Am I invisible?

I can get behind occasionally, but your posts are among the ones that I quickly scan for when I come on the site, as I look forward to reading them. I've a similar problem, which I am trying to formulate the words correctly to do a post on myself. But I have members that I follow and that I regularly read and comment on their posts, and they will reply to my comments, however, they fail to comment or like any of my posts. I don't want it to come across as an eye for an eye, you comment on mine and I'll return the favour, as that is very shallow, but it makes me wonder. Perhaps tomorrow I'll have the words just right to put this up. But honey, you are NOT invisible to me and I just LOVE your discussions!

I'm the same as you in that I reply to all responses on my post, no matter how long it takes. It just seems rude not to. I may unintentionally miss one here and there if they get buried at the bottom of a lot of comments, but I usually find it eventually. I think that people who ignore their responses are missing the point - this is supposed to be a discussion site. I'm afraid I will ignore people if I never get any feedback from them.

I try to respond to every comment I get. Sometimes if their the last ones on my discussion it just takes longer for me to get to them. Sometimes I don't see it in my notifications because I am focused on the more recent ones. It could just be an over sight.

Is it possible they just missed your comments?

Because most posts don't elicit a response. Many comments are generic. You don't always have something intelligent to respond with. Members can't job the system with nothing but Thank you comments. There should be no obligation to response to comments and understand nothing personal.

Or,you post discussions where some people feel they have nothing to add.I dont choose who the post is from, if i like a post i will comment , if i dont well i will pass it. So because someone replied to my post does not always mean l will reply to their post. Stop feeling ingored, you are not.

I'll take tea instead of coffee please! I have never liked coffee but I do like coffee flavored desserts, treats and candies, lol! I'm someone who tries to comment back but sometimes I may accidentally skip. As far as picking who to comment I check malt recent and go from there but as I go on different times the most recent always changes! And depending on the day I sometimes am not as active on myLot as I'd like. For topics I do not get a lot of comments then I guess it's because the post is lacking and I'll keep that in mind. But sometimes it's just a vent and I don't mind if people don't comment on it.

Hello @BelleStarr, I hope I am not one of the ones who ignore you! Sometimes I miss a few here and there. It also depends if it is a subject that I have interest in it or not.

I would not be too concern about this.I wrote a similar post.Not sure if you read ti

Either that is a big spoon or a small cup... Either way, the coffee looks most appetizing. Hope some of your comments have an impact, even if they draw no response.

Minisam talked about something very similar to this recently depending on exactly to what you're referring. I'll say that for me, I tend to hang with those that take time out of their day to come check me out and if they only do that when I stop by to visit with them, I'm okay with that as that's about the way I have to roll right now. I mainly have two somewhat good days to mylot each week, with a bit of time to interact here and there. For instance, I still have your response to one of my posts showing on my notification from May 7. I've been trying to visit with you for several days now, but my computer or browser I should say keeps crashing or loading, loading, loading until I finally give up. I've recently cleared my browsing history and cookies to see if that will help. So far so good, but... There are those that never, or rarely reply when we comment on their posts and a few that never come back to visit with us. For those folks, I choose to visit them less often than those that do stop by. If I could be here all day that might be different. Heading off to work now to see if I can work my shift. I have a sinus headache that is hanging on.

You make me want another cup. I do not discriminate. I return every comment that hits my discussions, sometimes I'm a bit late but I do catch up. What pisses me off if when someone leaves a comment and you know from what they say they didn't bother to read a word I wrote.. and yes I ever return the favor to them but I read their discussion first before commenting.

I try to make sure that I reply back to everyone. Even if the response or comment has nothing but a smiley. I do reply back. I think maybe you shed that shield that give you invisibility Or maybe share it with me.

I am new here, so I know I have never done this to you. But, I could not help but poke my nose on your post and be intrigued. I think it really just depends on the owner of the post. Maybe they didn't know what to say? I know that is a personal problem with me because sometimes I'll read it and my mind will go blank. As for how intense and busy this site is, they might have skimmed over it by accident or even just forgot. You are nowhere near invisible though. I promise you that much. Oh, and now I want coffee. Lol!

It defeats the whole object of being here if you do not respond to everyone who comments. That is the whole concept of a discussion.

They probably don't like you. Happens to me also.

Well, not giving excuses - but something it happens. I know many who don't comment on mine but I spend a lot of time commenting on theirs. I think it all works out eventually.

Cocoa. Coffee upsets my stomach. Just call me lazy.

I"m sorry if i am one of them. I've been so busy i haven't had time to read through everything (so I've tried to not post anymore either until I can catch up a bit)

I try to comment on posts, responses that catch my eye and without any discrimination. I am not as active as few here though. I understand your point and it is good that you spoke your mind - siva