Joining Too Many Sites
By hereandthere
@hereandthere (45645)
Philippines
October 29, 2015 2:47am CST
Sometimes I wonder how different things would have been if I just followed all the sites where everyone else went to.
I regularly visit a lot of sites, read people's posts, including the admins and owners. That's how I know what's happening elsewhere, even if I'm not a member.
I see the same people in many of them.
Some sign up and start posting and interacting, then become inactive. When they remember and return to the site, it has changed a lot.
Some don't read the rules and jump right in, only to realize they won't get paid. I remember someone mentioning a site to me, but when I read the rules, only certain countries will be paid.
Others keep joining new sites that they get mixed up about the different rules and think they can do the same thing at all the sites they joined. They don't even notice that their violations have been reported.
You'd have to admire their enthusiasm, always eager to join everything and just figure things out along the way. They also seem to recover quickly from the time, money and effort they've lost.
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39 responses
@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
29 Oct 15
@ladyduck yes, i've tried to diversify. some paid, some paid then disappeared, some i haven't reached even the first payout yet. 
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@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
29 Oct 15
you're referring to the saying 'don't put all your eggs in one basket.'
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@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
29 Oct 15
some sites i was interested in joining but when i was ready, they made changes in membership, how they paid, etc. another thing is how do you know when a site has potential and sustainable?
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@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
8 Nov 15
@TheHorse do you also like having your byline, real or pen name?
@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
29 Oct 15
For the longest time I had always been a one-site girl. It's only around the middle of this year that I joined Swagbucks accepting a referral from a long time myLot friend who was leaving Bubblews at the time. I figured I'd be able to keep in touch with her if I joined SB - making me a two-site girl then. Well, I'm back on here while not leaving the other two either, so I guess I'm a three-site girl now. 
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
29 Oct 15
@hereandthere I haven't been able to dedicate myself fairly and equally to each of them. I have to play favorite. It's not easy for me being a 2 or 3 timers. 
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@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
29 Oct 15
@sishy7 i have tried opening 2 sites at a time, but can manage for only 10, 20 minutes.
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@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
29 Oct 15
i think having a fulltime regular paying job and a family also comes into play.
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@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
29 Oct 15
how do you know when a site is reliable and decide to sign up?
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@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
29 Oct 15
@Gina145 i think others join new sites precisely to be among the first earners
@Gina145 (3949)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
29 Oct 15
@hereandthere I'm sure some do, but that's an easy way to get caught by a site that will never pay. I tried a couple of the newer ones after things went wrong at Bubblews, but I never got paid by those. Not even once. Now others are popping up that look like they belong to the same people and I don't want to get caught again.
@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
31 Oct 15
@marlina some don't seem to need much, but me, i know i get clumsy, make mistakes, don't understand too well and easily annoyed when i lack sleep..
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@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
29 Oct 15
some access sites even while at work. some forgo sleep. don't think i can do both.3 people like this
@marlina (154131)
• Canada
31 Oct 15
@hereandthere I don't think it is smart to forgo sleep.
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@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
29 Oct 15
how do you research a site before you're convinced that it's legitimate and decide to join?
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@Bluedoll (16773)
• Canada
4 Nov 15
@hereandthere well I guess we never know for sure why but we were informed and they did pay right to the end which is something they didn't have to do. It was an honest action on their part.
Lots of people were disappointed and so happy to see it come back eh.
@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
4 Nov 15
@bluedoll i agree. the only time i was disappointed was how they surprised us about ending the earning program and not explaining why.
@arthurchappell (44998)
• Preston, England
31 Oct 15
the basic rules are standard on most sites - don't spam, don't swear, don't bully. They say ignorance is no defence in the eyes of the law - you can't rob a bank and get away with it just because no one said it is wrong - same with social networking etiquette.
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@arthurchappell (44998)
• Preston, England
3 Nov 15
@hereandthere they only have themselves to blame when the information is freely accessible
@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
31 Oct 15
@arthurchappell the problem is some don't check if you're allowed to post your referral link to another site. some don't ask admin first if reposting is allowed.
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@iamshane487 (1139)
• Manila, Philippines
29 Oct 15
I make sure to see the payment proofs and reviews before joining a site. These days I am earning in forumcoin, whzon, mylot and blogjob.
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@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
29 Oct 15
which reviews do you rely on - those from members of other countries or your countrymen?
if someone was paid once, are you convinced it's legit?
@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
29 Oct 15
@hereandthere I was just pointing out to SimplyD how to contact support without logging in.
@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
29 Oct 15
so all your content are still on those sites because they are still earning for you?
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@sofssu (23662)
•
30 Oct 15
@hereandthere some pay some don't, most of them serve as back links to my other articles on other sites. So I let them be.
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@carexing25 (1822)
• Philippines
29 Oct 15
I have joined too many sites, too and yes, I agree with you that sometimes I get mixed up with the rules and that's why I check the rules from time to time as much as I could. And sometimes I forget the other sites so I just focus with what I can remember and where I will truly enjoy
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@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
29 Oct 15
a lot of sites are open and you can navigate within them even without logging in.
that's why i just take the initiative of always checking the owner's, admin's or moderator's profile to update myself - even if i'm not even a member of those sites.
by stalking the owner's, admin's or moderator's profile i also get to know how they run the site, handle issues and treat members.
by stalking the owner's, admin's or moderator's profile i also get to know how they run the site, handle issues and treat members.
• Atlanta, Georgia
29 Oct 15
this is my first site i have ever joined......i had to read to the fine print! matter of fact this is my first blog! so far so good!
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@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
29 Oct 15
welcome then. so how did you know about mylot?
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@GreatMartin (23672)
• Ft. Lauderdale, Florida
6 Nov 15
I keep the number of sites I visit down to a workable amount plus I limit myself to each site plus, for an example, I will only post discussions here on Mondays, Wednesdays and Thursdays so I won't fall behind in responding to comments.
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@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
6 Nov 15
@greatmartin others allot certain minutes or hours or certain times of the day for each site, but your system of assigning days for each site is worth considering, too.
@TheHorse (218918)
• Walnut Creek, California
1 Nov 15
@hereandthere Heh heh. That's correct. I teach at the College, I work with kids for an organization that helps struggling families, and I OCCASIONALLY substitute teach at the preschool where I volunteer. That's the .5. I don't count music, speaker restoration, or the consulting I do for that fella who owes me money.
@JudyEv (340125)
• Rockingham, Australia
2 Nov 15
I really enjoyed the other site but most of my friends have come here so in a way the decision to change was not so difficult. I can manage a couple of sites but no more.
