Why do lot of people loves meddling into someone else's business?

@slayer08 (2377)
Philippines
May 21, 2016 11:34pm CST
I feel ashame whenever I find myself trying to meddle into other people's business especially if it does not affect me directly and if someone will do the same to me, I would almost see myself barring my teeth and claws just to let people know that I don't need they noses in my business . It's very paradoxical. And I feel like an hypocrite every time.
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@Shavkat (139933)
• Philippines
22 May 16
I must admit that I am judgmental sometimes. But I stop doing it.I just don't mind other people and focus more on my business. If someone tried to disturb my silence, that's would be another story.
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• Xian, China
22 May 16
We can't decide what others do, but we can control our own behaviors.
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@slayer08 (2377)
• Philippines
22 May 16
@transcendent I like what you said. :) We do have control about our own but it is not easy to focus on ourselves rather than others
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• Xian, China
22 May 16
@slayer08 hahaha, has someone said to you "let me alone, just mind your own business"?
• Xian, China
22 May 16
Maybe people has a propensity of helping others and putting the foot in other's way.
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@slayer08 (2377)
• Philippines
22 May 16
Maybe.. how about you?
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@slayer08 (2377)
• Philippines
22 May 16
@transcendent that's good. I also do that but sometimes my eveil self shows up
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• Xian, China
22 May 16
@slayer08 I try my best to control myself. But I would like to convey praise about one person to another. As for what others say about me, I don't care if it will not affect me deeply.
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@rona07 (1641)
• Philippines
22 May 16
Yea some people really behave that way. It is irritating sometimes.. And sometimes.we also tend to juml in someones business then realize what we did afterwards.
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@rona07 (1641)
• Philippines
22 May 16
@slayer08 ahaha yep.. Guess most of us are doin this. We cant help.it sometimea
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@slayer08 (2377)
• Philippines
22 May 16
i know. I sometimes even have the tendency to snowball - just thinking about someone's business then it would bother me afterwards. lol
@slayer08 (2377)
• Philippines
22 May 16
@rona07 I know.. It is indeed a dreadful habit
@yaso4u (502)
• India
22 May 16
@slayer, Its human nature of voluntarily entering into another once life and preaching them. These people get satisfaction and happiness on this. Its better to avoid those kind of peoples and gets move on our way. Getting angry and wasting time with these people will spoil our health and wealth,
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@yaso4u (502)
• India
22 May 16
@slayer08 , hmm good option is to keep ourself engaged in something
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@slayer08 (2377)
• Philippines
22 May 16
@yaso4u yeah, i will try. mylot keeps me busy,. I wish I could do this in the office but that would be unfair to my employer
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@slayer08 (2377)
• Philippines
22 May 16
thanks! but I also have the tendency to meddle with someone's business - I'm keeping my own head uncluttered and hopefully it works.
@dwstory (1276)
• Roseburg, Oregon
22 May 16
I try not to meddle into others business. I leave that for others that like to be nosy.
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@dwstory (1276)
• Roseburg, Oregon
22 May 16
@slayer08 It is not nice to spread rumors about others.
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@slayer08 (2377)
• Philippines
22 May 16
@dwstory it never is..
@slayer08 (2377)
• Philippines
22 May 16
that's great. I'm not usually very nosy but it bothers me every time when I learn of something about someone else.
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22 May 16
If the other person cannot help with the suggestions the other person should not interfere in the business.
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@slayer08 (2377)
• Philippines
22 May 16
yeah.. pretty much what it usually is,. there are a lot of reminders and suggestions
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@slayer08 (2377)
• Philippines
22 May 16
@sathviksouvik I sometimes do and I feel bad about it.
22 May 16
@slayer08 Thanks Slayer, yes many people interfere in other persons affairs.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
22 May 16
I tend to meddle sometimes if I feel that someone is not right. But sometimes I'd rather shut my mouth and write my sentiments somewhere else instead. :)