Getting My Hopes Up!
By Mandy
@x0MandyLynn0x (1056)
Canada
January 13, 2016 11:31am CST
Have you ever met anyone in your life where you thought everything was going to be great? Even if there were a few bumps in the relationship? But than to realize, to them. It was all just a game. You were the game, and you got played!
I pretty much went through that recently. Had high hopes..I suppose you should never get too comfortable with a person! And even though at times I have trust issues, I tried believing her. In the end, that backfired on me too.
So now I'm at the point of having to move on. And hope for things to get better one day!
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21 responses
@PainsOnSlate (21852)
• Canada
13 Jan 16
Life is full of disappointments, hang in, be positive and you will be fine.
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@GardenGerty (161221)
• United States
13 Jan 16
When you have been betrayed it is easy to become bitter, skeptical and wary, but you are not meant to live that way.
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@allknowing (138414)
• India
14 Jan 16
I am sure you will now be wiser on how to deal in the future.
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@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
13 Jan 16
Sorry to hear about this. How did you find out it was a game?
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@x0MandyLynn0x (1056)
• Canada
13 Jan 16
Because her actions proved to me how she really felt. She randomly decided to toss me out of her life like I meant nothing and blocked me on everything. When just a couple days before I was 'everything' to her..head games..
@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
14 Jan 16
@x0MandyLynn0x did something happen? I mean prior to her departure. sorry to hear about this, it does sound very terrible.
@maezee (41988)
• United States
18 Jan 16
That is really tough. Its a hard adjustment to go from being in a relationship to on your own. After a break up I always try to do some soul searching, find things that will make me happy again. For some reason, though I hate exercising, running is a great way to think and clear your head of some of the emotions. Keep your head up!
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
13 Jan 16
I'm sorry. =( I hope you find the person that you deserve soon. 
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@phillyguy (3005)
• Philippines
14 Jan 16
a lot of things are out of our control but what is important is you're now at the point of moving on, and don't just hope instead believe that things will get better soon, be positive and look forward to a lot of better things to come as it surely will if you will keep your head up :)
@cherriefic (10399)
• Philippines
14 Jan 16
I'm sorry to hear that. You will find someone who you can really trust. It just takes time. Don't loose hope.
@Morleyhunt (21744)
• Canada
14 Jan 16
Never try to rush a relationship. My husband and I were acquaintances for at least a year before our first date. Eight months later we made commitment (engagement) and though we had planned to wait a years before our marriage, family resistance caused us to move they date up to a mere five months later. We saved intimacy until marriage. We have now been married for forty years.
@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
14 Jan 16
Don't feel down. Just learn from this experience and move on. People who deceive you doesn't deserve you in the first place. Leave them behind in the past and walk forward to the happy future where someone very special is waiting for you to find them.
(I hope I listen to what I preach too. LOL!!)
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
14 Jan 16
We are sorry to hear that your trust was breached and you felt jolted by unexpected developments. I think it happens with all of us that we start trusting someone and later on due to some reasons our trust gets dashed to the ground and we feel cheated. Take it on your stride the recent happening. These are the lessons which we learn from our life.
@Shavkat (140158)
• Philippines
14 Jan 16
I had experienced this a couple of time. I took it as a learning process of being vulnerable. For the next it will happen again, I will know what would be the course of action.
@GardenGerty I agree with your statement. We need to see life is wonderful and try to move on.
@Letranknight2015 (52171)
• Philippines
14 Jan 16
I read that comment you made with @Drosophila and it was horrible @x0MandyLynn0x you're a wonderful person. you don't need that kind of a person, one day it will definitely in the ****** the karma will be so intense that it won't literally make her move on. sad to know this happened, you definitely don't deserve to be treated that way. how can one person just "play" in the relationship.
@JudyEv (342670)
• Rockingham, Australia
14 Jan 16
That's a shame. It is awful when someone breaks your trust - particularly if you've had a hard time giving it.
