Do you cheat?
@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
United States
December 20, 2015 8:40am CST
I often think about cheating. I plan out exactly how I would do it. I have all the little details taken care of. No one would have a clue, especially my husband. I am no spring chicken, but I still have a lot of life left in me and sometimes I just want to cheat so badly.....
What about you? Do you ever cheat by peeking at the gifts under the tree, or snooping through the receipts after your husband went Christmas shopping to get gifts for you?
I am happy to say that I have not peeked at all, after all, I do like surprises!
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@marijuana (570)
• Tel Aviv, Israel
20 Dec 15
I cheat a lot :) but the wholesome kinds of cheating lol!
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@marijuana (570)
• Tel Aviv, Israel
20 Dec 15
@AbbyGreenhill yeah like I kinda distract someone put more servings of food on their plates when they are not looking lol.
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@saurabhrmp (2283)
• Hyderabad, India
20 Dec 15
I wont cheat with my wife, but with friends it is OK to cheat sometimes, as it is OK to have that.
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@saurabhrmp (2283)
• Hyderabad, India
20 Dec 15
@AbbyGreenhill , Yes correct sometimes. It will be fun among friends.
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@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
20 Dec 15
Hey, we do what we have to in order to make life fun!
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@inertia4 (27960)
• United States
21 Dec 15
@AbbyGreenhill LOL. Yes you did. Good work there.
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@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
21 Dec 15
Then I did it correctly if that's what you thought!
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@Butchcass4 (5895)
• United States
22 Dec 15
I too like surprises so I won't snoop. It would take all the surprise out of it if I did. Besides I don't think God likes snoopers and I don't want to offend Him for sure.
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@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
23 Dec 15
@Butchcass4 I know he watches, but he isn't going to yell if anyone snoops.
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@Butchcass4 (5895)
• United States
23 Dec 15
@AbbyGreenhill Its just like you snoop into something that your not supposed to and theres that eerie feeling someOne is watching you and thats because God IS watching you! He watches each and everyone of us 24/7 and He still loves us unconditionally thats amazing and because of Jesus' sacrifice to pay for our sins all we have to do is believe!
@cindiowens (5120)
• North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina
20 Dec 15
As you already know, I already opened one of mine, lol.
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@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
20 Dec 15
Yes you did and I watched that camera demo almost all day yesterday thinking..but changed my mine.
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@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
20 Dec 15
@cindiowens Maybe that's not the one they were selling yesterday. they kept saying how light it was. I'll stick with my little Kikon!
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@cindiowens (5120)
• North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina
20 Dec 15
@AbbyGreenhill I love it, but it is not as simple as what I am used to. It is heavy, and you have to change the lenses. It takes great pictures though, and I do have a tripod that I can use if I need to.
@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
21 Dec 15
yeppers..everyone knows not to give me a gift and tell me it is not to be opened till the 25th, cause i will cross out the numbers on the calendar to make it the 25th..so there
@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
22 Dec 15
@AbbyGreenhill yes i am a special person who is allowed all sort of cheating..hahaah
@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
21 Dec 15
LOL, I had a feeling that's how you roll!
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
22 Dec 15
I like surprises so I don't ever feel the need to peek! Lol.
@Raine38 (12250)
• United States
20 Dec 15
For a while there I thought the discussion is going towards another path but I am glad I like to read through the end :). Being cheated on by my ex, I am not a fan of "cheating".
I did try to ":cheat" on my boyfriend though by trying to peek at the wrapped packages under our Christmas tree. Since I have two gifts from him and I guess my face showed my desire to peek, the boyfriend relented and let me peek one of the packages without opening it. I saw a zales box and that's just about it. He would not let me have any more peek.
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@Raine38 (12250)
• United States
20 Dec 15
@AbbyGreenhill I don't think it's a ring, judging by the box it could either be a bracelet or a necklace. We've only been going out for a year and plus, we both know that we are not yet ready. I just divorced my ex after discovering the 6th woman he's cheating on me.
@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
20 Dec 15
Zales - maybe it's a diamond engagement ring? Are you expecting that???? Yes, always read to the end! LOL!
@Jessicalynnt (50523)
• Centralia, Missouri
30 Dec 15
I hate when I see a receipt by accident, it makes me sad! I do NOT want to know!
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@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
30 Dec 15
I know where my husband hides his receipts but I never snoop.
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@Jessicalynnt (50523)
• Centralia, Missouri
31 Dec 15
@AbbyGreenhill mine orders online and then forgets to go to my email to move the notifications, doesnt help I have text alerts, LOL, but I try not to look too close
@euphie (573)
• Ballymena, Northern Ireland
20 Dec 15
@AbbyGreenhill True and most people know it too lol
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@Traceyjayne (1784)
• United Kingdom
20 Dec 15
I do not cheat or peek !.... you either spoil a lovely surprise .... or else you find something that you wish you hadn't !
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@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
20 Dec 15
That second part is the killer, finding something you hate.
@whiteream (8567)
• United States
20 Dec 15
No I don't because once we had my son my husband and decided, we would not get each other Christmas gifts. We spend all that money on our son.
@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
20 Dec 15
@whiteream We have all we need, so what we buy at Christmas are really tokens, or things we do happen to need and didn't know it!
@whiteream (8567)
• United States
20 Dec 15
@AbbyGreenhill I am sure when it is just us we will get each other gifts.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
20 Dec 15
I used to but n ow Im elderly and in a retirement center so no chamnce to cheat and not much l ike a real C ristas jere lol
@celticeagle (166783)
• Boise, Idaho
20 Dec 15
When I was nine until I was sixteen I lived in my step father's house and had a step brother. Each year my step brother would find the hiding places where the adults had hidden our gifts. I was right there with him and we would sneak looks at all the gifts. I never did before that and I never did after that. I think that proves that a lot of what we do is spurred on by who we run with. We may think the thoughts but actually executing them is another thing completely.
@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
20 Dec 15
I was the 'ring leader' in my house - I bossed my sister who was 9 years younger. Wasn't it fun snooping?
@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
20 Dec 15
My husband just went to the store and I asked for what and was told none of my business, and know another gift is under the tree. A few things he got I knew of before but most I will be surprised.
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@Marilynda1225 (82721)
• United States
20 Dec 15
I can't cheat cause there isn't anyone here to buy me gifts. No snooping for me 
. My gifts will arrive on Christmas when the family gathers and then I get to be surprised when I open them
. My gifts will arrive on Christmas when the family gathers and then I get to be surprised when I open them@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
20 Dec 15
At least you won't have any temptations! When I was a kid my father's family in Louisiana mailed us gifts and we got them very early but we were not allowed to open them so I peeked at every one of them!
@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
21 Dec 15
LOL, some surprises could be not so good....peeking can solve that problem.
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@JESSY3236 (19912)
• United States
21 Dec 15
I used to try to snoop. My fiance does know one thing he is getting because I had to ask him if he has seen the show.
@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
22 Dec 15
I guess you got him tickets for something...he doesn't have to snoop you told him!
