My friend who robbed me few months ago is now in jail
@cacay1 (83577)
Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
May 22, 2016 3:47am CST
Maybe you still remember my post about my friend who begged me to have a one night sleep at home, and because, our bedrooms were all occupied, so I invited her to sleep with me, only to know the next day my ATM with inscribed password in the cover was stolen by her. My friend was at large for almost 7 months. This afternoon here, my police friend, texted me telling me about the theft. They apprehended her in our domestic airport after hiding in Malaysia with other druggists, her constituents.I told the police I will drop by in the city jail. She will be transferred to to Davao Penal Colony next week after seeing a city fiscal.
My ATM card contained almost 200,000 pesos. I had terrible nights and days after that traumatic experience. I will never trust anyone even a family member.
Can you suggest me, if it's okay to talk to my robber friend, or not? Thanks for your suggestion.
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@arthurchappell (44998)
• Preston, England
22 May 16
glad she got caught - i'd just leave her there in jail to rot - she sounds dangerous
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@arthurchappell (44998)
• Preston, England
22 May 16
@cacay1 you are best off leaving her for the authorities
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
22 May 16
@arthurchappell, She is indeed dangerous and she seems forgetting everything. I will see her tomorrow and proceed to city fiscal to file a case.There are many to sue her , her victims of robbery and frustrated murder. I am scared to know that she has a case frustrated murder. I am so lucky not harm during that evening when she was at home.
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@miniam (9154)
• Bern, Switzerland
22 May 16
I remember reading the post.Hope they throw him in jail for a long time,Friends don't steal from friends.Personally l have a temper so l will want to talk to him and tell him my mind and what l hope they do to him.
Maybe l will not want them to do the things l say to him, but i will say them to cause him pain the same he causes people he robs.
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@slund2041 (3314)
• United States
22 May 16
Why would you want to talk to your robber friend? I would have nothing else to do with the person.
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@slund2041 (3314)
• United States
22 May 16
@cacay1 Oh no... I think you should go identify the criminal, but not remain friends with her.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
22 May 16
@slund2041, I was told to go to identify it she was the one and to sign some papers for criminal charges to that robber. I supposed not to go, but I was texted to go.My sister and police brother will accompany me.Thanks friend.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
22 May 16
@slund2041 I already forgot my friendship with her. She is truly bad.Thanks dear.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 May 16
@enlightenedpsych2 , I already forgot my friendship with her. I do not know if she can face me today.She no longer has conscience. She has lost herself.
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@Yar_Joey (3271)
• Philippines
22 May 16
@cacay1 Yes I agree with you. People who we treat as our friends then do something bad to us need to explain to us why they did that but if it is a crime that they don't accept, it is better to give them the kick and report them to the authorities.
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@BlissfullySilent (476)
• India
22 May 16
god thats bad !! glad shes in jail now
i once had roomate who used to steal my stuff
i once had roomate who used to steal my stuff3 people like this
@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
22 May 16
@BlissfullySilent That is true and I wonder why she got involved addiction when she is a degree holder. She can find a better job.
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@crazzydolphin (3636)
• United States
23 May 16
I am not sure if after something like that I could talk to them again. They sound very dangerous and not someone you should be around. I think they are right where they should stay. I hope all worked out okay with your ATM card.
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@crazzydolphin (3636)
• United States
24 May 16
@cacay1 Identifying the suspect and actually talking with them are 2 different things. I would opt to identify them so there is a witness and everything so there is no chance of this person getting out to do it again but I would nto take the time to have a conversation with them like nothing happened. I hope that a whole lot was not stolen from you...That is a lot of money and a huge hassle...
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@crazzydolphin (3636)
• United States
24 May 16
@cacay1 Oh wow...Kind of like taking the easy way out I guess. It is what it is and I am sorry to hear that that happened but i am not sorry that she was tortured with her own guilt as that is what she deserved after doing what she did to others.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 May 16
@crazzydolphin, I am advised here not to talk to the criminal who robbed me. I supposed not to go but the police wanted me to identify the suspect. My ATM was being deactivated by the Development bank of the Philippines.Thanks dear for your great share on what to do with my problem.
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@ghostie2472 (252)
• Cebu, Philippines
22 May 16
My thoughts too. What is there to talk about anymore? Just leave her be and let the Arm of the Law take care of her. Seeing her will only open up old wounds. There is nothing you can do for her now. She made the choice, ran away and betrayed you. Leave her be.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 May 16
@Jackalyn and @ghostie2472, My siblings warned me too not to talk to the suspect. I supposed not to go, but the police who caught her wanted me to identify the suspect if she is really the one who robbed me.I am also told to sign a paper for the case before the criminal will be brought to Davao Penal Colony, a high facility cell.Thanks friends.
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@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
23 May 16
@cacay1 Ouch! Horrible news to get!!
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@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
22 May 16
It's up to you, I would have issue trusting her again
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@ghostie2472 (252)
• Cebu, Philippines
22 May 16
If I had a friend like her, I wouldn't have any issues trusting her again as I will NEVER trust her again.
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@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
23 May 16
@cacay1 well good luck with it, such a mad case. Hope you recover some money back
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 May 16
@Drosophila, I supposed not to go, but there was a second text from the jail police to come and further identify the suspect, and to sign some papers to push through the case.My brother, a police will escort me.Thanks dear.
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@Jessicalynnt (50523)
• Centralia, Missouri
22 May 16
Honestly, I wouldn't, and I'd probably never call them a friend again.
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@Jessicalynnt (50523)
• Centralia, Missouri
24 May 16
@cacay1 I hope you get whatever you need to get your finances straightened out
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@Jessicalynnt (50523)
• Centralia, Missouri
24 May 16
@cacay1 that's just....wow, Im sorry to hear it, I know she once was a friend.
@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 May 16
@Jessicalynnt, I no longer consider her a friend after she robbed me.I supposed not not to see her, but the police who caught her in our domestic airport wanted me to further identify her. I will also sign some papers for the case.Thanks Jessa.
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@ida123 (6206)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
22 May 16
If I were you, I won't see and talk to her. What's the use? She's a traitor, so she has to pay all her sins and besides, I don't want to see or talk to her, I'm afraid of what can I do or say to her, it might can destroy my trust and respect to everyone and I want to forget her so no need to see her.
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@ida123 (6206)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
22 May 16
@cacay1
So, you have to face her. But if she has no properties for sale and no money that can replenish the money she got from you, what will you do then?
Next time, if your atm was stolen from somebody, you have to give an advise to the bank to close your account so that the criminal can't get the money.
How does she know your PIN?
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
22 May 16
@ida123, I have to my dear because I am filing a case for her.Also , I want to ask her if she could return my money and if she has a property to sell so she could pay me and have her case be reduced. She has many cases including frustrated murder.
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@cheerfulnuts (604)
• Philippines
23 May 16
This makes my blood boil. I'm sorry that this happened to you, and I'm glad that your "friend" is in jail. I don't know if you have to talk to her. Just do whatever you think is right.
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@cheerfulnuts (604)
• Philippines
23 May 16
@cacay1 Oh no, that's horrible... I'm sorry.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 May 16
@cheerfulnuts Yes, dear, she should have waited me to confess her guilt and to know that I have forgiven her.I was so scared yesterday. I chilled in fear.
@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
22 May 16
@Shavkat, yes, those are very good descriptions of that person I no longer consider a friend.If I only have power to know her intention that night when she was at home, I will not surely allow her to sleep at home.I was not able to sense her face as having a strange action for I was so excited to see her again. She was my best friend during college after college for some years.
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@Ishani08 (563)
• India
24 May 16
Its always okay to talk to someone.
First of all, feeling very sorry to hear what happened with you by your friend. Betrayals cannot be easily forgotten. But as it is said that we should hate the sin not the sinner so, I would suggest you to talk to your friend and show her the right way of living by brainwashing her and would also suggest you to be very careful (in case you meet her).
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@Ishani08 (563)
• India
25 May 16
@cacay1 Yes, undoubtedly after what she did to you she could have never been able to face you!
Sad to see the most precious gift of God - LIFE , wasted for a petty reason. It pains me to see people who do not respect this gift which many long for!
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@aninditasen (16503)
• Raurkela, India
23 May 16
You may not or you may meet and ask him why did he do such a terrible crime.
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@aninditasen (16503)
• Raurkela, India
24 May 16
@cacay1 so you should avoid her.
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@anya12adwi (9847)
• India
22 May 16
No not at all.. but if you do, then be aware enough not be befooled again by trusting her
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 May 16
@anya12adwi In her cell in city jail.She was told I'd come to identify her as the robber.She might have been tortured by her guilt, and she cannot face me squarely.
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