How to Annoy Others
By Kewkumber
@Ladypeace (2028)
Singapore
February 24, 2016 8:56am CST
After spending more than a month on MyLot, I’ve compiled a list of what I feel annoys others on the site. I have to stress that these are just my personal opinion.
1. Posting lengthy discussions with nothing interesting to say
2. Posting one or two sentence discussions with nothing interesting to say
3. Posting repetitive content
4. Telling others in a definitive tone what to do or what not to do - darling, you ain’t god
5. Making negative comments that belittle or mock others
6. Treating this as a dating site
7. Asking people why you aren’t receiving any responses
8. Speaking like you are the owner of the site - people on here don’t owe you a living
9. Spamming and advertising
10. Responding incoherently because you did not take the effort to read through the discussion
11. Getting overly defensive over others’ polite suggestions - is saying “thank you” that hard?
12. Making discriminatory remarks based on race, gender, age, religion, geography, social status, appearance, disabilities etc.
13. Creating multiple accounts and interacting with yourself - that’s cheating
14. Treating MyLot like high school all over again and limiting interactions to your clique only
15. Asking others about their private information
16. Creating inactive accounts and mass following others
17. Blocking others unreasonably
18. Engaging in flaming – this is not the Jerry Springer Show
Which one(s) annoy you?
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@Ladypeace (2028)
• Singapore
24 Feb 16
It happens around here but not often.
...seriously, I don't think my husband will go for this at all! He believes in one wife, one husband! I received a message where basically this guy who will...
@Orson_Kart (6827)
• United Kingdom
24 Feb 16
I am not so sure that I would cover you in plenty of salt and vinegar and throw YOU in the bin. 
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@Orson_Kart (6827)
• United Kingdom
24 Feb 16
@Ladypeace I am not sure if Kewcumber is your real name. But I am just making the distinction between you and that throw away vegetable, the cucumber.
I hope that I won't become No.19 on your list.
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@Ladypeace (2028)
• Singapore
24 Feb 16
@Orson_Kart You can take the 19th spot while I take the 20th.
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@allknowing (137603)
• India
25 Feb 16
You have what I call reasons to annoy others. I could I have come across a few of them .
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@Ladypeace (2028)
• Singapore
25 Feb 16
I don't think anyone could be safe from annoyance on here. Sometimes we could be guilty of it as well...
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@Ladypeace (2028)
• Singapore
25 Feb 16
@allknowing Yes maybe, even if it's deliberate people deserve to make mistakes. Or some don't find it any of a deal.
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@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
24 Feb 16
Great list you made. I can relate to many numbers.
And I agree about the blocking for no reason and how myLot is not like high school. I never knew some people create multiple accounts - that's sad because you cannot be reach on myLot - it's just for fun and you'll earn a little extra here and there only.
I can relate to many numbers.
And I agree about the blocking for no reason and how myLot is not like high school. I never knew some people create multiple accounts - that's sad because you cannot be reach on myLot - it's just for fun and you'll earn a little extra here and there only.1 person likes this
@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
25 Feb 16
@Ladypeace Yeah - I guess people miss drama or something. 
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.@Ladypeace (2028)
• Singapore
25 Feb 16
Thanks, I'm glad you found this entertaining. Unfortunately, there are people who are like that.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
25 Feb 16
@Ladypeace Thanks for explaining - I'm comparitively new to this computer world - it shows doesn't it?
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@Ladypeace (2028)
• Singapore
25 Feb 16
Thanks for finding this interesting and funny. Flaming is the internet behavior of hurling hostile insults at others, also known as "verbal bashing".
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@whiteream (8567)
• United States
24 Feb 16
very interesting list you have there
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@whiteream (8567)
• United States
25 Feb 16
@Ladypeace I bet it got some of the frustration out.
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@iamshane487 (1139)
• Manila, Philippines
25 Feb 16
Good lists! It is not an honest act to create multiple accounts.
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@Ladypeace (2028)
• Singapore
25 Feb 16
Thank you, I've been on other work sites that had chased down on duplicate accounts from the same ip address.
@Ladypeace (2028)
• Singapore
24 Feb 16
I respect you for giving people feedback upfront. I'm glad if you've found my post somewhat entertaining.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
24 Feb 16
@Ladypeace Yes,a dating place.Have not heard of this.
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@Morleyhunt (21744)
• Canada
25 Feb 16
I agree with most of them. I might be a little bit cliquey. I tend to check out the ones I talk to most often if I only have a short period of time to spend on the site. When time is not a problem I range all over the room.
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@Ladypeace (2028)
• Singapore
25 Feb 16
People more or less would gravitate towards their regular friends since they enjoy the content and have established good rapport. Time being a factor to venture out is true. Also, I find it easier to respond to recent posts in my time zone.
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@Ladypeace (2028)
• Singapore
25 Feb 16
It's amusing to see the author of the chain one sentence discussions consequently posting a one sentence post asking "Why isn't anyone responding to me? I tried so hard." 
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@fishtiger58 (29820)
• Momence, Illinois
24 Feb 16
you have pretty much hit the nail on the head. 1 2 and 4 which made me laugh are my favs lol.
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@Ladypeace (2028)
• Singapore
24 Feb 16
Thanks! I'm so pleased that you've found some of them funny!
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@fishtiger58 (29820)
• Momence, Illinois
24 Feb 16
@Ladypeace I loved your.... darling you ain't god statement.
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@firstteamm (26)
• Singapore, Singapore
25 Feb 16
No 8, speaking like one is owner of mylot. However there are times when others seem out of place in which case maybe a gentle suggestion will do. Then again, if that doesn't get across, I suppose one loses patience and may be tempted to dictate. No 8 still stand as an annoying thing if one is on the receiving end , no doubt. I hope not to experience it or else I'll really get irritated in a short span. Good list!
@Ladypeace (2028)
• Singapore
25 Feb 16
Thanks, I feel that no.4s and 8s are aggressive, they are obsessed with destroying their opponents and just want to win.
