Men roofed, women sold flowers. I did both

My arrangement on the table today.
Indianapolis, Indiana
January 28, 2016 8:12pm CST
My family has had a long standing tradition dating back to close to 100 years. That tradition is to teach every man within the family how to roof. We start young, like close to 8-9 years old and our first job was always clean-up. Clean-up consisted of not just picking up the trash. Oh no. You had to throw away the shingles from the tear-offs we did. From there, you slowly worked your way up until you actually applied shingles, poured tar, or pitched gravel, just to name a few things. Your fear of heights vanish quickly with the greed of money, and the faster you are, the more you make. On the other hand, the women in my family started a flower shop 60 years ago. My mom and all of her sisters arranged the flowers, while some of the others sold them. Growing up in my house, I learned the technique of arranging flowers, as well as the different names of flowers themselves.. It was nothing to wake up in my room with 100 dozen roses, or 15 cases of carnations next to me. In fact, i miss it. I carried this talent to a warehouse owned by 1-800-flowers. It was easy to get a job there considering my years dealing with flowers. I no longer work there, but I'm considering getting back into this line of work.
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@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
1 Feb 16
If your family moves over to my country, you have to discontinue the tradition of roofing. 90% of our people live in high rise apartment, so there is no need to do any roofing.
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• Indianapolis, Indiana
2 Feb 16
Right now, they are on top of the biggest roof in Indiana. They unionized and started working on the Lilly buildings....lol
• United States
29 Jan 16
I imagine you became immune to the flowers or had to take a lot of allergy medicine to combat it. It's good to have an honest trade and to teach the generations the trade as well.
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• Indianapolis, Indiana
29 Jan 16
Actually, the air around me gave off a smell of fresh air. The smell of some of the plants were just awesome. That;s one of he parts i miss the most.
@aju007 (1460)
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
29 Jan 16
Thats a great trafition to teach the new generations. They will know the value of money and hard work. And will get to know the joy of earning some money themselves even in their younger ages. I love to have a tradition like that in my family too.
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@Shavkat (139933)
• Philippines
29 Jan 16
I had worked in a silk industry before. Floral is the main production of the company. I am really amazed with the floral arranger from different countries. They are so good in their own creations.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
29 Jan 16
It's nice to have family traditions even if you did make a crossover to the other gender's occupation. Did you start off by roofing?
• Indianapolis, Indiana
29 Jan 16
I started helping my Mom with the flowers at age 5, because our house stored the flowers the day before the holidays and every weekend. My uncle ran the roofing business passed down by his dad.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
29 Jan 16
@quarternoes You helped at that young age? That was really early to start, but I suppose it could have been fun.
• Indianapolis, Indiana
30 Jan 16
@jaboUK For the roofing, we had no problem picking up trash for $5 a day. The flower business paid %20 of your sales, and they would reach $500-700 a day. It wasn't unusual for us in the 70's to be 10-15 years-old and have a pocket full of money.
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