Which is easier????

I agree with you to a certain extent. Love does exist it is just very hard to find in this day and age because there are so many selfish people out in this world. Yes it is impossible to love someone else if you don't indeed love yourself first. I think too many people jump into relationships without even getting a chance to learn who they are and what they truly want in life. Many people look on the outward appearance and think that is all it is to it. Its crazy because these types of people will never be happy.

@mavlana Truly wish it was a way that we could just magically push a button and everything would be better.

@llwilkins But we don't have or I can say that we don't wanna have.

Great comment Claudia. I saw a fb stat the other day and it made me want to ask others what they thought. I believe in keeping it real. There is no point to be with someone just because. I would rather be in a real relationship and be loved and be able to give out that same kind of love received. There is nothing like feeling loved and knowing you love the person just the same.

@llwilkins Absolutely! When you're in the right relationship with the right person, nothing else even matters anymore :)

I totally agree. I have seen so many relationships go this route. People are staying because of money or because of not wanting to hear someone say I told you so. It is possible that you could fall in love eventually but who wants to take that chance. Your life could have passed you by and you are still waiting to fall in love.

@llwilkins love is not in everyones destiny but you should be clear about this thing. pretending love is more harmful than not loving, may be i never get my true love in life, there are also some other feelings that i can enjoy like friendship etc

Totally agree Dena. And you hit the nail on the head when you said you have to love yourself first. If you can't love your self it is impossible to love someone else b/c for one you truly don't know what love is. Everything starts with us first.