I Always Felt Safe in Paris

Photo courtesy of Morguefile.com.
Laguna Woods, California
November 13, 2015 11:04pm CST
Today, France experienced the worst terrorist attack since World War II. It was their equivalent of 9/11. I am heart-broken for the country. My husband and I have traveled to Paris several times. After the first visit, I felt that it was safer than most large American cities. Many times, my husband and I have strolled along the Seine ... shown in the photo. Twenty-three years ago, we hosted an exchange student from France. After she returned home, we let our 14 year old daughter go stay with her and her family. Sixteen years ago, we let another one of our daughters study in Switzerland for a few months when she was 14. She and her classmates spent a lot of time in France. Fifteen years ago, we hosted another exchange student from France. Afterwards, we let our 17 year old daughter go stay with her. Twelve years ago, that same daughter went back to France to take some summer-school classes while she was in college. Honestly, I never thought twice about any of the times our daughters were in France by themselves, without any family members along. I always believed they were perfectly safe. Today, that sense of safety was destroyed ... and that is exactly what the terrorists hoped to achieve. I'm so sad. UPDATE: One small ray of relief ... one of our former exchange students, who lives in Paris, contacted us to let us know that she and her family were not injured in the attacks, although they are very shaken by what happened. The other former exchange student lives in Dijon, so her family was not immediately affected by what happened, although they are saddened by the events, too.
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@LadyDuck (471573)
• Switzerland
14 Nov 15
I have lived in France 25 years, it is a wonderful nation where people and journalists do not fear to say what they think. This is why now France is under attack.
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• Laguna Woods, California
14 Nov 15
We have always loved the time that we spent in France, and so have our daughters. One of them majored in French in college. I agree that it is a wonderful nation, and I am so sad about what has happened.
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@amnabas (14283)
• Karachi, Pakistan
14 Nov 15
Lets hope they get the peace right back.
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@amnabas (14283)
• Karachi, Pakistan
14 Nov 15
@DeborahDiane yes they should be arrested.
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• Laguna Woods, California
15 Nov 15
@amnabas -- The people who helped them should be arrested and tried. They have to be stopped.
• Laguna Woods, California
14 Nov 15
I hope that these terrorists can be stopped. I know that they have also killed and injured innocent people in many countries.
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• Preston, England
14 Nov 15
such attacks could occur anywhere so no one should give in to fear of going anywhere - security is bound to tighten so it will get safe again
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• Preston, England
16 Nov 15
@DeborahDiane they will, and the terrorists will move on to other targets so we should all be cautious
• Preston, England
14 Nov 15
@DeborahDiane I'm sure those days will return
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• Laguna Woods, California
16 Nov 15
@arthurchappell - I certainly hope so!
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@just4him (317090)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
14 Nov 15
So Horrible. My heart goes out to all involved.
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• Laguna Woods, California
15 Nov 15
My heart goes out to the victims, too. One of them was a girl who was going to a college about 30 miles from where I live. So sad!
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@thauser (35)
• United States
14 Nov 15
I enjoyed short weekend visits to Paris during my college years in Germany.
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• Laguna Woods, California
15 Nov 15
When we visited Paris the last time, we took a trip to Germany. It is so easy to visit both countries in one trip.
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@norcal (4889)
• Franklinton, North Carolina
14 Nov 15
I have never been there. I guess things will change there now. I will never see Paris as you knew it.
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• Laguna Woods, California
14 Nov 15
Yes, you are probably right. Isn't that sad?
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@norcal (4889)
• Franklinton, North Carolina
15 Nov 15
@DeborahDiane It certainly is :(
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
14 Nov 15
I never thought Paris could experience this kind of terrorism. I just hope and pray nothing of this sort will ever happen again in any part of the world and those who do this will be punished as soon as possible.
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• Laguna Woods, California
14 Nov 15
I agree that these people, and all the ones who helped them in any way, should be punished swiftly and harshly.
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@celticeagle (167211)
• Boise, Idaho
15 Nov 15
Timing is everything. Lucky all are safe and none were still over there.
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• Laguna Woods, California
16 Nov 15
I feel very sorry for the people who were affected and their families, however.
@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
16 Nov 15
So sad! This will not help the world become a safer place but only make it more dangerous.
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• Laguna Woods, California
16 Nov 15
I agree. This incident has made the world more dangerous ... and that is so sad.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
15 Nov 15
As long as there are people who would like to wreck the peace of the land , there will be no safe place . At FB today , i edited my profile picture to depict the flag of France . It's our way of saying we are praying for France .
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• Laguna Woods, California
16 Nov 15
I also made the same edit to my Facebook page. I, too, prayed for France.
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@Tampa_girl7 (50317)
• United States
14 Nov 15
I always felt safe in Paris too. I felt Safe in all of the European countries I lived or traveled in. It is very sad.
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• Laguna Woods, California
14 Nov 15
I agree. This is a very sad day for people all over the world.
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@DaddyEvil (137261)
• United States
15 Nov 15
I failed to hear about this until this afternoon, @DeborahDiane . I am glad to hear the people you know well are all okay!
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@xFiacre (13049)
• Ireland
14 Nov 15
I lived in Paris 1985/86 and have visited many times and always felt safe. In 85 there was a small bomb in a bookshop and having lived in Belfast in the 70s and 80s that was no big deal for me, but I was shocked that Paris was deserted for a few days after that. Now they've overtaken Belfast in the terror stakes.
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• Laguna Woods, California
14 Nov 15
This was the worst incident of this type in France since World War II. How devastating!
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• Thiruvananthapuram, India
15 Nov 15
Its indeed a really sad moment for the whole world.
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• Laguna Woods, California
16 Nov 15
I agree! It is a very sad moment for the world.
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@JudyEv (340511)
• Rockingham, Australia
14 Nov 15
We spent some weeks in France including Paris a few months ago. I felt perfectly safe. It is devastating that this has happened. Such a shame.
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