Love Life Broadcasted in Broadway Daylight: Are You? / myLot

Philippines

April 4, 2016 8:26pm CST

One of my friend usually updates her love life in broadway daylight in Facebook. It seems strange for her to post everything she does. As for me, I feel a bit strange for her to let her life in open book online. I can’t even tell her that she needs to keep something about the relationship. With her own opinion, she wants to show how proud of her to be in such position. I didn’t say anything about it further. I could see in her face she’s so happy of what’s going on to her love life. How about you, guys? Is it necessary to broadcast her life in social media in a daily basis? I guess I need her to introduce myLot and share her story.

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LK2018

@Letranknight2015 (52090)

• Philippines

5 Apr 16

That's is something that should be done in private and for the both of them only. I think she's just asking for attention besides her relationship with this man, but she is not aware of it. If you're proud, you don't have to exposed it too much.

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Shavkat

@Shavkat (140131)

• Philippines

5 Apr 16

That's what I wanted her to ponder. But then, she refused it.

Shayani Saha

@Shayani (250)

• Pune, India

5 Apr 16

When people are happy they usually want the world to know about their happiness and the reason behind it. But not everybody can give a warming cheers to your happiness!! It is very important to keep certain things away from outsider , since you never know the interpretation of others.

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Shavkat

@Shavkat (140131)

• Philippines

5 Apr 16

@Shayani It should not be shared always and set a limitation.

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jin

@Yar_Joey (3271)

• Philippines

7 Apr 16

I think she is insecure and needs others to share her happiness and joy. I don't think we should shout tothe world our everyday life and lovelife.

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Shavkat

@Shavkat (140131)

• Philippines

7 Apr 16

I can't also do this posting about personal love life. We need to secure the respect of our partner in life. He or she might not agree.

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Lee Ka

@kaka135 (14931)

• Malaysia

5 Apr 16

I am not sure to what extend she shares about her love life, I see some people just like to share everything with others. Perhaps she is just too in love and wants to tell everyone about it. I think you can introduce her to mylot, but I think if her discussions are all about her love life everyday, then I might not be reading it everyday. I am happy for her, but I don't feel like reading it everyday.

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Shavkat

@Shavkat (140131)

• Philippines

5 Apr 16

That's what I am thinking. All her topics are about love life. That's my feeling seeing her posts in facebook.

weird_oh_me

@LdeL0318 (6400)

• Philippines

5 Apr 16

Not everything. There should still be reservations. I am not against those people who posts everything but they should at least regulate it. I know some who would post sweet things about each otherr today and then tomorrow they already parted ways and then the next days you'll see them together again.

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Shayani Saha

@Shayani (250)

• Pune, India

5 Apr 16

People have been too much dependent on social media for every step of their life and they can not resist the temptation of getting likes from others when it come to sharing moments of your personal space. I truly feel , it is better to have a group of people to broadcast your life events , who actually know you in person rather than to hundreds of people whom you do not know actually exists or not.

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weird_oh_me

@LdeL0318 (6400)

• Philippines

5 Apr 16

@Shayani That's true. I usually have restrictioms on my posts.

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Shavkat

@Shavkat (140131)

• Philippines

5 Apr 16

@Shayani I agree. I had also suggested this. But then, she brushed off the idea.

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louievill

@louievill (28851)

• Philippines

5 Apr 16

Some thing should really be kept a secret

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Shavkat

@Shavkat (140131)

• Philippines

5 Apr 16

I agree. She needs to keep something for her.

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ingrid

@ridingbet (66854)

• Philippines

8 Apr 16

there are some things that should be left personal and private to us.

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Shavkat

@Shavkat (140131)

• Philippines

10 Apr 16

I agree. I also keep things for me privately.

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ingrid

@ridingbet (66854)

• Philippines

10 Apr 16

@Shavkat aside from getting the attention of the netizens, they will also get the ire of those who disagree with their love affair

slund2041

@slund2041 (3314)

• United States

5 Apr 16

Yes, you could invite her here, maybe she would share here.

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Shavkat

@Shavkat (140131)

• Philippines

5 Apr 16

I hope she will like it. She can earn while posting her thoughts.

Jabo

@jaboUK (64354)

• United Kingdom

8 Apr 16

I wonder what her man thinks about it? After all, it's his relationship too.

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Shavkat

@Shavkat (140131)

• Philippines

10 Apr 16

That's what also thinking. I saw the guy, he is quite agreeing the idea. I also find it weird.

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Marie

@Tampa_girl7 (50543)

• United States

8 Apr 16

It sounds like she needs attention.

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Shavkat

@Shavkat (140131)

• Philippines

10 Apr 16

I think she is. Although she is my friend, but I think it is her personality.

rakski

@rakski (126151)

• Philippines

7 Apr 16

Sorry, I am a private person.

No I do not post too much personal life in Facebook.

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Shavkat

@Shavkat (140131)

• Philippines

7 Apr 16

I also do the same thing. I had seen some posted on facebook that their life is an open book especially love life. In the end, they took a lot of time deleting it because the relationship didn't end that well.

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rakski

@rakski (126151)

• Philippines

8 Apr 16

@Shavkat privacy is one important thing that I will leave at peace. Though I post some events in Facebook, I see to it that it something that I felt at the moment and not the history of my family life or life per se.

It is difficult to disclaimed or unclaimed once different things happens.

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@acelawrites

@acelawrites (19272)

• Philippines

5 Apr 16

No, just important milestones for relatives and friends to see; not personal lovelife. She is too open about her relationship.

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Shavkat

@Shavkat (140131)

• Philippines

7 Apr 16

I agree. She should know what's really needed to be posted in Facebook.

Shayani Saha

@Shayani (250)

• Pune, India

5 Apr 16

I do prefer keeping privacy for things when it comes to my relationship. I have noticed people taking selfie of every single move of their life and broadcasting openly on Facebook or other social sites, But I would rather feel awkward to share my life with hundreds of people whom I know only as a Facebook friend. Even with my friends and colleagues I always maintain a distance when it comes to sharing personal life, happenings. You never know nowadays who is a well wisher and who is a secret enemy!! ;) But frankly I am not a show off personality being.

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@Shavkat (140131)

• Philippines

5 Apr 16

It is ideal for a person not to share everything. I am not also sure what's the feeling of his boyfriend about it.

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Shayani Saha

@Shayani (250)

• Pune, India

6 Apr 16

@Shavkat Many times you do not bother to think of your partners catch on all this things and also of his/her family, which should not happen since everyone have their own preferences and disliking.

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