aug 15
Thanks, though he's no longer a boy. He's a man now. lol
• United States
29 Aug 15
I have a friend who has also an autistic son, who is 15 now. She says the same thing, she is always worn out from having to tend to him all the time. And to make matters worst, she had to have 2 surgeries for carpal tunnel and a single mom.
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
29 Aug 15
I feel fortunate that I'm not a single mom, although with my son only wanting me to take him places, it sure feels like it at times. lol
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• United States
29 Aug 15
@sacmom Oh I couldn't even begin to imagine. No doubt you have your hands full.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
12 Sep 15
A fun post on what must be a serious issue It must be hard on you if he won't even go with your husband.
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
13 Sep 15
Yes, there are times that it can get very hard.
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@Tampa_girl7 (50546)
• United States
30 Aug 15
I hope that you can get a break soon.
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
30 Aug 15
Thanks. I hope so too!