Where's the Party?

By Toni
@toniganzon (72281)
Philippines
May 6, 2016 5:04am CST
When was the last time you partied so hard? The last time I did was two years ago and it was with my best friend. But for some reason I just didn't enjoy that as much as I did earlier in my life. Everywhere I looked, I could see young kids and I felt so old. I felt I didn't belong there anymore. I was 36 then.
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@ida123 (6206)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
6 May 16
That was many years ago, after graduation and having a job and after that, no more.
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
6 May 16
Yeah, it seems that you got too busy.
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
6 May 16
@ida123 I understand. And someone here made a comment regarding partying doesn't have to do with age. It does actually, especially when we reach a certain age that we don't seem to belong to a teenage party anymore.
@ida123 (6206)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
6 May 16
@toniganzon Not really busy, my son accompanied me to attend a party but when I was there, almost all the people there were under 30's, I was so embarrassed, I don't belong there and I leave the party so early.
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@shaggin (72131)
• United States
6 May 16
Is this a recent photo of you and your friend? I am 32 but I look a lot older then most people my age. I liked that as a teen but I hate it now lol. The last time I really partied was at my father in laws end of summer / labor day party. I honestly just don't ever want to do that again lol.
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@shaggin (72131)
• United States
7 May 16
@toniganzon Both of you are gorgeous! I never would have guessed you were 36 in that photo. I look much older then you at 32.
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
7 May 16
@shaggin thanks for the compliment. Makeup does its magic lol
@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
7 May 16
That photo was taken two years ago and that was the last time I went out with her at a club. I'm 38 now.
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
7 May 16
Now that you mention it, I've never been much of a party person. Those days of being 30 something are just a dim memory now.
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
17 May 16
@Orson_Kart The gap is getting wider and I'm afraid I've lost my party moves.
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
8 May 16
someday i'll get older and i'm not sure i'd even remember those partying.
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• United Kingdom
16 May 16
Some of us have to get our fun vicariously these days!
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• United States
22 May 16
You sure don't look 36! You look very young then and now too I cannot remember the last time I partied, probably in high school?
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
22 May 16
@infatuatedbby I quit smoking long time ago. Realised i was wasting money on it.
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
22 May 16
I'm a late bloomer. Never partied when I was in high school. I learned drinking and smoking (sshh it's a secret) when I was already a university student.
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• United States
22 May 16
@toniganzon I never smoked before but I ranked a little at some parties back in high school. Shh, I am not a fan either only some shots.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
6 May 16
You got a classic beauty Toni . The short hair looks so good on you .
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
6 May 16
Thank you D. Trying to grow it back now.
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
7 May 16
Is that sytle what they call "bob hair" ?
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
7 May 16
@sunrisefan The bob cut, yes.
@skysnap (20153)
6 May 16
it must be during the graduation. that's the time when i enjoyed the most i was 23 at that time :)
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
6 May 16
and after that? You still go out to party once in awhile don't you?
@annierose (21583)
• Philippines
22 May 16
Great picture! I do not remember when was the last party I attended to. I am a quiet person and others mistaken me as boring because I do not talk much Actually, I have many things to say but I just cannot articulate it a lot, so I just prefer to be quiet and read a book than to talk.
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@annierose (21583)
• Philippines
23 May 16
@toniganzon I got a bad experience when I was a child that it made me reluctant to speak at all. My mind is cluttered with ideas that overlap each other. I sometimes come out with funny/confusing tagalog sentences that made my other playmates laughed at me and then bullied me afterwards. So, whenever I am with a group of chatty and loud individuals, I get intimidated easily. I tend to listen more than to speak.
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
23 May 16
@annierose I still think you should get over it and enjoy a better life with more confidence.
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
23 May 16
You must learn to express yourself. People would love you more when you do.
@allknowing (136425)
• India
7 May 16
I hardly socialise these days. The only party I throw is for the poor kids during Xmas.
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@allknowing (136425)
• India
7 May 16
@toniganzon One of the photos of the several parties I threw for these kids over the years.
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
7 May 16
@allknowing bless your soul
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
7 May 16
Wonderful
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
7 May 16
I can't remember the last time I did, it's been years. Nice photo.
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
7 May 16
@toniganzon Nice person in the photo
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
7 May 16
@kevin1877uk I just forced you into saying it.
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
7 May 16
Nice photo or nice people in the photo?
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@skysnap (20153)
6 May 16
it must be during the graduation. that's the time when i enjoyed the most i was 23 at that time :)
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
6 May 16
And no partying after that anymore?
@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
7 May 16
@skysnap wow you were too young.
@skysnap (20153)
6 May 16
@toniganzon no. just work. struggle. lack of sleep and random restaurant going .. no party and dancing.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
6 May 16
Which one is you? I was never one for clubbing, but did like to dance. Nowadays it's more going to dinner or a show.
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
7 May 16
I'm the one with my hair tied in a ponytail.
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
7 May 16
@jaboUK It's because most people here already know my face. So i see no further explaining which one is me. And my avatar helps too. You're the very first person who asked which one is me.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
7 May 16
@toniganzon Thank you - it's helpful if you explain who is who when you post personal pictures. It's a good photo.
@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
6 May 16
When did i partied? Hmm. Nah..lol
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
6 May 16
YOu're a goody toe shoes girl!
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
6 May 16
@Lucky15 yeah you do look like it.
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
6 May 16
@toniganzon i am one of those who would just read or sleep
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@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
8 May 16
You are almost 40? You can pass for 20s.
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
8 May 16
Yes i'm 38. Born in 1978.
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
8 May 16
@JohnRoberts Well thank you. But fine lines and wrinkles are showing up on my face already. The camera's not just capturing it right.
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@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
8 May 16
@toniganzon You are doing an excellent job maintaining a youthful appearance.
• Quezon City, Philippines
22 May 16
They say when we reach 30 we get to enjoy the bed more on a Friday night than the loud music at the bar. I guess the last time I partied sooooo hard was about 3 or 4 years ago, and not enjoying it too as much as I did when I was in my early 20s.
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
22 May 16
It's the first time I heard about this hahaha. i enjoyed partying till i was 36 hahaha.
@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
22 May 16
@manyshadesfgrey It was still the crazy bar hopping up until i was 36. After that, not anymore coz i feel that the crowd is getting younger and younger. That photo of mine was taken two years ago when I was 36 lol! I think I was 34 when I was too drunk and slept inside the car coz i couldn't drive anymore.
• Quezon City, Philippines
22 May 16
@toniganzon hahahahha but you'll agree that it wasn't the crazy bar hopping, and getting drubk anymore. :)
@maezee (41988)
• United States
10 May 16
Cute photo! I haven't really partied "hard" in a long time. I still go out to bars, and this weekend I stayed at a few bars until close, but I am careful about what I drink. I always want to remember what I did the day before, and I never want to feel super sick the next day. It just doesn't seem worth it to me. You can have fun without becoming "fall down drunk" - but I have certainly had my days of that (far behind me). Lol.
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
10 May 16
I still have an occasional drink or two but my evenings are mostly spent on business meetings than partying lol
@Orson_Kart (6776)
• United Kingdom
16 May 16
I can't remember the last time I partied 'hard' Not sure I am still up to it.
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
17 May 16
I don't enjoy it anymore as much has i did when I was younger.
@CRK109 (14556)
• United States
7 May 16
Probably my wedding! lol We had a lot of fun at that party :)
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
7 May 16
Oh I love wedding parties. It makes me happy to see newly wed couples looking so happy.
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@CRK109 (14556)
• United States
7 May 16
@toniganzon I feel the same way! It's a wonderful time for everyone :)
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
8 May 16
@CRK109 Happy times.
@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
6 May 16
and you look so pretty, my dear.
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
6 May 16
Thank you. That's the magic of makeup, we can all look good and feel good at one time in our lives.
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
6 May 16
@ridingbet coming from a beautiful lady herself, thank you.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
6 May 16
@toniganzon no, sans make-up, you look radiantly beautiful
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@Yar_Joey (3271)
• Philippines
7 May 16
Let us just enjoy the party even if we are with younger people.L
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
7 May 16
Not with loud music and bodies rubbing against each other
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@Yar_Joey (3271)
• Philippines
8 May 16
@toniganzon No, not that. I mean Karaoke-ing.
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
7 May 16
Beautiful girls!
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
7 May 16
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
7 May 16
Goddesses are!
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
7 May 16
@toniganzon No further comment :)
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