What is the most memorable thing someone has told you during a break up?
By DJ
@Daljinder (23236)
Bangalore, India
16 responses
@toniganzon (72517)
• Philippines
16 May 16
Well here's one thing.... an email from the wife: leave my husband alone! hahahah how's that for being a memorable breakup?
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@toniganzon (72517)
• Philippines
16 May 16
@Daljinder how do you think i should have dealt with it?
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@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
16 May 16
@toniganzon pretty memorable indeed if not shocking. How did you deal with that?
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@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
16 May 16
@toniganzon Exposing him? Beating the crap out of him?
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
16 May 16
A lot of stuff has been served to me and keeps getting served. But sadly, it only makes me more obstinate....
I neither proposed to her to leave her, nor did I marry her to leave her...
If someone has to initiate the breakup, it has to be her (in my case of course).... and it is only then that I can find that "something memorable"... until then, I remember nothing
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
16 May 16
@Daljinder On the darker sides... what might be good for me, might not be that good for all
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@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
16 May 16
@thesids lol I hope you never have "something memorable " of this kind. Only good kind!
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@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
16 May 16
My first X told me on new years eve to "go and feck yourself".. I broke up with him due to the fact he was an insecure, possessive maniac.. and he didn't take it well.
recently he got in touch after years of non-contact.. I still wonder why or what gave him the confidence to talk to me again.. what a nutter!
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@Orson_Kart (6827)
• United Kingdom
16 May 16
@Daljinder I would beware of dating someone who is made up of the 3 words Pun, jab, eye. 
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@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
16 May 16
@Drosophila Was he that Punjabi dude? Only possessive one you talked about is him.
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@JudyEv (341742)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 May 16
@Daljinder Oh, what a shame. :)
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@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
16 May 16
@JudyEv Will look forward for that.
*ahem* there is nothing memorable on my side.... 
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@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
16 May 16
@Lucky15 typical lol Don't tell me you missed THIS opportunity too to kick him in the nads.
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@vandana7 (100526)
• India
16 May 16
@Daljinder ... God knows why but he felt like saying he will marry me...it took me back...others started talking...coz I was from Mumbai and he was from conservative background...may be he thought he would get free lunches. lol. DIDN'T. lol. Needed the job badly so put up with it for as long as I could and then outta there. lol
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@vandana7 (100526)
• India
16 May 16
@Daljinder ... You know I may be old fashioned...but after marriage it is strictly loyalty system...the person crosses boundaries...even to flirt, I get annoyed.
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@flapiz (23151)
• United Kingdom
18 May 16
Well it's the closest I have for a break up as I've never really had a boyfriend EVER. As guys here don't seem to bring up the relationship topic at all.
He said: "I'm sure you'll find someone better than me. Until then you're free to use me for your dirty fantasies." 
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@flapiz (23151)
• United Kingdom
19 May 16
@Daljinder It's amusing actually. I'm thinking of what dirty fantasies he is connoting? "Playing in mud?". It's pretty recent and thus the emoticon.
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@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
19 May 16
@flapiz Like the two emoticon, and you just shared, I have two reactions too.
lol I will bend towards the funny side No need to dwell on someone unimportant in the past.
and you just shared, I have two reactions too.
lol I will bend towards the funny side No need to dwell on someone unimportant in the past.1 person likes this
@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
19 May 16
@flapiz Dirty fantasies lol He is referring to kinky ones. lol Oooh recent one......You did mention in your post once that you keep getting hit on by guys like that.
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@Orson_Kart (6827)
• United Kingdom
16 May 16
Just thinking about it?
I am thinking about "it" most of the time.
How YOU doing?
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@Orson_Kart (6827)
• United Kingdom
18 May 16
@Daljinder When you say "it", do you mean "it" or "IT"?
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@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
16 May 16
@Orson_Kart Thinking about "it" myself. 
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@Bluedoll (16773)
• Canada
17 May 16
What is the most memorable thing someone has told you @Daljinder during a break up? 
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@Bluedoll (16773)
• Canada
17 May 16
@Daljinder nothing is something?
I was wondering why you posted this. I thought maybe you were looking for the right words to use to break up with me. 
I've gotten nothing so know what it feels like.
I've gotten nothing so know what it feels like.1 person likes this
@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
17 May 16
@Bluedoll Nothing. Unfinished business kind of thing.
@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
15 Jul 16
@Daljinder "If you ever date anyone else I will kill him and then you." I'm sure you can guess who said that to me.
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@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
15 Jul 16
@VivaDani13 Wow! Doesn't surprise me. That dude has issues. 
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@rina110383 (24492)
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16 May 16
My response to this discussion will be long. I'll copy paste the memorable parts of the breakup letter. I initiated the breakup and sent him I think 2-3 page breakup letter. Well, he did the same thing. It will always be the most memorable for me because we ended it not because of a third party.
I am so sorry that you were hurt by me. I did not at any time grow bored with you sweetheart, never. I think that my personality and quirks were just entirely too much to ask you to tolerate. You know what you want in your life and you deserve to have what you want more than anyone does, I just can't give that to you. The fights and arguments that we had were all two- way streets honey, they weren't caused by just you or just me. Honestly, I think that they were just a symptom of the deeper issues that we were both experiencing trying to make each other happy. I love you so much, but I understand more than most that love itself is just not enough. The things that you want and need for your happiness in a relationship, I just can't give them to you. You are such a beautiful, intelligent, wonderful, hard working, dedicated person, and I'd give anything if I could be the one that makes you happy in love. You were right about moving too quickly I think...I did and do love you Rina but I was not ready to give you all that you needed to be happy, and I should have known that. I'm sorry again for you being hurt...I hope that you know more than anything that I would never intentionally hurt you in any way.
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
16 May 16
how is my sister doing these past days? Busy as always?
I will not get to your earlier discussions on this, but the parts of the letter you put up here, I find you guys were good. I mean, at least you were practical, had a sight/vision and could trace out where things were going wrong. I know a breakup is sad to happen to anyone, but that is his version... and I know some of yours too.
Stay blessed, and be happy
I will not get to your earlier discussions on this, but the parts of the letter you put up here, I find you guys were good. I mean, at least you were practical, had a sight/vision and could trace out where things were going wrong. I know a breakup is sad to happen to anyone, but that is his version... and I know some of yours too.
Stay blessed, and be happy2 people like this
@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
16 May 16
@rina110383 wow! That is .....I have no words. I guess that is what we call a amiable break up. Are you two still friends? Or like you said earlier all the communications are cut off?
Thank you for the wonderful share Rina. Truly remarkable.
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@rina110383 (24492)
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16 May 16
@thesids Yep, staying busy as always.
It was one of the best until it ended.
Same wishes for you. I'm happy.
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@sathviksouvik (19663)
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16 May 16
Thanks DJ for the post. I did not have a break up. I dont know. May be, the partner can say I love you but I cant stay with you under the same roof.
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@vandana7 (100526)
• India
16 May 16
Oh no...not only that, they say they will marry you...they will marry you and none other, and they say it in front of many and finally they say they are joking. Fine..retreat...at least there is no loss. But then, they get married, and now bored with what they have on their hands try a double ride..that is when it becomes right to expose them, right?
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@vandana7 (100526)
• India
16 May 16
@sathviksouvik .. It is called cowardice and regrets. Got over it in fraction of seconds since regrets give a great deal of ego satisfaction. Loved exposing that to his wife though. lol. Beech that I am, destroyed the beauty of his marriage with one shot. lol
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@sathviksouvik (19663)
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16 May 16
@vandana7 Thanks Vannyji for the comments. The most frustrating part is that if the partner leaves for no fault of the other partner, what will the other partner do. I trust everyone in the world. When partners fail us, it is embarrasing.
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@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
15 Jul 16
He told me that I wreck his life, it's so sad and painful for me to here that from him but i need to end our relationship back then because of some personal reason.
