What kind of friend are you?
By solxee
@sol_cee (38219)
Philippines
May 11, 2016 1:10am CST
There are times when we keep our problems to ourselves thinking that sharing them with our friends would be baseless. Either they would be burdened with ‘our’ problem which we don’t want to happen or they wouldn’t care at all which would hurt us even more.
So I chose to be silent about my worries, booked a flight to HK to find myself in silence and never offered anyone an explanation. I posted a picture on FB and all hell broke loose.
Some friends claim that I’ve been so secretive.
Some friends even blocked me in social media thinking that I’ve become someone they don’t know.
Some even stopped talking to me.
The price I have to pay.
So what did I miss here on myLot anyway?
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37 responses
@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
11 May 16
when a friend came home earlier this year, the 5 of us met up several times. what's funny was they were seriously discussing whether or not to upload the pics on facebook and, if yes, what caption to write because other friends might feel bad that we got together without inviting them. in the end, they decided not to.
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
11 May 16
hahaha I can relate to this. When I went home last year, I couldn't have the chance to meet everyone so those I've spent time with were hesitating whether to post pictures on FB or not knowing that a few souls would feel bad. Complicated life. lol
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
11 May 16
@sol_cee Makes you feel awkward because those who were not around will feel jealous.
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@jobelbojel (36039)
• Philippines
12 May 16
Well, they aren't friends if they've blocked you on social media. If I am your friend, I will take things differently. I would ask you about your experience flying alone.
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@jobelbojel (36039)
• Philippines
12 May 16
@sol_cee that's my purpose actually. Hahaha. Just kidding. A pasalubong is sweeter.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
11 May 16
we all need a break, so you did what you needed to do. well, it has been good here, no problems
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
12 May 16
@ridingbet the friend could have no means of communication?
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
12 May 16
@sol_cee right now, i have a problem with a dear friend because this friend stopped communicating with me. i just thought if this friend does not need me anymore, i will fret a while, but my life must go on.
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
11 May 16
I'm the kind of friend who lends a listening ear. But mind you, don't abuse my kindness and cut off my ear to bring it home hahaha! Seriously, my first sentence is true but for now, I cannot offer you that listening ear coz I'll be taking a break here to water my plants. See you later to listen :)
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@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
12 May 16
@sol_cee well you know you can set viewing privacies to pictures right?
tbh, I have nosey people like the ones in your post as "acquaintances" and they never gets to see anything
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
12 May 16
@Drosophila where's the fun in posting? Kidding. I'd do that next time. Or there'll be no next time. At all.
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@crazyhorseladycx (39509)
• United States
11 May 16
when times're troubled, that's when ya learn who yer true friends're. i'd not fret the "loss" 'f the others. true friends stick by yer side, give ya space when needed'n understand such. what'ja miss? search me, i aint been here much myself the past few days. life's jest been too busy 'n that's a good thingy :) big hugs!
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@crazyhorseladycx (39509)
• United States
12 May 16
@sol_cee if'n i can get a pic'f one, lol. mercy if'n they aint most illusive these days when i've the camera!
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
12 May 16
@crazyhorseladycx can you do the mockingbird call?
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@antonbunot (11093)
• Calgary, Alberta
11 May 16
@sol_cee O, man, that's awful! O, you did not miss anything . . . as far as your friend (I consider you my good friend) Julito . . still making people laugh, giggle, but for sure some are sneering. hehehehe . . . so, you went to HK?! . . To meet someone special down there?!
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@antonbunot (11093)
• Calgary, Alberta
11 May 16
@sol_cee What?! You played the slots! Tsk tsk . . . A, it is okay if you play the slots once in a blue moon. Slot machine gambling will be my next post tomorrow . . . just took a break from doing my paintings today.
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@Missmwngi (12915)
• Nairobi, Kenya
12 May 16
I love keeping things to myself as well
If someone blocked you ha haa they were never good friends in the first place so let them be
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@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
11 May 16
You can't win so don't worry about it- Remember- you can't please all of the people....
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@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
12 May 16
@sol_cee True= be polite and please the people that matter but don't compromise what's important.
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
11 May 16
What could be the reasons for the actuation of your "friends"? I'm really curious. Do you have any idea why?
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
12 May 16
@sol_cee How come it's me who's lucky?
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