Do you like to wash dishes?
By Lee Ka
@kaka135 (14931)
Malaysia
December 4, 2015 12:37am CST
My 3-year-old daughter always likes to wash dishes since she was young. For her, it's like playing water, but she really does the work seriously.
She always offers help when she sees me washing dishes, or she just tells me she wants to wash dishes.
Actually I am not so fond of washing dishes, so I am glad to have a little helper. Hope she will always like to help even when she is older.
Who usually does this job in your family?
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@kaka135 (14931)
• Malaysia
13 Dec 15
@Hatley My little girl likes to do the laundry as well. I think different people like to do different tasks. I have read that it's good to assign the housework to the children according to their interests, though it might be good for them to know how to do everything at home.
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@youless (112589)
• Guangzhou, China
4 Dec 15
That's so nice you let your daughter wash the dishes. Children need to do some housework. Then it will be good for them when they grow up. Children are very sweet and in fact they like to be helpful. Usually in my home I will wash the dishes. If I am tired, my husband will do it. My son sometimes will ask for it by himself. i hope he will have less homework so that I will feel more relaxed for him to help me.
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@kaka135 (14931)
• Malaysia
5 Dec 15
Yes, I think most children like to help, they also like to do what the parents are doing. Most of the time, the parents disallow them to help when they are young, so they don't feel like helping anymore when they get older. My parents were like that when I was young, so I didn't get to do much housework.
Good that your son is willing to help. I understand the heavy load of a student nowadays, and I heard in China, there is even more competitive. I always hope the children can have less homework to do and more play time.
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@celticeagle (168420)
• Boise, Idaho
4 Dec 15
I think a lot of kids are this way. I like to wash dishes. Sometimes I forget to put the dishes in the dishwasher. I like to see my hands so nice and clean.
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@kaka135 (14931)
• Malaysia
5 Dec 15
@celticeagle We usually only wash with cold waters here, as we don't have warm water from the pipe.
@celticeagle (168420)
• Boise, Idaho
5 Dec 15
@kaka135 ...I like to be in warm waters keeping my nails clean.
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@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
5 Dec 15
she's so cute! maybe she'll be interested in helping you with the laundry next or watering the plants?
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@allknowing (137906)
• India
5 Dec 15
Hope she wears gloves as detergents may be harsh on her delicate skin.
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@kaka135 (14931)
• Malaysia
6 Dec 15
@allknowing Okay, thanks for your concern. Perhaps I should make some homemade detergent for her, so I know there is no chemicals inside.
@allknowing (137906)
• India
5 Dec 15
@kaka135 She is still a baby and I am sure her hands will turn rough. Please do so as soon as possible. I hope she really really enjoys that chore. But from the health point of view of your little one you need to take care.
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@kaka135 (14931)
• Malaysia
7 Dec 15
@SIMPLYD I think for young children, doing chores is like having fun as well. Sometimes my children like washing the toilet, they have so much fun playing with the water and bubbles. I try not to make chores like tedious work to do but fun work.
But sometimes it's hard to get the children tidy up the toys they have played.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
4 Dec 15
I am usually the one to do dishes in my house. I am not a big fan of doing them either but I don't have a choice. My kids like to help with other things but I don't want them to break a dish or cut themselves on a knife so I don't allow them to do dishes yet.
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@kaka135 (14931)
• Malaysia
5 Dec 15
I don't let my children wash the knife yet, though I let them use it to cut something. As I have been letting my children to use those breakable kitchenware since they were young, and I see them handle it well, then only I dare to let my children wash the dishes.
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@Traceyjayne (1784)
• United Kingdom
6 Dec 15
I love washing the dishes but not drying them !
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@Traceyjayne (1784)
• United Kingdom
7 Dec 15
@kaka135 I do use a cloth as I hate to see the marks that are left behind if they just drain.
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@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
13 Dec 15
This is such a cute photo!! I hate washing dishes, you won't see me washing dishes! I especially hate the gloves and the squeakiness of the gloves!
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@Marilynda1225 (83103)
• United States
6 Dec 15
No dish-washing in my house I put everything in the dishwasher. You are lucky for your little helper
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
12 Dec 15
it never was m ine either so I go not miss not having to do the dishes at all as I was the on ly 0ne in t he family to do the dishes they all would help at any other chore lol
@whiteream (8567)
• United States
5 Dec 15
I hate washing dishes. I can sometime talk my son into washing them. When I was a kid there were ten of us living in the same house. I think that is why I don't like doing them so much.
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