Close but not too close
By acey
@twentysix76 (674)
Quezon City, Philippines
March 18, 2016 5:26am CST
This pertains to the reunion I went 2 years ago, I can't imagine someone who is that close to me as If she was your family, and now felt like we're completely strangers, I don't if she's shy or I don't know what her reason but there's this awkward feeling , we just exchange our Hi and hello's . Do you have any experience like this?
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@Lazyblogs (494)
• Chandigarh, India
18 Mar 16
People tend to distance themselves away after sometime if they are not in contact . I had many school friends but now seeing them in college ..feels like they never knew me . Time changes everything.
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@twentysix76 (674)
• Quezon City, Philippines
18 Mar 16
yeah I agree, though time doesn't change my feeling about them, maybe it's because we are not all the same and has different personalities.
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@makaujackson (64)
• Nairobi, Kenya
18 Mar 16
Isn't it weird.. I had the same exact feeling when i met my high school g/friend after 6 years. So much had changed and it was like meeting a stranger..
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@twentysix76 (674)
• Quezon City, Philippines
18 Mar 16
i agree, looking back you share a lot , and talk almost anything under the sun then after all the years flown , you expect that nothing has changed between you and her but you got the exact opposite as you see each other again .
@makaujackson (64)
• Nairobi, Kenya
18 Mar 16
@twentysix76 I guess its true what they say.."Time changes things."
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@MGjhaud (23240)
• Philippines
18 Mar 16
@twentysix76 i find it normal really but not offensive. i understand that we mature in some ways afters years and years of dealing with different kinds of people, jobs, problems.. we are no longer childish after 12years.
maybe she was waiting for that moment that you two can start catching up but never really happened.
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@twentysix76 (674)
• Quezon City, Philippines
18 Mar 16
12 years, I don't know the reason it's just that our communication stopped when she left to study at her province.
@twentysix76 (674)
• Quezon City, Philippines
18 Mar 16
@MGjhaud I warmly approached her, and sit beside her to catch up on the years , but the response is dry. well, maybe a second meet up will do, though we are both busy with our family. Hope she'll open a facebook or twitter perhaps for us to have a chat.
