" I have to get a ring to show her she is loved"?

at the best diamond is a ball diamond. I told my husband I didn't want an engagement ring; just wedding rings. When he bought me one I said I was going to buy him one! But I am too cheap to spend money on something that would not have been worn just to make my point. I was glad that he picked a pretty ring though and that it didn't cost more than he could afford.

First off I have to say I love you!!! Second I do think your right a guy or a women should say I love you and mean it. I also thinking if someone wants to buy a ring because they want to get married that it probably should be talked about before hand this way they both know if they want to get married to each other and that one day one of them can ask the other. If a ringing happens that will be between them to choice.Some women want a ring and others don't. I don't think it matters if someone does or doesn't matter as long as you two know you love each other and want to be together. Of course you know I have a ring and we talked about me getting one for a few weeks before I was every asked. So I knew it was coming just didn't know when. I also picked out my own ring and someone went behind my back bought it and got it sized to my finger before asking me.

I don't wear any jewelries, no earrings, necklace or even a ring. I have a wedding ring but I just wore it in my wedding ring. I don't have a habit to wear jewelries. I am not interested in them, too. I prefer my husband to buy something I like rather than the jewelries. For example, I will be happy to have an Android watch than a bracelet

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As you know, I have been there and done that. Never again for me. It is not worth getting married. And those rings are way over priced. I know some girls like those engagement rings, I understand that. But the price of some rings could set someone back a long time. Marriage is an institution. Like a nut house is. No different. No matter about the ring. When those papers are signed and the marriage is legal things change dramatically. Believe me. I was there. And the now ex turned into a monster. No one should try and change another. Stay away from marriage. Believe me. I speak from experience.

You know I do have to agree with you. I don't think it is the diamonds or the fancy rings that shows a women you love her. I prefer the simple things like spending tome together, talking, laughing, and watching a good movie together. I don't need a diamond ring to prove a guy loves me. I just need them beside me during the good times and the bad. This shows a woman a guy loves them more than anything. I was married once a long time ago. Way too young if you ask me. But I felt like it would of worked better if he was just there for me and not because we got married. I don't want to do it again and I don't want a fancy ring or anything to prove a guy loves me.

Men differ in the way they think. They think that by letting go of their hard earned monies they are showing how important the person is. We women on the other hand can be happy without large cars and large homes and expensive jewelry. Only a few women want that. Problem is, men put all women in that category.

The ring thing to a woman is a sign of commitment and if a woman is in love then she wants to be sure that her partner feels the same way - hence a ring. It may cost him a little or a lot but it shows his intention - namely marriage. Also having a ring on the left hand tells the world that someone loves her and she is not open for advances from others. If you want to please a woman a necklace or a bunch of flowers will do the trick.

I wear a wedding ring, but no diamond. The ring shows that the love I share with another person is eternal.

I don't need a diamond ring to prove a guy loves good for you