Aggressive kids
By Sneha
@Seha062 (3)
February 10, 2016 7:52am CST
DEaling with aggressive kids is very difficult for parents. My 3 year old son hits all other kids and hia brother. He does not listen to us. We tried s3nding him to school.thinking he might change. But in vain..he has not changed. Any one who kbow some ideas please share.
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@Varjokani (218)
• Finland
10 Feb 16
I'm no expert here but I ve done some helping chores in sunday schools and preschool and I know that sometimes kids just are kids. I think that maybe there is a reason behind that act. If your kid hits other he has to have a reason. He has to had learned that hitting someone makes others upset. And somehow he wants you to be upset. Usually kids do try make other upset when they themselves feel bad about something. I suggest you sit down and talk with your kid about it. I know that with young age it can be hard to talk but kids are smart.
Just ask him about his day, and how he is feeling. Dont yell at him but love him. Love is strongest power in the world and it can heal everything. Just be with him and dont leave him alone. Tell him that you understand him and love him but you dont love the way he acts. Tell him that it does not mean you dont love him.
Sorry for long reply. I dunno if this has any help. But I just felt like saying these things. Also big power hug to you. I know that dealing with that kind of stuff can be really hard. But remember that everything will turn good in the end. Just have faith in it. :)
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@Varjokani (218)
• Finland
10 Feb 16
@Seha062 I m sorry that I cant help you with anything else. But if you feel like it you can always come to talk to me. I know that when one is sad one should not be alone with the feeling. Also I know that even small things that adults could not notice can make a child sad and act stupid.