I Love You But You Love Somebody Else

broken heart
@Shavkat (139672)
Philippines
April 23, 2016 9:20pm CST
It is so typical to have a relationship for loving someone but he or she loves somebody else. At first, the relationship seems so perfect. Both of you are loving one another as if having a world without anybody else. Years passed by, the relationship leads to sour, something happened and puzzled for what makes the world turned upside down. Eventually, a partner took the chance to have the last option by breaking up the relationship and moved on to their lives. For those people who can’t accept the fate in being heartbroken will remain loving that particular person forever. Since he or she got used to love her or him and no persuasion will happen. At the end of the day, the first thing the person should think of is to love oneself and learned to stand up on his or her feet. The mere fact, a partner who broke your heart is a certified heart breaker. Photo Credit:
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Go Crossbones
@crossbones27 (49381)
• Mojave, California
24 Apr 16
You have to love yourself if you are going to love anyone else.
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (139672)
• Philippines
24 Apr 16
I agree. We need to value ourselves.
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peggy baker
@softbabe44 (5816)
• Vancouver, Washington
24 Apr 16
It really hurts one when that happens
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (139672)
• Philippines
24 Apr 16
But we need to go through of bring hurt.
peggy baker
@softbabe44 (5816)
• Vancouver, Washington
27 Apr 16
@Shavkat It will help you get through it
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (139672)
• Philippines
27 Apr 16
@softbabe44 Thanks for the encouragement. I am on my way there.
Sherry
@norcal (4889)
• Franklinton, North Carolina
24 Apr 16
Giving you heart is always a risk. I think it is even more of a risk to hold back for fear of being hurt.
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (139672)
• Philippines
24 Apr 16
I agree. We need to prepare ourselves for the unexpected things will happen in loving someone.
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Sanaa Agrawal
@Sweetsona (300)
• India
4 May 16
Beautiful thought.. Fear doesnot let us embrace happiness sometimes
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Nehal intodia
@gochunehal (782)
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25 Apr 16
Yeah!!in my case i love somebody but he love somebody else.it is just a painful feeling. I got to know about this in the middle of our relationship so it just..
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (139672)
• Philippines
26 Apr 16
It is really heartbreaking. The feeling of being lost in this world.
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (139672)
• Philippines
26 Apr 16
@gochunehal I know what it is coming from. I've been there too.
Nehal intodia
@gochunehal (782)
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26 Apr 16
@Shavkat yeah its really heartbreaking.. Seriously when i got to know about it i was just lost.. I don't know what to do..
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Gaurav Chawla
@gauravchawla (42)
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24 Apr 16
hi @Shavkat ... One cant give anyone what he/she doesn't have, if you know how to love what ever you are, only then can you give love to anyone else. A relationship does not mean that you give and expect it back, when you give love because you want to, because you love ... and its a constant high aimer .. as humans always wish for more in return, one should always set new and higher goals/aims to give first, than receiving. Truly... if the person loves you back, it means its from both sides.... its like you clap with two hands, not one.. it makes a clear distinction between love and infatuation or one sided love. and yes egos are big, keeping account who did what is a clear indicator of that.... i believe if you love someone you would want that person to be happy, immaterial if they reciprocate it back to you, I would rather raise the level of my love ... stay happy :)
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (139672)
• Philippines
25 Apr 16
Thank you my dear friend. I will take your advise.
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Gaurav Chawla
@gauravchawla (42)
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25 Apr 16
Sanaa Agrawal
@Sweetsona (300)
• India
4 May 16
Letting go is the key to a better life.. N forgiving makes you feel good
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (139672)
• Philippines
5 May 16
That's the hardest thing to do. I did forgive and let go. But I never forget it.
Sanaa Agrawal
@Sweetsona (300)
• India
5 May 16
@Shavkat forgiving doesnot mean u forget them.. U just peace with ur past so that they dont haunt u anymore.. Just stay with u as a memory,
joy
@MGjhaud (23240)
• Philippines
24 Apr 16
people come, people go. hard fact, it is what it is. and you know what they say, every ending is a new beginning so lets keep in mind our self worth and move on.
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (139672)
• Philippines
24 Apr 16
I agree. But we need to be aware of it too.
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Patsie Hatley
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
26 Apr 16
yes in that case you must move on love yourself respect yourself and look for someone who will love you the wa y you should be loved.I ha ve been so lucky as the man I loved loved only me and for 33 years we had a wonderful marriage widowed now f or long time
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (139672)
• Philippines
27 Apr 16
@Hatley I know there is someone out there who will love me the way I wanted to. I can't wait for that perfect timing.
Teep11
@Teep11 (7673)
• United States
24 Apr 16
It's important to love ourselves but everyone wants to be loved. In fact God didn't companionship for man. So we're created to love. Sometimes couples allow issues to dissolve the relationship but relationships can be salvageable
Judy Story
@jstory07 (139483)
• Roseburg, Oregon
24 Apr 16
It is sad when you love someone that is in love with someone else.
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (139672)
• Philippines
24 Apr 16
It is so hard to this kind of love situation.
Erly Maglangit
@cacay1 (83394)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
25 Apr 16
So.. it is better to have love and lost, than never to have love at all..as the saying goes like that.
jin
@Yar_Joey (3271)
• Philippines
24 Apr 16
I had some failed relationships, but we broke up mutually, and we set the records straight. I want them to be my friends again but my recent wanted a reconciliation and I do not like it anymore. We had differences
Jay Kaur
@mavlana (1019)
• India
24 Apr 16
The worst problem faced by relationships is ego.No one is ready to pour oneself, only illusion of love exists ...not the love.
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Alex Blanco
@adlexdavao (16)
• Davao, Philippines
24 Apr 16
Let go. Why do you cling to pain? There is nothing you can do. It is not yours to judge. Why hold on to the very thing which keeps you from hope and love?
Toni
@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
24 Apr 16
Love yourself more and love yourself first. I have always believed in that. The moment you value yourself, others will love you too.