The Reluctant Prostitute.

My own
By Jabo
@jaboUK (64354)
United Kingdom
January 19, 2016 1:32pm CST
Late at night she walks the street, Her body is for rental, But her children have to eat So please don't be judgemental. Her husband was a foul-mouthed drunk, His beatings she'd endure, Could not believe how low she'd sunk, So she walked out the door. She took her children to her Ma's She knew they'd be safe there, And she thanked her lucky stars That Ma would show them care. She tried so hard to find some work, Her mother had no cash, From any job she would not shirk, But hopes were always dashed. She went for jobs both near and far, She told them that she would Wash dishes, floors, serve in a bar, But it was just no good. She told her ma that she had found Work in an all-night diner, She told her lies to make it sound That there was no job finer. And so she walks the street at night Her sorry trade to ply, She's ever ready to take flight When the cops come by. So if you see a girl like her, Don't think that she's all bad, Do not condemn, but pity her, That life should be so sad. Original poem by jabo, and my own photo.
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56 responses
@garymarsh6 (23404)
• United Kingdom
19 Jan 16
That is such a nice poem Janet and there by the grace of God go I comes to mind. She was doing it for her kids. Poor thing.
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@vandana7 (100220)
• India
7 Aug 16
For starters, she should leave that guy. More help would be forthcoming if she leaves that guy. People tend to sympathize with wives of drunkards. But if she is continuing to live with him, sympathy gets washed out....isn't it indirectly financing that drinking habit? We don't have anything for that...
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
19 Jan 16
@garymarsh6 I was just trying to point out that things aren't always as they seem Gary.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
25 Jan 16
@Gillygirl Thanks Gill, I'm glad that you liked it.
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@MALUSE (69373)
• Germany
19 Jan 16
Quite a change from your usual light-hearted poems! Ma's / stars -- I'm sure there's a dialect somewhere where this rhymes.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
19 Jan 16
@MALUSE It rhymes the way I pronounce it. In fact I don't see how else you could pronounce Ma's so that it didn't rhyme with stars.
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• Greece
20 Jan 16
I agree, I say it the same way, we don't sound the 'r' in stars, at least not in the south of England. Maybe they do down in Cornwall, they may have that elusive dialect M.-L writes about.@jaboUK
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
20 Jan 16
@41CombedaleRoad If they used a dialect like that they would likely use it for Ma's as well. I honestly don't see how you could pronounce Ma's in any other way unless you said 'mass'.
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@much2say (55512)
• Los Angeles, California
20 Jan 16
It's sad, but that certainly happens out there - and they all have their own stories behind it. I suppose it's all a matter of doing what you have to do to survive - but it's sad they feel they have to do "that" in order to live.
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@much2say (55512)
• Los Angeles, California
20 Jan 16
@jaboUK It's also sad when girls are forced into the situation - the whole human trafficking thing. And it happens to such young, young ones!!!
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
20 Jan 16
@much2say I should think it really does happen - some poor girls may think they have no other option.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
20 Jan 16
@much2say Oh the trafficking thing is even worse - poor girls.
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• United States
19 Jan 16
Very nice poem! I never judge because it could be me! Besides money looks the same no matter how you get it!
• United States
21 Jan 16
@jaboUK I don't judge it's not my job. It's god job! :-)
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
19 Jan 16
@fransmonlot That's an interesting thought, and I'm glad that you don't judge.
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@Vjvals (906)
• Roseville, California
19 Jan 16
Yes it's more sad than anything else as it's not a choice for most I think.
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@Vjvals (906)
• Roseville, California
19 Jan 16
@jaboUK Yes and I don't have enough knowledge about what and why but have always thought that as it does not have to do with intimacy nor desire. I think.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
19 Jan 16
@Vjvals A lot of women must find themselves in this situation, whatever the reasons for it.
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@ChinaLeon (247)
• Tianjin, China
20 Jan 16
Jabo,every time I read your post, I can learn some new things. Not only some new words, but also some attitude, yeah, the kind-hearted attitude to the world. If all the people in the world like you with this kind of attitude, there is no war forever.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
20 Jan 16
@ChinaLeon That's it Leon - if everyone showed compassion to those less fortunate than themselves the world would be a nicer place.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
22 Jan 16
Your right, not all of them are bad. Some do have children at home they need to feed and that is all they can do with no education or experience in anything else. I do feel bad for them.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
22 Jan 16
@LovingMyBabies I'm glad that you are able to feel compassion for them, who knows their circumstances?
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
23 Jan 16
@LovingMyBabies All I can say to that is - well done.
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@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
23 Jan 16
@LovingMyBabies That must have been a tough decision to make. But one has to do what one had to do when they had little mouths to feed. Adults could somehow deal with the circumstances. They could cut down on their expenses but it is painful to witness our own kids give up things. It is a horrible feeling.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
21 Jan 16
I remember this one, it is one of your best. I am not even going to try a limerick because you have told her story so completely.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
21 Jan 16
@jaboUK Oh I know it isn't wrong to use it here, I wasn't implying that. I was just trying to let you know I liked it enough to remember it. All of the B site stuff is in the air now I believe. I am sure I may use some of my better posts as well.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
21 Jan 16
@BelleStarr Oh I wasn't thinking you were implying anything Isabelle, don't worry. Thanks for remembering it - that's a compliment
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
21 Jan 16
Yes it's a re-cycled one with a few changes - I'm allowed to use it because it doesn't exist anywhere else now. Glad you like it, thanks.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
19 Jan 16
This is sad and there is so much sadness going on.Yes,this is much,much different than the others.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
19 Jan 16
@amadeo I can be versatile, you know.
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@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
20 Jan 16
Very moving
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
20 Jan 16
@Drosophila Thank you - I was just trying to make people think a bit, and not be too quick to judge.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
21 Jan 16
@Drosophila That's very good and says it all really.
@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
21 Jan 16
@jaboUK reminds me of a rap song "what would you do if someone is at home crying all alone, because he's hungry. And all you could do to feed him was to sleep with a man for a little bit of money... Where's he's daddy now? In and out of the jail cell..so for you it's what you call a good time, for me it's what I call life!"
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@sueznewz2 (10409)
• Alicante, Spain
19 Jan 16
Brilliant job.... like you say these woman and girls need our compassion and a helping hand out of the situation ...., whatever the reason behind why they are doing it.....
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
19 Jan 16
@sueznewz Glad you agree Sue, thanks.
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@xFiacre (12969)
• Ireland
19 Jan 16
@jabouk I agree with @maluse - this is much darker and heavier than what we're used to from you Janet (Almost like a tear-jerking country song in theme!) but these things do need to be discussed. I don't imagine many woman actively choose such a life.
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@WorDazza (15830)
• Manchester, England
20 Jan 16
People do find it very easy to judge those less fortunate than themselves. Most of us like to think we wouldn't sink so low but, until we're actually in that situation, there is no way of knowing how we'd handle it. Although I suspect I would have to handle it differently. I wouldn't make a penny walking the streets!!! Another quality offering, if a little darker than usual. But I like that!!
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
20 Jan 16
This is a beautiful poem that tells a very sad story. We must not judge another as we do not know their story. I am convinced that most people would do things that they are not able to imagine themselves doing if their circumstances were different. Always show compassion as we are all children of the universe and the universe is very benign. Blessings.
@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
20 Jan 16
@WorDazza As you so rightly say, we don't know what we ourselves would do in similar circumstances. (You and I may have to find something different to do though!)
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
20 Jan 16
@Pose123 Hello, I don't think I've met you before. Thank you for your understanding comments.
@Poppylicious (11133)
19 Jan 16
It's a terrible trap to fall into, but I definitely don't think any woman would choose it as a profession. It's a form of abuse, in a sense ... taking advantage of someone when they're an addict or trying to provide for their family. Very sad. Thought-provoking.
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• Preston, England
20 Jan 16
very true of the circumstances leading many women to such awful life choices
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• Preston, England
20 Jan 16
@jaboUK often desperation - the high class glamorous call girls are few and far between - most street walkers just have to put up with any drunken brute with money to spare
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
20 Jan 16
@arthurchappell Yes, I'm just trying to show that it's not always their fault - any number of things could have made girls like this take to the streets.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
20 Jan 16
@arthurchappell It must be an awful life, mustn't it?
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@pgiblett (6524)
• Canada
20 Jan 16
That's an interesting poem. Thanks.
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@pgiblett (6524)
• Canada
20 Jan 16
@jaboUK In a lifetime a while back I had a job as a taxi driver and used to drive some such ladies around and you would be surprised how many had altruistic reasons for doing what they do.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
20 Jan 16
@pgiblett Really? So you know their real stories, as opposed to me just imagining this.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
20 Jan 16
@pgiblett Thank you for reading it.
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@PainsOnSlate (21852)
• Canada
2 Feb 16
That is a sad story but a beautiful poem, we see them every once in a while and today at least in Canada there is help getting off the street and into a safe place plus the education needed to get a good job. If only all could be that lucky.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
2 Feb 16
@PainsOnSlate That's great that they are doing something for these girls in your country.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
3 Feb 16
@PainsOnSlate I can understand the difficulty in getting them to consider another sort of life, but at least they know that the option is there.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
20 Jan 16
Is this a new poem? It seems as though I have read it on B. However, it is wonderful. I recently finished a book relating to that subject.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
20 Jan 16
@DianneN Well remembered Dianne - I have recycled it from Bubblews with a few alterations. I'm allowed to do it as it doesn't exist any more on the internet.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
20 Jan 16
@DianneN Thanks Dianne.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
20 Jan 16
@jaboUK I don't blame you one bit! It is a wonderful, memorable poem, worth reading any number of times!!!!
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@JESSY3236 (19912)
• United States
20 Jan 16
That's a great poem, but it's sad too. After reading that book by Annie Lobert, I know now how hard the life is, and sad it is too.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
20 Jan 16
@JESSY3236 Great, I'll look out for that.
@JESSY3236 (19912)
• United States
20 Jan 16
@jaboUK yes she out of the lifestyle and found Jesus. She now helps others out of that lifestyle.
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• China
20 Jan 16
nice poem ! you are a nice man filled with love and sympathy.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
20 Jan 16
@dengcaijun And you are third nice person from China that I've come across lately. Thanks for liking the poem. (I'm actually a woman, but you aren't the first to make that mistake).
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
22 Jan 16
@dengcaijun Your compassions shines through