What should i do

February 25, 2016 10:34am CST
OK I'm married but we are not together he is 22 I'm 30 just tured.... anyway I find out my husband is messing with a girl I mean child 15 years old and I know her and her family very well I've took care of her And sister .. Watch them grow up .. They have convest her mom and dad that nothing is going on with the two I know different wat should I do I told her mom I would call the law if she didn't do anything and she treated me as always but just wanted to know what I should do
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25 Feb 16
Report to the police the girl is underage and I hope she stays safe
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25 Feb 16
I told her mom I would And she said I didn't want to do that
25 Feb 16
@Crystallowery8593 don't take chance go to police if anything happens you too can be prosecuted for abbettment of crime
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@jstory07 (139717)
• Roseburg, Oregon
25 Feb 16
That is sick when you do anything with a child under 18 years old.
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25 Feb 16
Yes it is
@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
25 Feb 16
I would certainly let the police know. Call the police and say that you think that something is going on that they should know about. (Unless you really have positive, eyewitness proof that something criminal has happened, then it's best not to make specific accusations). Let's face it, there's probably not a lot that the girl's mom can do. She can say 'I forbid you to see that man' but do you think her daughter will listen? She could beat her or lock her up but then her daughter would likely call the cops herself and complain about physical and mental abuse. It really is best for everyone that you tell the people who should know and let them investigate.
25 Feb 16
Its on the internet and I seen a conversation on his facebook witch was still loged on my phone and I couldn't help myself when I seen her name I read all the nasty things that they was talking about
25 Feb 16
@tallawah wen I told her mom this I'd wat she had to say back ... I have addressed the issue with them, her explanation and the fact there is nothing like that going on. I am really getting sick of this it is in your best interest to drop it - you dont want the cops in this I assure you. If you knew anything about your suppose to be husband he is into older women. You should know better then again this is typical you.Look I am stopping right there before I say things I might regret. I dont owe you an explanation for anything I do. Helping you and certain other people have costed me enough with my girls. Just because I diont handle things the way u do does not mean I dont do what is necessary. I am out of your business please show me the same respect. All you had to do was bring it to my attention and leave it then I could have bought your mother to mother concerns. You havent gotten what you really want so you are pushing to far.I am more grown than this. It is bad enough you are dividing my household with your constant interferences with my girls and Wayne. How could you? I am stopping right there. It has been hard to hold back and not go to your level on this or say what I really would like to say.Hurting people is not what I do.It looks like with all u got going own you would be more focused elsewher. I will pray for you.Goodluck with things
25 Feb 16
@tallawah this Is wat I told her wen I found something on Instagram ... Mother to mother I'm bringing this to you one last time I'm not sure how to put this but only come right out and say it and I'm not in no way trying to seem like a witch or anything in that way but I came to you with great worries about Elliotte witch as we all know isn't the best and makayla and the conversation that tool place since then he has been there every day and nothing has been done other then told he is being watched .. Well I happen to get into one of my other pages and I finds this witch I'll leave with this email ... I'm coming to you one last time in witch It also confirms that I'm right and they are talking to each other I'm beside my self ... So with this said I have no choice but to take his action to the law in witch I will give you and your family time to do so your self's but if no action are taken by Thursday morning I will deal with this matter ... Now I'm in no way trying to tell you and ray how to take care if what's y'all but I'm a mother as well and I am his wife of all ppl I knw what he will do to her and I can not stand by and watch .. I love and respect you as a mother so please understand I'm only concern is for your child
@Shavkat (139933)
• Philippines
25 Feb 16
You should do the right thing. However, you can try to talk to your husband about it.
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25 Feb 16
He want talk to me at all except to tell me to die and go to hell
• United States
25 Feb 16
call the police. from one'f yer previous discussions, ya aint married, but'f a boyfriend??
• United States
25 Feb 16
@Crystallowery8593 so yer married'n got a boyfriend? ne'er mind...
25 Feb 16
No we are married since 21-21-14
25 Feb 16
No married since 11-21-14
@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
25 Feb 16
I would say get the proof first for safety purposes in case they put it all on you in some way.... Then do inform the police with proof in hand. Call the CPS too... She is only 15... Do it stealthily... You can get advice from your lawyer or something on how to handle such thing...
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@yukimori (10145)
• United States
25 Feb 16
You call the police and turn over all the information that you have, especially if things between them have gotten physical. Then you get yourself to a divorce attorney and sever your legal ties to the pedophile.
@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
25 Feb 16
Tell her parents.