On Deceiving Yourself

@cherigucchi (14876)
Philippines
April 15, 2016 2:50am CST
Look at yourself in the mirror. What do you see? Do you see a beautiful person with a happy and contented life? I want to believe I am because I really am! But of course there are some moments in your life that you have to pretend you are fine so as not to gravitate your miseries on others especially to those people you care about. I am mostly like that.
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@zaga_cleuth (1407)
• Philippines
15 Apr 16
I can raise my hand and say, yes, I feel the same . Some times, I don't want to feel like a broken-hearted girl but loneliness and negativity knocks once in a while. But, I make sure that it will last for long period of time so I could enjoy the rest of the day too.
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
18 Apr 16
We are only humans and we all have our own breaking point.
• Philippines
18 Apr 16
@cherigucchi Oops.. I should say I make sure that it will *not last for.... BTW, yes, breaking point, but don't allow that to break you. Sometimes, loneliness and sadness is ok, because that is the time when people are thinking so deep, realization and acceptance will knock which is one of the best thing.
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
18 Apr 16
@zaga_cleuth Reaching one's breaking point does not necessarily mean breaks someone. It simply means that one has to make decisions whether to continue or do something about the situation.
@AkoPinay (11542)
• Philippines
15 Apr 16
I can easily pretend online but in person I find it difficult to pretend being happy when I am not.
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
18 Apr 16
There are really some cases that we just cannot pretend.
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
15 Apr 16
Yes, whenever we go out of the house we have to put on a happy face so we cannot radiate a negative vibe that can affect also the mood of someone you will meet .
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
18 Apr 16
True enough and I do not see anything wrong with that because I also do the same whenever I have to.
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@Shavkat (140102)
• Philippines
15 Apr 16
At this point, I am starting to love myself and be happy.
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@Shavkat (140102)
• Philippines
18 Apr 16
@cherigucchi I am struggling my dear friend. I am still hurting deep inside. I felt my world is upside down. Thus I had learned for having a failure relationship with my ex-partner.
@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
18 Apr 16
That is good to know and I hope it stays that way.
• Philippines
15 Apr 16
I look at myself and I started seeing this old me, which I've never seen before until I look closer. but i am happy because I feel free from pressure and live relax and comfortable life.
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
18 Apr 16
That is good to know and I hope you keep it that way.
@LadyDuck (471969)
• Switzerland
15 Apr 16
In front of the others I am always fine, I keep my problems for myself.
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
18 Apr 16
You are not the only one here. Sometimes I feel like I do not need to burden others of my own burdens.
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