What do you think MyLotters think about you?
@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
Perth, Australia
January 28, 2016 12:40pm CST
I am hoping that MyLotters think I am nice and know I will be there for them if they wanted someone to talk to or just to vent. But I think I am mainly known for always replying back to responses / comments and not really having the best sleeping pattern lol
I like the MyLotters who go out their way to try and learn about the people they are talking to. Not the nosy, stalker kind but I mean the people who ask how you are and what you did that day etc. You know, just every day questions.
And then you could take it up a notch to talk about your friends and family or about where you live or what job you have. I just like the people here who talk about themselves and who ask each other about who we are so we can feel just that little bit closer everyday to help make us feel more welcome and comfortable here.
Do you know what I mean? Do you feel the same?
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@vandana7 (100179)
• India
29 Jan 16
I think starting conversation conventionally and on social media websites is different. Note that we never greet Hello, how are you or Hi JaboUK, how are you and how is your family kind. I think those ways of greetings don't belong here because we don't know and possibly will never know each other. Moreover, even in real life, how are you and all such talk I think has become a bit of a formality rather than actual concern. I am a bit wary of becoming too artificial. If I feel concerned, I know it in my heart and there is the phone, I will call them of course. But if not, I do not want my friends to think well here is a stranger who uses those sentences to begin conversation because unfortunately those sentences have been reduced to that.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
28 Jan 16
@VivaLaDani13 That's the way to do it.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
28 Jan 16
I agree. I'd never want to push them to tell me anything but I do admit, that there has been a few MyLotters who were talking about something in a discussion that I wasn't understanding so I politely ask them if they could elaborate a little bit more for me to understand or for me to try and help but I still say to them that it's alright if they don't want to.
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@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
4 Feb 16
*clearing my throat* *getting all business*
I think myLotters think that I am a nuisance who keeps butting in another person's business
I think so much more ...but I will spare you Dovey.
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@purplealabaster (22091)
• United States
4 Feb 16
Sometimes I pass on my omniscient knowledge to others for a price.
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@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
4 Feb 16
@rebelann Hey! I wrote her one too in the other response I wrote her over here. At least she could return the favor. 
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@allknowing (135767)
• India
29 Jan 16
I do not tell much about me and being forthright I am not sure whether everyone likes me here
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
29 Jan 16
Be sure and confident that everyone likes you.
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@allknowing (135767)
• India
29 Jan 16
@dpk262006 That's a pat on my back. Where is the emoticon for that . Must alert
@Daljinder Kaur to add that (lol)
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@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
29 Jan 16
@allknowing Good job *pat on back* is a must have. Gotta make a note of it..... See ya
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@Morleyhunt (21744)
• Canada
28 Jan 16
I try to remember personal things Mylotters talk about.
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@T_gray (7774)
• Salina, Kansas
28 Jan 16
I know what you mean for sure. I enjoy talking to people on a more personal level. And I for sure want people to know that I do care and I am there for them if they need someone. I am not just here to make money. I am here to make connections as well
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
28 Jan 16
That is really nice of you. And yeah, I've seen you around enough to believe that's how you are. :)
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@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
28 Jan 16
Hmm.... What I think about you??? From the interactions we have had, you gave me the impression that you are a shy, sweet, family-oriented, introvert and all around a nice girl. You do have a quirky twist and bit of mischief in the mix that I find re-freshing. They do say that its always the quiet ones, don't they??
I think you will rather enjoy a book or a movie at home then go out clubbing. Not that you don't love having fun. You very much do. But what would I know?? For all I know you are some old creepy dude planning to trap young girls into his clutches all the while twirling his moustache. 
P. S. While you listen to other people venting and helping them. I will stand by for YOU to vent to me and just listen with keen ears if you wanted to talk....
P. P. S. Yes, you do have botched up sleeping patterns... That need attention. Hope you do something about it..
P. P. P. S. Before I came upon this post of yours I was planning to ask you for a game of twenty questions. So, are you interested? Will you play it with me???
P. S. While you listen to other people venting and helping them. I will stand by for YOU to vent to me and just listen with keen ears if you wanted to talk....
P. P. S. Yes, you do have botched up sleeping patterns... That need attention. Hope you do something about it..
P. P. P. S. Before I came upon this post of yours I was planning to ask you for a game of twenty questions. So, are you interested? Will you play it with me???3 people like this
@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
29 Jan 16
Not sure what people think of me here.... .. But I wish to be 
. 
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
29 Jan 16
@Daljinder Very well written about @VivaLaDani13.
Do you really wish to know what others think about you?
Do you really wish to know what others think about you?3 people like this
@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
29 Jan 16
@dpk262006 Contemplated writing a discussion about that but @VivaLaDani13 beat me to it.....
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
29 Jan 16
Very interesting discussion. I think each one of us think in his heart of hearts what others (read mylotters) think about him/her.
You no doubt are one of the best mylotters here who keeps the atmosphere alive with posts/comments/responses. You have the chirpiness and cheerfulness to make others laugh and smile. You have a good sense of humour, which is very important. It is always a pleasure to interact with you.
Now my turn to ask - What do you think about me?
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
30 Jan 16
@VivaLaDani13 - You are welcome . What I said about you is correct and it's based on the way you conduct yourself on mylot.
Thanks very much for all the compliments.
. What I said about you is correct and it's based on the way you conduct yourself on mylot.
Thanks very much for all the compliments. 1 person likes this
@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
29 Jan 16
wow thank you very much! I wasn't expecting all that. Thank you! :D
Well right back at you really. You always have a great answer for everything. It's always heartfelt, honest, helpful and funny. I always enjoy hearing from you.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
31 Jan 16
@dpk262006 Thank you. :)
And no worries.
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@celticeagle (166550)
• Boise, Idaho
29 Jan 16
Yes, those are the friendly types we have here. I like those too. I try to just be me and interact where I am curious. I feel the same as @jaboUK.
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@celticeagle (166550)
• Boise, Idaho
29 Jan 16
@VivaLaDani13 ...I fumble and make mistakes but it is all me. Try to use a sense of humor too.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
29 Jan 16
Cool. And that is good that you try to be you. I know some people sometimes struggle with trying to be themselves for various reasons so good on you. :)
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
29 Jan 16
@celticeagle You're human. All humans make mistakes. If anyone thinks they don't then...that's a mistake lol
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@Orson_Kart (6757)
• United Kingdom
28 Jan 16
I am not sure I want to know what other myLotters think of me. 
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@Orson_Kart (6757)
• United Kingdom
29 Jan 16
@VivaLaDani13 I think you have made a fair assessment of me, based on what little you know. Sometimes I am trying to be funny, and sometimes I am just trying, very trying. 
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
29 Jan 16
@Orson_Kart lol well we have only spoken on threads quite a bit so we still don't know each other so we both still have a lot to learn about one either which in time we may do.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
28 Jan 16
As a fellow MyLotter, I'd say you are caring and funny. :) That wasn't so bad now was it?
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@rebelann (112767)
• El Paso, Texas
5 Feb 16
Yes I did @Daljinder and thanks
I rarely worry about things like this, people who don't like me rarely engage in discussions with me.
I rarely worry about things like this, people who don't like me rarely engage in discussions with me.2 people like this
@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
5 Feb 16
@rebelann I like your philosophy. :)
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@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
4 Feb 16
I do like you very much . You already know that....1 person likes this
@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
29 Jan 16
@Bluedoll
.....You live in a padded room don't you?
lol joking! I already know a tiny bit about your personality and not just from this response but I've seen it else where, but I know you are caring and funny. You're cool.
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@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
29 Jan 16
hmmm I don't think I know anything about you just yet. But from your post you seem nice.
I do have mylot friends that I do talk to on a every day basis even through email and it's nice we don't judge each other even if we don't agree.
I hope to get to know more about you and you more about me. See ya!!
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@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
30 Jan 16
@VivaLaDani13 haha on here you never know what you find. You can make some good pen pals in here.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
31 Jan 16
@ShyBear88 That's very true. :)
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
29 Jan 16
Thank you. That's alright. I'm not really looking for any compliments or criticism. lol Hopefully no one has any negative criticism. 
That's great! Good to know you've made some good friends on here.
I hope so too! :D
That's great! Good to know you've made some good friends on here.
I hope so too! :D
@RichardMeister (5328)
• Otis Orchards, Washington
28 Jan 16
I want to know what you ate for dinner, what time you ate dinner (down to the second), how much you ate for dinner (down to gram), if you ate enough to have gotten full, what you plan to eat for tomorrow...only joking. It is interesting to read about people who live in other countries.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
28 Jan 16
haha!
I had chicken nuggets.
It was about 10:30pm...unsure of seconds.
I had about 6 nuggets cause I wasn't that hungry.
I was full.
I am unsure about tomorrow.
lol thought I'd answer anyway.
And yeah I agree. I like to see how different we are or even similar we are. Very interesting to me.
I had chicken nuggets.
It was about 10:30pm...unsure of seconds.
I had about 6 nuggets cause I wasn't that hungry.
I was full.
I am unsure about tomorrow.
lol thought I'd answer anyway.
And yeah I agree. I like to see how different we are or even similar we are. Very interesting to me.2 people like this
@RichardMeister (5328)
• Otis Orchards, Washington
28 Jan 16
@VivaLaDani13 For some reason I figured you would answer those questions just to be funny. And it was a lot funnier than you telling me to buzz off. (I'm glad you didn't tell me to go fly a kite. It's raining big time here. I would have gotten soaked.)
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
28 Jan 16
@RichardMeister haha nah, I am a playful person so of course I'd answer.
That made me really wish I had a kite right now lol It is very windy right now and I haven't done it since I was little. Although it would look strange for me to go fly a kite in the middle of the street at 3:24am.
That made me really wish I had a kite right now lol It is very windy right now and I haven't done it since I was little. Although it would look strange for me to go fly a kite in the middle of the street at 3:24am.2 people like this
@fishtiger58 (29820)
• Momence, Illinois
28 Jan 16
I certainly wouldn't post anything I don't want known, like that mess going on at facebook. The people here are a much better class of people than what's on fb. I don't mind some of my personal business here like I would at fb.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
28 Jan 16
Ever since I joined MyLot again, I found myself spending less time on Facebook lol People on here are way more interesting.
But yeah I wouldn't want really personal things about me known either.
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@fishtiger58 (29820)
• Momence, Illinois
28 Jan 16
@VivaLaDani13 And that's the beauty of it, if you don't tell we don't know and that's perfectly fine.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
29 Jan 16
That's great. I think it's good to try and learn about others on here. The more we know about each other, the more we can talk about too I reckon.
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@inertia4 (27960)
• United States
29 Jan 16
@VivaLaDani13 Nice!!! See, I am a good guy. LOL. Well, I am happy that you are my friend here. Looking forward to reading more of your posts.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
29 Jan 16
Thank you very much and same to you. I've spoken to you a fair bit on here.
I always enjoy your comments and same to you, I've never had a problem with you.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
29 Jan 16
@inertia4 haha I know you are. :)
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@CaptAlbertWhisker (32677)
• Calgary, Alberta
28 Feb 16
I am pretty sure I am a polarizing figure here. I have feuds in the past few years on this site. I don't have feuds anymore because they either blocked me or I blocked them but I know some people are annoyed of the fact I am too honest it can be brutal.
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@CaptAlbertWhisker (32677)
• Calgary, Alberta
29 Feb 16
@VivaLaDani13 this one is not a feud, but I got blocked by an animal rights activist because I just confessed I own a humane slaughter house. The funny thing is that person is not vegan. He eats chicken but he fights for ostrich rights. 
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
29 Feb 16
lol oh my! I hope you don't have any more feuds on here. I've had a few people annoy me but one REALLY got to me that I told him to literally F Off.
@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
29 Feb 16
@CaptAlbertWhisker Do you really though or were you joking?
@else34 (13515)
• New Delhi, India
29 Jan 16
@VivaLaDani13,I think,everyone loves to talk about themselves and I am not an exception.I love to talk about myself,but hesitate to do so,because I think people won't like it.
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@else34 (13515)
• New Delhi, India
29 Jan 16
@VivaLaDani13 That's exactly what I feel when I think of talking about myself.Don't know what people will think about me.Will they think I am self centric?And who cares what an ordinary person like me thinks and is interested in.Perhaps they will not like it.
Hope you have got me.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
29 Jan 16
I know what you mean. Although, I do like talking to people about my interests but it's only with people I trust completely to talk about my real personal issues or certain memories I have. But I often don't like talking about myself either with strangers or acquaintances because I feel like they won't care or not interested.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
29 Jan 16
@else34 Well, personally I don't mind. I have met some people who clearly love to talk about themselves and the only time that is annoying for me is when I've started the conversation about something to do with me that I need help with.
Otherwise, I really don't mind because sometimes a person likes to brag to make themselves feel special. Maybe because they don't get praised enough? Not sure.
And yes, there are those other kinds who are completely full on self centred and ONLY talk highly about themselves but I've not come across someone like that yet.
But yes, otherwise I'm not bothered.
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@HanVanMeegerin (1161)
• United States
29 Jan 16
@VivaLaDani13 from what I have seen you seem like a nice myLotter.
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@grandbrix (81)
• Philippines
29 Jan 16
hi viva, how are you? am grandbrix from the philippines and i understand you're from perth, australia. had visited sydney, australia several years ago and played with the kangaroo. you have a nice country... i understand perth is quite far from sydney.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
30 Jan 16
@grandbrix That sounds really cool.
Well, I've never actually been anywhere. Never had the money to travel to anywhere out of Australia. But I know I would love it. I would hate the plane ride but everything else would be great.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
29 Jan 16
I am good thank you! How about yourself?
That is awesome that you've been to Sydney! I was actually born in Sydney but moved to Perth when I was about 5. I've been back to Sydney only once though so still don't know much about the place.
Did you like Sydney? Was the kangaroo playful?
Yeah Sydney is literally on the other side of Australia from me. :)
@grandbrix (81)
• Philippines
30 Jan 16
@VivaLaDani13 yeah kangaroos are tame, and so are the tarsiers, we stayed at the hilton hotel... i enjoyed much the food, the steaks with generous vegetables, and walking around visited the icon sydney opera and bridgewalk, the rock, the aquarium, a short trip to bondi beach. Perth i think is popular with their beautiful beaches.do you enjoy travelling?
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