Need some Advice

United States
October 21, 2015 8:53pm CST
I have a family member who has sent me a friends request on Facebook The problem is that I had this person as a friend a while back. Then out of no where they deleted me as a friend and blocked me...then several weeks later they sent me another friends request. I accepted it..only so they could delete and block me once again. Ok it's been months since I haven't had a friends request from them, now out of no where they are requesting to be my friend again. Should I accept it? Also why do you think this person keeps adding me and blocking me? I get really ugly vibes from this person too. She never talks to me in person and I see her almost daily.
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celticeagle
@celticeagle (166976)
• Boise, Idaho
27 Oct 15
If you want to play their game do, by all means, except it. Some people are just weird. You should message them and ask them what the deal is. I don't play games and if it were my situation I would leave them a non-friend. If they messaged me and explained when they kept deleting me and so forth then I might or might not have them on my friends list. They sound pretty wishee washee to me.
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celticeagle
@celticeagle (166976)
• Boise, Idaho
28 Oct 15
@Blessedxoxo ....Boundaries are really important even online.
Candi
@Blessedxoxo (71)
• United States
27 Oct 15
I agree with you. I never accepted the request. I'm happier that way. If they ask me why I didn't accept it I'll just ask them why they kept blocking me. lol!
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peavey
@peavey (16936)
• United States
22 Oct 15
Why don't you ask her why she deleted you as a friend? But if you get "bad vibes" from her, it might be wise to ignore her. Some things are best left alone.
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Candi
@Blessedxoxo (71)
• United States
22 Oct 15
She's a very confrontational person. So I usually try to avoid her. If I ask her she might give me attitude or lie about it.
peavey
@peavey (16936)
• United States
22 Oct 15
@Blessedxoxo Then I would ignore her request and be done with it.
41Combedale
@41CombedaleRoad (5952)
• Greece
28 Oct 15
There is no gain to you in following this 'friend' and no way to guess why this strange situation keeps arising. Sometimes Facebook is more trouble than it is worth.
tita417
@Tita417 (1228)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
22 Oct 15
If you have bad vibes on this lady then don't. Maybe if you do that she might talk to you when you see her and then you would know from her directly what she is up to
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rahul pillai
@rahulvsmokiee (3110)
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
22 Oct 15
Lol! i prefer you to just say any hard words. Or just tell me his name in there and i will do the rest. Lol! its irritating and i know it better.
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Ann LeFlore
@poehere (15123)
• French Polynesia
22 Oct 15
Dump them and forget about them you don't need friends like this. If it was me I would decline and move on.
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