Argument while you start your day.
By Adil Mehraj
@Adilzargar (399)
14 responses
@Adilzargar (399)
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11 May 16
if its about something that is important thn its fine but some stupid issues drag you to an argument is always not nice.
@Adilzargar (399)
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11 May 16
@sol_cee that is what I usually do, but that too becomes a topic of discussion as the other person at times feels I am not paying attention to what he is saying.
@slayer08 (2377)
• Philippines
11 May 16
Did it happen here in mylot or elsewhere?
Well, one thing you have to keep in mind is you can never change the opinion of anyone. I always remind myself that a person convinced out of his will has the same opinion still so no need to keep it heated.. Laugh about it
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@slayer08 (2377)
• Philippines
11 May 16
@Adilzargar or you can just agree to disagree. :)
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@Adilzargar (399)
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11 May 16
it happened at my home, I tried to avoid because it was some stupid issue, but I was kinda forced to get into it so that the other person feels he is getting attention to what he was saying. but he was not ok with the difference of opinion. so, I just left in the middle of an argument as I could clearly see the tension building up between us.
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@Adilzargar (399)
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11 May 16
yes, bad day. now I am alrite as i hv been trying to divert my attention.
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@Shavkat (139827)
• Philippines
11 May 16
@Adilzargar You just ignore it. The more you entertain them, the more they will destroy your day.
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@Macarrosel (7498)
• Philippines
11 May 16
Sometimes we can't get out of it no matter how we've tried to stay away from it.
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@Adilzargar (399)
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11 May 16
it's so pathetic, and have to live with it, as these people are our loved ones and close to heart.
@DesirousDreamer (34776)
• Peoria, Arizona
11 May 16
I think it is better to start a day with an argument than to go to bed angry. Yes that argument may ruin the day but greater things can always happen during the day if you don't let it get you down.
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@DesirousDreamer (34776)
• Peoria, Arizona
13 May 16
@Adilzargar of course. arguments are never fun.
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
11 May 16
Yeah there are days like that. Keep your cool and just try to stay away like what I'm doing at the moment.
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@Adilzargar (399)
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11 May 16
trust me when I say this, I almost try to stay away most of the times. but sometimes we don't have a choice.
@sunny2211 (63)
• Mumbai, India
11 May 16
patience is very important thing in life, but if you always avoid the arguments the negative things will create house in your heart, and then suddenly you blast the emotion, its good to avoid the argument but not always, you need to understand that every relation need same feeling and same sacrifice at the end
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@mavlana (1019)
• India
11 May 16
@Adilzargar Yaa...it is deep rooted, but I actually hate it.
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@Adilzargar (399)
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11 May 16
its a common problem which everybody faces in day today life, but it really leaves its mark behind.
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@Adilzargar (399)
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11 May 16
@mavlana lets hope going forward there are no arguments.
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@sabashekh (1218)
• Bhopal, India
11 May 16
Sometime things go out of control ... No worries ... Everything will get better... Good day
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@sabashekh (1218)
• Bhopal, India
11 May 16
@Adilzargar yeah .. Time take its toll over issues :) GD
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@Adilzargar (399)
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11 May 16
yes, now everything is alrite, as times has passed now.
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@Sweetsona (300)
• India
12 May 16
Its life.. You never know whats coming. But its just a bad start, the whole day is left to enjoy and change the day
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@Adilzargar (399)
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12 May 16
was unexpected for me when it happened , but later everything was alrite.
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11 May 16
arguments are an inevitable part of life my friend. BUt the key is, even if you get stuck in an argument, go out for a while, or close your eyes and try to think clearly. Sometimes, apologizing even if it was not your fault helps. I do that with my husband most of the time. We start an argument, if it reaches out of hand, I go away and stand in the balcony and drink some water. I come back and say sorry and go on bout as usual with my work. Trust me, It works most of the time.
