A Good Parent Characteristics: Do You Have All It Takes?
By Shavkat
@Shavkat (139937)
Philippines
January 30, 2016 1:49am CST
Being a parent is not an easy task. It takes all the effort to be responsible in the eyes of a child. There is no perfect parental caring but through experience. I would salute all the parents who knows the word responsibility in their lives. Others can bear to build one’s family due to circumstances or even in denial for having a baby. Can we turn back the time? I think we can’t. We need to step into a more responsible parents for the sake of their children. There are some options that children can be left out and endorsed to child care facilities. However, there is always the guilt and conscience speaks for the rest of their lives. If you love yourself and not to commit mistakes in life, then step up and face the reality of being a good parent.
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@rahulvsmokiee (3110)
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
30 Jan 16
Like you said, the parent is responsible for all the misdoings by his child.
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@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
30 Jan 16
@rahulvsmokiee In some point, it is not always the parents need to be blame. Some children who had undergo such trauma in their family. They still manage to control oneself and set as an example to be a better person.
@sparial02 (858)
• India
30 Jan 16
Good Bad or Ugly, I mean words like this is kind of virtual words. May be you have all the capability to be a good parent, may be you are a good parent, but is that mean your child not going to be spoiled one? Well may be you never treated your child good, but somehow your child become one of the popular personality, then the outside people going to say that the parents must be good that's why the child became like that. He he, There is no explanation what's good or bad, we can try our best to make our child live a healthy successful life. Now about the good or bad, the time is going to show you who you are exactly.
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@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
30 Jan 16
@sparial02 There is no perfect world as they said. As long as the parents know their responsibility and be a good provider that's matter the most. You got a point here my friend.
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@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
30 Jan 16
@sparial02 I am not saying that you need to give everything. It is the basic needs for the child to survive in this world. I am not expert as a parent. But I still have a strong will to balance the material things over love and care. I know what's your pointing to, it is not also good to give all for the child.
@sparial02 (858)
• India
30 Jan 16
@Shavkat Yes my friend but you know sometimes people spoil there children by caring too much for them. Like i have seen many parents who giving their child everything whatever they are asking at the age of 3 or 4, the parents are wealthy and they just don't want to make their own child unhappy. So they give everything, buy expensive things. May be it feels good that "yes, i am giving my child what he or she want". But you know, that can cause a serious problem when the child is grown. There is no such things what is good or bad, it's like a lottery drawing, if your child turn out okay, then yes, You are the Winner.
@alchemistrx (2547)
• Philippines
30 Jan 16
I don't know if i'm gonna be a good parent in the future.Let alone now than i can't equate the responsibility my parents had for me.
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@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
30 Jan 16
@alchemistrx Our parents are the role model for having a family. We can emulate the way of making us a better person.
