Say Cheese!!
By Rosekitty
@Rosekitty (19368)
San Marcos, Texas
November 10, 2015 11:15pm CST
I am not the type of person who will be the first to sit for a portrait
I am not the kind who takes pictures in new clothes to show off, i am more of the kind who would rather hang back in a crowd while those things are going on
So when family members want a picture to have for a Christmas card and want me to be in the front i politely try to move to the back, or put a grandkid on my lap to hide in their hair
See i have always known i wasn't photogenic but prefer to just be there as me.
take a pic but don't expect me to pose for it.
I like to be the center of attention, but if that means i had to show my face then that is another thing.
Maybe I wasn't told i'm pretty enough or i felt i was but didn't feel the need to prove it.
I just wanted people to like me for me.
Was that too much to ask?
How about you?..What is your take on picture taking?
Maybe my title should have said say brownies!!
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24 responses
@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
11 Nov 15
@LadyDuck I just can't see how these young ones love taking pics of themselves and then post them online..they look so funny with their duck mouths..hahah
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
11 Nov 15
@LadyDuck good we can hide together..hahaha
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@LadyDuck (471968)
• Switzerland
11 Nov 15
@Rosekitty 
Every time my niece looks at the family photos ask me why she can only see my hair, or half of my face. She is not photogenic, but likes to take selfies.
Every time my niece looks at the family photos ask me why she can only see my hair, or half of my face. She is not photogenic, but likes to take selfies.3 people like this
@wetnosedogs (1533)
• United States
11 Nov 15
I don't like my picture taken either. We can say brownies instead of cheese.
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
11 Nov 15
@wetnosedogs I think i will say that from now on..hahah
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
12 Nov 15
@Rosekitty
I don't ask them to delete it just don't show it to anyone else.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
12 Nov 15
@Susan2015
I don't think anyone would like it.
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
11 Nov 15
@Marcyaz..hahah i always ask them to delete it..
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@celticeagle (168112)
• Boise, Idaho
11 Nov 15
Yeah, say brownies would be good. Pictures aren't taken much around here. My granddaughter likes to take a lot of herself and changes her Facebook pic all the time. She also is going to have another baby so there will be a lot of pics of him.
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
11 Nov 15
@celticeagle baby pics are always allowed around me but grandma ones..nope..now pics of brownies..yes..hahah
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@celticeagle (168112)
• Boise, Idaho
11 Nov 15
@Rosekitty ...Babe pics are the greatest aren't they? Never enough.
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@antonbunot (11093)
• Calgary, Alberta
11 Nov 15
Well, I was a professional photographer back in the Philippines some 25 years ago. In my studio I could make one's picture looked good. But one day a young lady returned to my studio and asked me to take again another passport pictures to replace her passport photos for her application to work abroad. According to her her passport photos did not look like her . . The reason I retouched (photoshopped) her passport photos to make her looked younger and prettier! 
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
12 Nov 15
@antonbunot wow guess she was told she didn't look like her retouched so maybe even though you did a good thing, she wanted to look old?..hahah
@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
12 Nov 15
Once I had my Passport photos taken with my hair permed and the Police in Bilbao said that it was not me. Well I never had that said before but I said for them to check properly and so he did but I never took my photo again with my hair done that way. I had a load of curls I can laugh now but he was pretty serious in what he said at that time. I was in the Airport by the way.
I
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@antonbunot (11093)
• Calgary, Alberta
12 Nov 15
@Auntylou What I heard is one should not be smiling in her/his passport photos!
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
11 Nov 15
@JudyEv yes it is on group photos but not when i have to see them..hahaah
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
12 Nov 15
@lovinangelsinstead21 hiding is a sport of mine..hahaha
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
11 Nov 15
In a group is a better idea as they take it a bit further away and you can sort of hide away in there somewhere too.
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@GardenGerty (160879)
• United States
11 Nov 15
I just put up with the photo ops as best as I can.
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
12 Nov 15
@GardenGerty you have guts..something i never learned..hahah
@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
11 Nov 15
I don´t care for having my photo taken either. I shy away from them too. I put on a silly grin sometimes and get away with that. I am not photogenic either.
I never like to say "cheese" either.
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
12 Nov 15
@lovinangelsinstead21 I am really amazed at all the ones not liking when i thought i'd be the only one..hahah
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
12 Nov 15
@Rosekitty
Oh no, I don´t like photos of me they never look good at least to me anyway. There are one or two photos of me that I like but I was not born photogenic my kids are though which is a good thing. See you are not alone.
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
12 Nov 15
@lovinangelsinstead21 I think my kids and grands are very photogenic maybe cause they are younger than me
@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
12 Nov 15
@valmnz Val, you said the best response!!..I like your style..hahaah
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@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
12 Nov 15
There is only one photo of me on the internet - that's all and no more. I hate having my photo taken or shown.
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
12 Nov 15
@AbbyGreenhill .well i like your picture but i would have been hiding behind your doggie..hahaha
@Jessicalynnt (50523)
• Centralia, Missouri
11 Nov 15
hahah, a photo of you making brownies!
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
11 Nov 15
@Jessicalynnt ..now that would be even better..might have to plan for that..
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
12 Nov 15
@Jessicalynnt hahah i might have to try that
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@Jessicalynnt (50523)
• Centralia, Missouri
11 Nov 15
@Rosekitty could hide behind the spoon! or a plate of them
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@djgarner86 (289)
• Exeter, England
11 Nov 15
I don't think it's a bad thing you don't like your photo take - it's better than someone who goes to the bathroom and takes 100 "selfies".
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
12 Nov 15
@djgarner86..hahah i know..what is with the bathroom selfies...hahah
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
12 Nov 15
@djgarner86 I wish they would say that comment now and stop..hahah
I have a granddaughter that is 25 and when she posts them pics i want to grab her and say."why?'..I call it the self esteem problem hahah
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@djgarner86 (289)
• Exeter, England
12 Nov 15
@Rosekitty haha - I literally have no idea! I agree it is nice to make the effort and look nice, especially if your going out for a meal or a few drinks or something but at some point, deep down, 20 years from now they are going to look back at themselves and say - "What was I actually thinking?!?!"
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@mrsg1981 (133)
• Exeter, England
11 Nov 15
I dislike my photo taken with a passion. I work behind the camera as the photographer. Having my own taken puts me at great unease. The only time we get a portrait of us is if I set up the shot, and we have to take a load and even then I am usually not at all happy with the outcome. I just cannot smile naturally, it looks false and stupid.
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
12 Nov 15
@mrsg1981 I love that pose so yes you look good and love your post..haahh
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
12 Nov 15
@T_gray..well then it is time for you to get someone to take your picture!!
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@T_gray (7774)
• Salina, Kansas
12 Nov 15
@Rosekitty eh I'm not sure anyone can get a good picture of me. Lol. I'm just self conscious I guess
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@missybear (11391)
• United States
12 Nov 15
I look terrible on pictures, my dark circles under my eyes really show up bad on most pictures, it doesn't stop me from taking a selfie here or there ...LOL, I have to make my self look the right way and make sure the angle is right
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
12 Nov 15
@missybear ..Missy, you are gorgeous and you won Mr Bear's heart!!..
@ScribbledAdNauseum (104628)
• United States
12 Nov 15
Pictures? No let me take my own please. I am always awkward, unsure of what to do and end up usually looking quite silly. Do not pose me for crying out loud! I will twich
and flinch before you can get back behind the camera.
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
12 Nov 15
@ScribbledAdNauseum hahah you sound like a 2 yr old now..but i know what you mean..hahah
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
12 Nov 15
@jstory07 I'm amazed how many here don't like it either..
@Tampa_girl7 (50578)
• United States
12 Nov 15
I really hate to have my picture taken.
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@Pattitude (1287)
• Newton, North Carolina
12 Nov 15
I'm like that for family get togethers. It's like pulling teeth to get me in the picture!
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
12 Nov 15
@Pattitude..I'm loving all these funny comments of others not liking it either..
@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
12 Nov 15
@Auntylou I agree..those aren't posed and more relaxed!
