what should I do ,my parents' continuing insult me

April 21, 2016 8:26am CST
In recent years my parents keep insluting me everyday by words. they call me coward, whore,neuropath many times everyday ,even when they saw me go back from work ,they said this kind of words instead of hello. I really can't bear it and want to change my job and move out of my hometown . How do you think about it .sorry for my poor english .
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@akalinus (43366)
• United States
21 Apr 16
I think you should be around people who value you as a person. Try to make friends with people who see your worth. It is sad that your parents treat you that way. Maybe try telling them how much it hurts you.
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21 Apr 16
sometimes the more I felt angry and being hurted ,the more serious they behaved
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@PrarieStyle (2486)
• United States
22 Apr 16
Just move out, you shouldn't have to move to another town. Just move out and don't see them as often.
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22 Apr 16
thank you all guys for your suggestions. mylot is such a nice place.I think I will move out of my home, to let both of us have own space.
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@Shavkat (140129)
• Philippines
21 Apr 16
You can try to talk to them. I am sure things will straighten up.
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21 Apr 16
thank you ,i will try
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
21 Apr 16
well why are they doing t his.Are you doing something that they do not like. Do not haste.Can you work it out with them. Your English is not bad.The more you do the more you learn
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@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
21 Apr 16
Talk to them. If it doesn't help then move out!
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• India
21 Apr 16
Yup it feels so destructive at that tym. .......what I do is juzzt simply IGNORE......or try to stay outta their way
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@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
4 May 16
Parents are always like that. I think when you move out or get married and have your own family, you will not face them so often. It is just too bad that the housing price is so out of reach for many young people. Perhaps you can lock yourself in your room when you get home.
@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
5 May 16
@AlisaHong1988 I think you can apply for cruise job in this case. You will get to live and work onboard a cruise, and get away from your parents.
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5 May 16
yes,I used to lock myself in my room.But that can not solve the whole problem.I had resigned.
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@TheHorse (220289)
• Walnut Creek, California
24 Apr 16
They probably want to see you "do well." I would let them know (politely) that their words hurt you, and then "show them" by doing well at what you love to do.