How Do You Appear To Others ?
@SIMPLYD (90722)
Philippines
February 16, 2016 11:01pm CST
We may say , that we appear kind to others , yet people would say we look snobbish . That’s because we don’t really know how others perceive us whenever they meet us .
For myself , I will say I look friendly . That’s because I have a smiling face , which I intentionally practiced , because actually I have strong features as others said . 
But actually , I am really friendly person . 
And I can proudly say , it’s what others also say or perceive me to be.
Why ? That’s because whenever I am on a jeepney or on a hallway , they would also smile back at me . 
So , can you tell how you appear to others too ?
But actually , I am really friendly person .
And I can proudly say , it’s what others also say or perceive me to be.
Why ? That’s because whenever I am on a jeepney or on a hallway , they would also smile back at me .
So , can you tell how you appear to others too ?34 people like this
36 responses
@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
17 Feb 16
I honestly dont know and dont much care rebel as I have little contact in real life.
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@Shiva49 (26644)
• Singapore
17 Feb 16
@SIMPLYD I am rather sensitive when it concerns injustice on those, especially the innocent children. I want to fight intolerance and the artificial boundaries that we build "you" "me", rather it should be more of "us". We all want to be loved and God has shown the way as Creation is love, pure ecstasy.
But basically, I am a happy person enjoying life and spreading some cheer along the way. And I do not allow others to make me unhappy! siva
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
17 Feb 16
I am a happy person so that my friends always say they never want to me miss me in any gathering because I'm the life of the party. But to those who don't know me yet, I don't look approachable and they fear me sometimes because my friends say I have a strong personality.
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@allknowing (135352)
• India
17 Feb 16
While I was working I got the title 'No nonsense officer' If that makes any sense. (lol)
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@allknowing (135352)
• India
18 Feb 16
@SIMPLYD Yes. I am but not necessarily rude (lol)
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
18 Feb 16
@allknowing Of course , not necessarily rude , because rudeness isn't permitted at the office . 
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Some elderlies can really be rude , as if they are always perfect . 
@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
17 Feb 16
I have no idea what others think of me. I hope nice
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@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
17 Feb 16
@SIMPLYD I don't think so, but sometimes people judge even if you have a smile. 
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
17 Feb 16
@infatuatedbby Maybe that's because there is smile in the lips but the eyes are burning .
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
18 Feb 16
I don't want to appear snobbish that's why i practiced having a smiling face always and for tha, t i am happy .
Oh yes , just this morning , a fat girl sitting in front of me was again staring at me . I can see her at the corner of my eye , sweep mewith her eyes from my stilletos , gray stockings , bag and my face . When i caught her , i glared at her , stopped playing game on my phone and also looked at her from head to foot and put on my shades so i can also look at her more . 
She stopped staring . I stopped also .
She stopped staring . I stopped also . 2 people like this
You really made me laugh out loud here in our office room . Good thing , the boss isn't here anymore . 
Anyway as you said that might made her to think you are some teacher who is taking her as student
@GrannyGee (3517)
• Louisburg, North Carolina
18 Feb 16
I know how I appear to others ... kind, sweet ... caring. They are right :) I reflect what I really feel ... and I look for it in others.
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@GrannyGee (3517)
• Louisburg, North Carolina
18 Feb 16
@SIMPLYD It's a good feeling, yes! :)
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@brokenbee (11090)
• Philippines
17 Feb 16
Others see me as a person with no problems. How I wish they are right. Hihi!
They also say I am friendly and approachable.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
17 Feb 16
@brokenbee Well, they are new friends , the ice must be still broken . And that's where you must enter s you said you can be a joker .
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@brokenbee (11090)
• Philippines
17 Feb 16
@SIMPLYD yup, people are happy when I'm around. My mother also said I am like their clown/joker when I was a kid.
But when with new people, they often see me as a shy person. But I am not a snob.
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@Ladypeace (2028)
• Singapore
17 Feb 16
People find me humorous and quite shameless.
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@rosekiss (30414)
• Eugene, Oregon
18 Feb 16
I hope that I appear to others like I am a happy person. i try to be, but with all I have been going through, it has been hard to smile, but now I can really smile, and keep smiling. My struggles are over, and I am to thankful for that. I can go through the rest of my life, being a happy person, all because of what God has done for me.
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. Sadly no one cuddles me
@antonbunot (11093)
• Calgary, Alberta
18 Feb 16
Well, when I was working in the casino I always smiled even if I was not feeling very well. Smiling is contagious. Even those customers who were pouting because they were losing smiled when they saw me smiling at them . . But their smiles were usually not sweet but sour!
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
19 Feb 16
So you have a smiling face . That's good since in your line of work that is needed specially to those already losing on the table . No wonder , they returned your smile with a sour smile.
@birjudanak (14320)
• India
17 Feb 16
yes i can see that you are very friendly and nice person who always smiling and enjoy life so its nice,i to very friendly and straight forward person who feel anything say straightly but not put inside....
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
19 Feb 16
@SIMPLYD it means no keep in heart or hide from everyone say straightly what ever feel...
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@Iam_jauntyjen (5016)
•
18 Feb 16
When I was in highschool there were group of girls who approached me.One girl was so angry at me. She said I snobbed her many times. Yes, i had seen her pass by our hallway, patio and school cafeteria but i did not remember rolling my eyes on her.
In college, one of my classmates told me that when she first saw me on the first day of school , she thought I was perhaps a rich kid.She and her friends eveb guessed that I maybe a daughter of a politian or a rich businessman.
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@dhoyreg23 (39)
• Philippines
17 Feb 16
I'm a free flowing spirit. I'm a happy person and I smile a lot. I listen more than talk and my friends usually said to me that I'm quite that's because i'm observant. 
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@dhoyreg23 (39)
• Philippines
18 Feb 16
@SIMPLYD Thank you ma'am! Very nice of you.
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