Conundrum

March 16, 2016 12:12pm CST
I wrote previously about a potential work opportunity. After being at home full-time for nearly 16 years, it would be quite a change. I've oscillated back and forth about what to do. I thought it was out of my hands as I hadn't heard anything for awhile. I honestly hoped they had went with the other candidate. Today I received another message asking if I was interested. Lately, I've been feeling the financial burn, the struggle, the stress. Working full-time, doubling our salaries would be such a wonderful thing. However, I think of all that I would lose. I wish I could find something just like this opportunity, but part-time instead of full. I don't think I'm ready for that jump back into full-time. I liked it better when I thought it was completely out of my hands.
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• Stanton, Kentucky
22 Mar 16
You're an awesome Mom so your kids will thrive no matter what you decide.
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23 Mar 16
Thank you. Once again, I've given up "the dream," and passed on the job. So here I am broke. :-)
@xFiacre (13152)
• Ireland
16 Mar 16
@jillybean1222 Having no choice is sometimes easier.
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16 Mar 16
yep! exactly! I was happy when he didn't offer me the job last month!
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@Tampa_girl7 (50525)
• United States
18 Mar 16
Pray on it. You will choose what is right for you.
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@JudyEv (342088)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Mar 16
This is a tough one isn't it? Doubling a salary is pretty tempting I would think.
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• Mumbai, India
16 Mar 16
@jillybean hey did you answer to their job opportunity ? I feel you should dress up and show up there and leave the further to destiny . But don't lose the opportunity which many are waiting desperately for !
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• Mumbai, India
16 Mar 16
hey did you answer to their job opportunity ? I feel you should dress up and show up there and leave the further to destiny . But don't lose the opportunity which man are waiting desperately for !
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• United States
16 Mar 16
You will have to find a part time thing then Jilly. It is great that they are contacting you though. There were many jobs in the past I did not want that I got.
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@Juliaacv (51359)
• Canada
16 Mar 16
It is a tough decision, but follow your heart, and do what is in the best interest for you and for your family. Good luck.
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@marlina (154131)
• Canada
16 Mar 16
That is one BIG decision to make. Good luck.
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@LadyDuck (472074)
• Switzerland
16 Mar 16
I can understand, if you had no choice you also would not have the stress to decide.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
16 Mar 16
I understand your lack of confidence as you haven't worked for so long, but why not give it a go? You can always quit if you decide you can't cope, but you may regret not trying.
@TheHorse (220245)
• Walnut Creek, California
26 Mar 16
Have you discussed (with them) the possibility of doing it part-time?
@paigea (36315)
• Canada
26 Mar 16
You do sound unready to do this right now. If they won't agree to part time, it might be worth trying. One can always give notice and quit after a couple of months if it just isn't working. It would let you know for sure if you are ready or not.
• Mumbai, India
16 Mar 16
Firstly i guess its a sign that you have contributed enough for others and its time you do some self caring and nurturing as well . I am sure you are feeling as if it would have been better to have a mixture of the life before getting this job and also working as well . But at-least step up for this golden chance acknowledging the fact - that the person there wants "You " and feels that nobody can do the assigned work better than you . Hence he has chosen you above all !! Please don't miss this chance and let yourself accept this challenge !! All the best !!
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
16 Mar 16
A tough one the.Hope you figured this out.