RayD

@Mbalie (316)

South Africa

Joined myLot 8 years ago

Lover of life!!! Kind and gentle. Let the beat move you...

RayD's Activity

Valentine's Day is around the corner. Will you be celebrating this holiday?

Michelle @infatuatedbby (94914) • United States 10 Jan 16

Valentine's Day is around the corner (2/14/16). Will you be celebrating this holiday? Are you going to start preparing in advance? Do you have any traditions with your significant other or friends/family? This will be my 9th...

valentines day

love

relationships

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RayD @infatuatedbby Thank you.

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African Cuisine!!

RayD @Mbalie (316) • South Africa 12 Jan 16

Yummy, some chicken feet my personal favourite. Actually I have two South African dishes that I love the most. I know this looks like something out of a scary movie, but chicken feet are really nice,...

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RayD Yes its delicious.

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Does it worth?

Zhaoyue @Zhaoxiaoyue (65) • Beijing, China 12 Jan 16

Recently, I don't feel well.Maybe for the studies.I have a sore throat,stay up late at night in order to finish my work,my study...I know life always tough,and I try to be tougher,just wondering what I have done now is worth?

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RayD @Zhaoxiaoyue Don't stress, you will be fine. You got this

13 Jan 16

Happy... grateful!

RayD @Mbalie (316) • South Africa 12 Jan 16

I love how welcoming and friendly members are here on MyLot. Always willing to give guidance and impart knowledge whenever they can. Society would be such a better place if we had more people like this. Thank you all for being...

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RayD Good to hear that. Keep well.

13 Jan 16

How do we stay self Motivated ?

Bhagyashree Suvarna @hydraa (806) • Mumbai, India 12 Jan 16

It's very much important to stay Motivated all the time, because Motivation has some thing to do with our success. So, how do we stay Motivated constantly ? It's is often found that, when we start something new (like some new...

motivation

self motivate

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RayD @hydraa

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So Incredibly Bored

Ivelisse Cruz @IvySaysHi (4467) • United States 12 Jan 16

If you couldn't already tell from the title of my post i am really bored. It isn't your average bored either. It is the type of bored where nothing you usually do for entertainment will satisfy you. I don't know what to...

boredom

need entertainment

blah

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RayD You know the saying " An idle mind is the devils workshop." Its always best to get up and do something constructive no matter how mundane it may look. Explore around your neighborhood you might find something to do there or help someone out.

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Where to go on vacation?

Lena Kovadlo @lovebuglena (44721) • Staten Island, New York 12 Jan 16

I haven't been on vacation in years and think it's about time I went away somewhere. I am not a huge fan of lounging on the beach all day for an entire week. I find it boring and even exhausting. I prefer to go exploring and...

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RayD Come to Africa. Lots of beautiful places to see and experience the way of life here. If you like nature and animals you can go on Safari drives and see the Big 5 and other animals in the wild.

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How do we stay self Motivated ?

Bhagyashree Suvarna @hydraa (806) • Mumbai, India 12 Jan 16

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RayD I surround myself with positive and progressive people. I am lucky to have a bestfriend who always inspires me to be the best in whatever I apply my mind to. When I look at her achievements it motivates me push harder. I mean if she can do it so can I. Even...

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How difficult it is to say No ?

Mukund G Kallapur @WriterMukund (181) • India 12 Jan 16

I had read once that, one should learn to say NO. But I want to discuss here whether it is easy to say No or it is difficult. Personally I feel it a little difficult. An example could be of lending books. Assume you have a good...

easy

difficult

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RayD I am generally a nice and kind hearted person and find it difficult to say No at times. People tend to take advantage of that. I have had moments where someone borrows money and when its time to pay it back they run away and ignore me. I have learnt the hard...

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Adult Dream Come True

Irene Nevins @irenen1 (228) • New Bedford, Massachusetts 12 Jan 16

For the last forty five years I have been dragging my laundry to a local laundromat. I yearned for the day I would be able to have my own washer/dryer. Most apartments do not allow tenants to house their own laundry appliances...

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RayD Happy for you. I hand wash all my laundry. It is a tedious task, but has to be done.

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I'd Be Lost Without My Car

MARILYN @Marilynda1225 (83118) • United States 12 Jan 16

I had to run out this morning and do a few errands and the thought crossed my mind as to how lucky I am to be able to jump in my car and get the things done that need to be done. Life would be so much more difficult if I had to...

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RayD Having a car makes life easier. May you drive for long time.

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love equally or not

DEV D @abhinalstrikr (4111) • India 11 Jan 16

I feel that there are variety of love here or are they of same type we love new born baby,our parents,beautiful girl, our friendship,reading books,touring,adventure,singing. many more, are they all alike or different ? what makes...

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RayD @abhinalstrikr The measure of love is not the same. Each person e love in a different way and the intensity is different. Well that is what I believe.

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Feeling good to be back

SHOHANA @SHOHANA (16093) • Bangladesh 12 Jan 16

hope i will be happy with my decision near future that i have come back on mylot and now i will try my best to spend some good time with this site. Though my exam is upcoming.

mylot

come back

exam

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RayD Welcome back. Hope you will enjoy your time here.

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I Cannot Believe I ate a Donut With Frosting!!!!

Patsie Hatley @Hatley (163776) • Garden Grove, California 12 Jan 16

Darn whatever was I thinking Im a diabetic for Goodness sakes and I should've k own better.I had scrambled eggs and oast plus coffee and cranberry juice. My main hope is that the metformin pill I just took...

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RayD Drink lots of water it will flush out excess sugar in your body. Do you have a machine to check your blood glucose levels yourself?

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I'm new to the site, and have questions about posting...

Chani @tarotmore (112) • Seattle, Washington 12 Jan 16

Hi! So I'm new to myLot- welcome to me- and wanted to know more about posting links on here. I reviewed the community guidelines already, and understand them, but still have some questions. 1.) If someone asks a question on here,...

sharing

advertising

mylot

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RayD Welcome to MyLot. I am still new here too. I think some older members will shed some light on this matter. They are more in the know about the points you have enquired about.

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Hello! Tuesday 1/12/16

Alfredo Rossi @amadeo (111938) • United States 12 Jan 16

Good morning. A big accident hear by and causing power outage. A big one while driving by saw the jaw of life trying to get someone out. Drivers never learn to give more space in between. They are always on top of you.Then the car...

accident

news

personal

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RayD Good Morning. Accidents can be prevented by having a safe following distance.

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Finally, My Humanatic Log In!

Jaymie Suh @cherriefic (10399) • Philippines 12 Jan 16

I applied for Humanatics over the weekend and received an email it will take 5-7 business days for them to assess my application. Well, I just got the email today informing me that I can already start reviewing calls. It comes...

job

calls

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RayD Lucky you. I tried creating a profile over the weekend and was told it is not offered in South Africa yet.

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I Need to Exercise!!

Erlinda Blevins @Erlinda2017 (6) • San Antonio, Texas 12 Jan 16

I need to exercise. I know the benefits of exercise: -increased energy - losing excess weight - more flexibility - better moods - increased strength So why don’t I just find an exercise I like and go with that? Well, I’m “too...

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RayD Welcome to Mylot Erlinda. Finding the kind of exercise that you enjoy is a great idea. That in itself makes you to look forward to exercising regularly. I love jogging and some aerobics.

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How can I make money

scheng1 @scheng1 (24649) • Singapore 11 Jan 16

When we read the newspapers, we always read without questioning the source or in-depth questions about how the news will affect us. If we want to change our thinking to get rich, we must have a business mindset. That means when...

make money

earn money

business

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RayD @scheng1 Very true.

12 Jan 16

Spending quality time with yourself... "Me Time"

RayD @Mbalie (316) • South Africa 8 Jan 16

After a long week of hard work at the office, running the household and family errands, I always try to find time to spend some quality time with myself. For me personally, I feel it gives me time to reflect, rest, refresh and...

quality time

rejuvenate

rest

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RayD Yes living a balanced life is very important.

12 Jan 16