Never Assume People Know

@megamatt (14291)
United States
October 29, 2015 12:04pm CST
One of the most annoying things it to do is to assume something. Never assume someone knows something. It can lead to embarrassment and frustration when they don't. Communication helps us, and I might not know something is going on if you don't tell me. Out of all of the things I may be talented at, mind reading is not one skill I picked up. Therefore to assume I know without telling me, is a pain. There have been times where friends and family got mad at me about something and said "I thought you knew." Well, obviously, I didn't, because you assumed and didn't ask. I think we all know about the saying about what happens to you and me when you assume. So, communicate, and tell me what I need to know. Don't get upset later when you haven't told me and you think I should know. Everyone doesn't know, because there's someone out there who doesn't.
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@bluesa (15022)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
29 Oct 15
Oh yes, that saying is well known and so true. Same here, if you don't tell me something, don't be surprised if I am a little clueless.
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@megamatt (14291)
• United States
30 Oct 15
Very true, with assumptions you're going to get the "well huh" type of look. And it really upsets me how people think I have the ability to read minds. If only. (although it might not be a good thing.)
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@bluesa (15022)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
30 Oct 15
@megamatt , yeah, I also think it would not be that great to be able to read minds. I'd rather stick to telling people to communicate better.
• United States
29 Oct 15
Communication is important in all phases of life.
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@megamatt (14291)
• United States
29 Oct 15
Indeed it is. How will you ever know what's going on? And it's a two week street...tell me, I'll listen. If you can't tell me, how will I know? Playing a guessing game never ends well. Thanks for replying.
• United States
29 Oct 15
@megamatt My husband thinks I communicate too much! LOL
• Valdosta, Georgia
29 Nov 15
My husband hates when I assume he knows why something upset me. My thought process is that he should know me well enough to know when something made me upset-apparently I am wrong though. Lol.
@Teep11 (7673)
• United States
29 Oct 15
That's true. Communication is very important. Assumptions can darnish one's day.
@megamatt (14291)
• United States
30 Oct 15
Yes indeed, tell me...at least you know I know. You're just verifying if I do, and saving some embarrassment if I don't.
@Freelanzer (10743)
• Canada
30 Oct 15
I must say I am guilty as charged especially in a relationship.
• Japan
26 Jan 16
I agree, clear communication is important. But sometimes I think I have told someone something and actually I just thought about doing it. One of my friends calls that "forgetting to push the play button."