People walk for different reasons, some to stay in shape, others to stay alive.
@lookatdesktop (27134)
Dallas, Texas
March 2, 2016 4:16pm CST
It just feels good to be able to be on the move. I know people who cry because they are too sick or old or both to get out and exercise like people who take it all for granted.
I knew a good friend who was not only a Christian but a good natured person.
He rode a bike or he walked and when I drove by and asked if he wanted a lift down the street he would just smile and reply, "I am doing this for exercise." I did not even realize at that time that he was getting rounds of chemotherapy and radiation for prostate cancer. Well, a few years ago he died. he was in his 50's. He never complained. When the day came he could no longer get up without the assistance of his wife from the bed, I assisted him when he fell and got him back on his two feet. He looked more angry than I ever saw him before.
A few months later, He stood outside his apartment, with his dog and his wife. He was waiting to get a ride to his brother and sister's house. He planned on spending his last days with them.
But his strength of character was never broken. He had a strong will that made me feel more confident than ever. The idea of dying was just a thing. You know? He knew he was going to die but he didn't mind. He was close to God. He actually made my faith stronger when he spoke. Before he died some few weeks later, I was informed of this. I had not spoken to him since he left the apartment. The one thing he left behind was the memory of a man who both loved his son, an artist, and who was a proficient trumpet player and composer. He may have left this world behind but in return God has another faithful follower in his kingdom and I have nothing but fond memories of our times together and our thoughtful conversations. Now I walk just because I can.
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@Namelesss (3365)
• United States
3 Mar 16
This is a beautiful testament to your friend and to yourself for recognizing the value of his determination. It's true how easy it is to take for granted those things that come easy to us. Walking is only a chore when you can do so easily. My hat is off to your friend.
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@lookatdesktop (27134)
• Dallas, Texas
3 Mar 16
The reason I can so easily relate to this is that my father had Polio as a child and this left him walking on crutches the rest of his life. He was a powerful force in my life in spite of his disability. It did not stand in the way of his ability to work and support a large family. He was my rock of stability I could depend on throughout my adult life.
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@lookatdesktop (27134)
• Dallas, Texas
3 Mar 16
@Namelesss , It is sad but sobering that we often take for granted our own blessings.
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@Namelesss (3365)
• United States
3 Mar 16
@lookatdesktop Your father belonged to that class of people who never gave up. My mother also had polio as a child, she didn't need crutches but had to wear a built-up shoe and fell many times but that didn't stop her working and taking care of her family either. Looks like we have some common ground.
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@lookatdesktop (27134)
• Dallas, Texas
2 Mar 16
Of course. Walking is a naturally stimulating activity and we should try it when of course, we feel good, not when we are ill or tired of course.
@xFiacre (13020)
• Ireland
2 Mar 16
@lookatdesktop I hope I can meet my earthly end with a great attitude.
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@lookatdesktop (27134)
• Dallas, Texas
2 Mar 16
I think you will. It's all part of being able to accept yourself without guilt or self hatred and be calm and at peace with your inner voice, your conscience.