Do You Stress Over Being able to get Back to everyone who comments on you post?
By brendamarie
@whiteream (8567)
United States
January 12, 2016 2:03am CST
Do you stress out over getting back to everyone who comments on your posts? I know, many newbies to the sites may stress out about getting back to everyone. After one has been on MyLot for awhile you may have many people commenting on one post. I know, everyone wants to get back to everyone who posts a comment. But doing so may time time. I know, I tend to not only read a post but all of the comments on said post. Therefore, it can take me awhile to get back to everyone who has comment on my post. But, i don't stress out about it. I will get back to them at some point. I only have so much time to send on Mylot, like most other people.
DO you get stressed out when you can't get back to everyone who has commented on your posts?
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29 responses
@whiteream (8567)
• United States
13 Jan 16
Ya, that is true but I know when people just start doing thing on the site they do stress about it. One of the great things about being here is that there are many people who have been around for awhile and have the knowledge to help newbies.
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
19 Jan 16
@whiteream And see, I must have been stressed out enough to return. Lol!
@whiteream (8567)
• United States
18 Jan 16
That's true stress is not good for your health. The good thing is that most people her understand that there just isn't enough time to get back to everyone right away.
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@JudyEv (342112)
• Rockingham, Australia
12 Jan 16
Because we're getting paid for the comments and responses we make I don't worry too much about going to people's discussions to interact with them. Do you mean replying to their comments on your discussions or going to their discussions and leaving a comment? I'm still a bit confused about this.
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@whiteream (8567)
• United States
18 Jan 16
At this time I actually mean both. I am very far behind on just getting back to everyone who has commented on my last few posts. I will usually read a comments someone made on one of my post reply to it than go and read a few of their posts.
@Wonderwall79 (116)
• Te Puke, New Zealand
12 Jan 16
Hi yes I'm new here but been on other discussion forums I read and appreciate all who have commented and I well I wouldn't say stressed but alert haha, I do try to respond to all who have taken the time to respond.
Just a mark of respect for me personally but each to their own :)
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@whiteream (8567)
• United States
18 Jan 16
I know you seem to be like lighten and get back to people fast.
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@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
13 Jan 16
You know it very well how and when to reach to everyone, as far as posting comments are concerned.
Hope you are doing fine. 
Hope you are doing fine. 1 person likes this
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
18 Jan 16
@much2say - Nice to hear that you are doing fine in the new year. Does not matter if there are some responses to be commented, you could do it at your convenience.
. Does not matter if there are some responses to be commented, you could do it at your convenience.1 person likes this
@much2say (56053)
• Los Angeles, California
15 Jan 16
Thank you @dpk262006 I try! That's all I can say - I try but admit I know I don't get to it all! 
I am still very much behind.
A happy new year to you!! We are doing well - just busy as always!! Hope you are doing well!!
I am still very much behind.
A happy new year to you!! We are doing well - just busy as always!! Hope you are doing well!!1 person likes this
@whiteream (8567)
• United States
18 Jan 16
I don't stress about it. I just wish that I could instantly get back to everyone that is kind enough ro read my posts.
@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
12 Jan 16
I think there are far more important things in life to stress over, this surely isn't one of them.
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@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
24 Jan 16
@whiteream That's very true. We all do understand how overwhelming it can be at times.
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@whiteream (8567)
• United States
18 Jan 16
I think many of us when we first starting writing on sites like this stressed out about it. People who have been doing this type of thing for awhile know, that it isn't easy getting back right away and understand.
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@whiteream (8567)
• United States
25 Jan 16
@simone10 One of the many reason that I love it here. I do get back to all in time.
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@fishtiger58 (29820)
• Momence, Illinois
13 Jan 16
I know I will get to them. I love that I can delete my notifications as I get to them, that really helps me keep track.
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@allknowing (137781)
• India
13 Jan 16
@fishtiger58 I saw it the 'recent' yesterday There it was mentioned.
Here is a screen shot
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@allknowing (137781)
• India
13 Jan 16
I just saw your response to one post which has 380 comments. I can see that notification scene (lol)
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@fishtiger58 (29820)
• Momence, Illinois
13 Jan 16
@allknowing Did you count them last count was over 200? It's still going on as well lol with I don't know how many subject changes. It's pretty fun.
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@whiteream (8567)
• United States
18 Jan 16
I wish I had more time to respond to all the wonderful people who saport me right away. I do usually get back to everyone sooner or later. And, I always read a few of their posts when I do get back to them.
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@Shiva49 (26776)
• Singapore
18 Jan 16
@whiteream Responding to people is like listening to what they say and then making our views clear. If we find nothing to say then we have the "like" to signify that we have read them.If we post only discussions then it becomes more like a one way street - talking without listening! siva
@GardenGerty (160949)
• United States
13 Jan 16
No, I know that I cannot necessarily return 1 for 1 responses or views or even likes. I try to especially visit new people who show up on my posts, though. I refuse to let anything about myLot stress me. It is a recreational site for me.
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@whiteream (8567)
• United States
18 Jan 16
I am not saying that i get stressed out about it. But, I do wish that I had more time to get back to everyone. My time here has been very limited the past week and I know thing are going to get even more busy for me over the few months. So I will have even less time to spend here.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
18 Jan 16
@whiteream Yes - if you can't spend the time here you aren't going to be able to respond to everyone. Just do the best you can, and we'll be pleased to see you when you are around.
@whiteream (8567)
• United States
18 Jan 16
I do really stress about it I just wish I could get back to everyone. There are many great people here who support me and I like to return the favor.
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@whiteream (8567)
• United States
18 Jan 16
Well I agree with you there. I have seen people who come here and post but never interact with anyone.
